Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

How can I get guy's attention!! What do guys like!!!

2007-01-06 11:22:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my girlfriend wit all my heart but im scared she is gonna hurt me again how do i learn to trust again i feel like thers no me without her shes my everything

2007-01-06 11:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do guys look for in a girl?
is it all about looks?
or does personality go into also?
describe your idea of the perfect girl please.


thanks,
Kay

2007-01-06 11:21:13 · 22 answers · asked by Kay ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

My marriage to this point has been bad. Verbal, emotional, and some physical abuse. Not to mention the constant fighting. My new years resolution was to get out of it. I already got my stuff together ( an apartment, a lawyer, a loan to pay for everything). I finally realized that I dont want to live like this and dont want my kids to live like that either. My 6 year old cries sometimes b/c she doesn't want to go home.

Apparently he watched some show on tv and is on this nice kick.
Saying that he wants to grow old together, etc.... I am feeling really guilty for my plans even though i know that people like him dont just change over night. but this is the 6th or 7th day and i cant remember the last time we have gone w/o a fight in that long.

This is not the first time i've left. Last time i fell for the nice guy and im gonna change act. it did not take long for the old ways to come creeping back I know i cant let this get to me like this but i feel sooooo bad.

2007-01-06 11:21:09 · 9 answers · asked by Miranda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, me and my boyfriend just started having sex. And I love it, and I love him. But he has a limited supply of condoms. Soooo I don't know what to do. I told him to get some but his parents will kill him if they find him buying any. My parents know about our relationship, but not that we're having sex. I went to this site JollyJohns.com and it looks real enough, but i was just curious if anyone has used it before. I'm worried about if they send it to my house, my parents will read the name on the box, and if it will say CONDOMS anywhere on it, or anything to give away the sexualness of it. I'd be dead. I just dont know what to do. SOMEONE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-06 11:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah F 1 in Singles & Dating

O my gosh I cant believe this is happening.I really like this dude,but....I dont think he likes me.And then again I like his brother,which I think he likes me because he flirted with me from like October- now.What should I do Im really desperate for answers.

2007-01-06 11:20:28 · 3 answers · asked by Lou Zerface- X-]p 2 in Singles & Dating

to go and have sex with someone at least reasonably attractive or less, would you do it with them???

2007-01-06 11:20:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think he will say yes if he asked me this question "why do u think i should go out wit u?"and im going to tell him this answer "because i do anything to see or talk to u."do u think he will say yes to me after i tell him that?

2007-01-06 11:19:32 · 7 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 11:19:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thing about it is his wife and I r friends and i hate hthe thought of hurting her if she ever found out it would kill her. What should I do?

2007-01-06 11:19:14 · 16 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well, see i was talking to this boy, for about 7months, we never got together because of his friend, messing things up, making either of us mad at the other one, so we were talking on and off for about 7months but I had always had feelings for his bestfriend, now i know its wrong but we started talking and it became more than just a friendship and we ended up going together which is my boyfriend now for a year with lov but yes now i havent talked to his friend in a year but i had got a "special call" from him the other day, we talked a little it was nice we didnt want to hang up but we didnt want it to turn into more than it should so we just ended the convorsation, but he acts like he wants to still talk to me, i cant tell if he's mad or confused, or what i just dont know,I know pple have told me that he's asked about me a couple of times but i think we both just want 2 talk 2 each other but,im just confused on how he feels, but if there's any men that can help me understand,please

2007-01-06 11:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 11:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Father died 3 months ago and my Mother is now 90 years old. She sometimes wants to stay in her home by herself. She changes her mind a lot. I want her to move to and Independent Retirement Community near her church and friends -- especially since her neighborhood is extremely dangerous, with gangs roaming the streets, and where there was an attempted break-in at her house. She sees the dangers and tentatively agreed, but my sister-in-law convinced her she should stay there alone anyway. Now my Mother thinks I'm trying to "put her in a home" and thinks she can safely stay at her home. (Everyone except my sister-in-law and brother agree with me that the independent living place would be best.) I've been beating my head against a brick wall and getting no where. I've decided to just let them have their way, but I worry about my Mother's safety and her loneliness. Any suggestions about how to deal with this situation?

2007-01-06 11:18:37 · 20 answers · asked by selfgovt 1 in Family

1.y do u want to go out wit me?
2.why do u think we should go out?
3.why do u think i should go out wit u?
they wernt in that order but..and he also said wut if i say yes?and then i said ill be happy and then he said wut if i said no and i said then ill be sad and he said really?and i said ya and he says wut if i still say maybe?and i said thats fine..but i didnt kno how to answer the questions last night when he asked me them so i wrote it down in a list and im going to tell him the answers when he calls..do u think he'll say yes??

2007-01-06 11:18:03 · 3 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday i was at the peir with my boyfriend first we ate then someone called my cellphone and it was my bestfriend chad since kindergarten he told me his mom had just died then my boyfriend never asked who it was then we went underneath the peir and sat in the sand in the water we went out farther and then he took off my bikini top, kissed me and called me a hoe for talkin to the other guy i tried 2 explain but he just went off i dont want to brake up with him tho cuz hes hott short blonde hair green eyes and hott a.ss abs. hes a surfer i dont know what i should do late that day 2 get back at me he came 2 pick me up at the beach where he left me he was talking on the phone and he said hey amanda im just piking up my cusin from the beach right now ill call you later. what should i do?!

2007-01-06 11:17:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The last 10 women I have dated want that .What is wrong here.Heck mite as well date men.They have the same thing.

2007-01-06 11:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by baljit2005masterblaster 1 in Singles & Dating

When in bed, my wife sometimes gets me really hot when she tells me about her past sex partners/boyfreinds and with detailed stories on where they did it and how they did it.

2007-01-06 11:16:46 · 30 answers · asked by maxsteel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking a girl out but i don't want to just say, "Will you go out with me". I need something that will flatter her. What would flatter you?

2007-01-06 11:16:23 · 9 answers · asked by PEPSI 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a single mum with three children who i live for 24/7 and people say this isnt healthy! why not? i decided to have children and i am taking this responsibility. if my children are happy and so am i isnt that ok?

2007-01-06 11:16:09 · 21 answers · asked by flubberlubberlubber 4 in Family

i relllllllllly need to now

2007-01-06 11:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by lilrissa200 1 in Friends

i met a guy on vacation. one night we talked the whole night about pretty much everything, and then hooked up eventually at the end of the night. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him to hang out. he came within 10 minutes, and we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything was intense, and eventually led to sex in the moment. after we had sex we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room. he knocked on my door about 20 minutes later to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him that i was with another guy. we didn't talk for the next two nights because he was upset. and eventually we met up again and talked the whole entire night and i explained to him how i was not with anyone else. we ended up having sex again, but this time he was more caring and talked a lot more, and then we layed together and he slept over. he wasn't with any other girls, and the next night we just hung out and kissed goodbye. after the vacation, we had talked a couple of times, and i wrote him a letter once saying if he didn't want anything to do with me then don't write back. he actually wrote back, and i actually even got to visit him. he acted the same exact way that he did on vacation, and he seemed really happy to see me. now 4 months later, he has a girlfriend. probably because we obviously can't be together, and i happen to be going to college by where he lives in august. what does all of this mean?

2007-01-06 11:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright, well there is this guy that i liked...and still do obviously...and we had a bit of a summer fling, and then all of a sudden he just up and stopped. It left me really confused, but he was obviously confused too, and told me that he was sorry, but he had just been trying to move on from the last relationship he had been in, in which his gf cheated on him. Anyway, the past few days we've been talking more and he's been making tentative plans (such as we are going for a walk at some point, and i'll give you a ride home one day so you can see my car etc...) with me. The problem is i'm not sure if he likes me for sure this time, and is now able to proceed because he is past his other relationship, or is he just trying to become friends again? he sounds sincere, but i just don't know. FYI...not actually talking, on MSN...but it's basically the same. I also say luvyaz to everyone when i sign out, and he said back at ya....so i don't know. suppose i shouldn't get my hopes up.

2007-01-06 11:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by dash! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 11:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by julie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am the other woman probably getting my own.When i started a relationship with my husband i did not originally know he was married for 6 months.I thought i was in love with him and had just gone through a terrible divorce .He told me he was sorry for not telling me but that he was seperated from his wife and he loved me.I believed him but was suspicious i stuck around for three more months and i was going to leave but then i found out i was pregnant.He told his wife and she divorced him.We got married and i felt everything would be fine but there seems to be a shadow over our marriage.I dont feel like i can trust my husband.I also feel like something is missing emotionally.At this point we have been married almost three years and i hate my marriage?

2007-01-06 11:15:12 · 16 answers · asked by Bella G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-06 11:14:36 · 14 answers · asked by sweet chick 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you feel afterwords that it just wasn't a big deal? It may not be something you'd do again but so what?

2007-01-06 11:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 11:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently found out I'm BiPolar. Before that I swung from high to low in my moods,and did some pretty whacked out things during my highs. I tried to keep most of the really intense stuff from my friend, but he's a smart guy and found out. No he's totally pissed! I guess he's dissapointed in my lack of judgement and will power. He's absolutely enraged with one of my girlfriends for allowing me to lose control, knowing what I was going thru. And now I'm feeling lost without him!
How can I save our friendship?

2007-01-06 11:13:10 · 9 answers · asked by mambi jamberoo 1 in Friends

he called me his Sex Bunny ...what makes it weirder is that i didnt even have sex with him, not ever. i kissed him a couple of times and we talk about having sex with eachother but we never actually did it. what do u think he meant when he called me his sex bunny?

2007-01-06 11:12:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pretty attractive, but what is the best way to kiss them if i just met them? Would offering them money or sumthing work?

2007-01-06 11:12:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating