The thing about it is his wife and I r friends and i hate hthe thought of hurting her if she ever found out it would kill her. What should I do?
2007-01-06 11:19:14 · 16 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh my gosh...totally soap opra...but i love it...very interesting..ive only seen these types of things on TV...well exept for this one time...well...if your looking the soap opra anwser...then keep seeing him...but if you dont want to hurt your friend..then stop...well..let me rephrase that....ok...youve already caused damage to your friend and to you mind...even if you do stop seeing him...your going to feel soo guilty about it youll have to tell her...so...i mean then right thing to do now is to just stop seeing ihm and tell your friend...if shes really ur friend then u wouldnt have done thins in the first place...
2007-01-06 11:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nasty females like you that cause breakups and court cases all over the USA. You are the most selfish person out of all of this. He doesn't love you, how could he? anyone that would lower them self to sleep with her friends husband can't be trust worthy. You are just one easy lay to him while his prize wife is getting all the benefits of being his wife (something you will never be) You are just the thrill people seek when they really have issues with themselves. If she found out it won't kill her, but it might kill you. Have you ever thought that. You should stop saying that she's your friend, because you can't be friends with anyone. You are to weak, lonely, deceitful and dishonest to be friends with anyone. You just better remember being a whore is no fun when the tables turn on you and it will. It's just a matter of short time. Have your nasty -SS thought about this? He called you an EX for a reason. You still is his ex. When this comes out in the open, just see how much he love your low -SS then. You ask this ? like you really have a problem. Well, you do and you need to seek God or a therapist. Please try both. You need to see why you don't love yourself and others.
2007-01-06 11:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By asking the question you indicate you know that that is not a healthy situation to be in. Not healthy for you, him, or his wife. And, you're right, if she finds out she's going to be very upset - she could feel hurt, confused (especially since you're her friend) or angry. She could feel all of that.
I don't mean to sound mean, but, he is your ex-boyfriend - it sounds like he made his choice when he married her. It also sounds like he's sort of immature because he wants her and you. He's like a little kid - he wants everything.
While it isn't what you want to hear, I kind of feel like you know the right thing to do. Break it off. Make it a final, clean break. Don't look back. And don't let him whine, beg, or whatever to get you back. And, statistics show, NO, they don't leave their wife for their mistress.
Forget about him - you're worth more that the life you have now. You deserve to have someone who loves you, and you alone. He's out there.
2007-01-06 11:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and this married man are involved in adultery. This is a serious sin that hurts a lot of innocent people. God will not hold you guiltless for this.
Get out of this affair immediately and repent. You have committed a most grievous sin against God, this married man and his family. You will be punished for this. You will reap the bitter fruit of this sin. REPENT!!!
2007-01-06 13:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, stop being a homewrecking whore and leave him alone. If he loved you he would divorce her and be with you now wouldn't he???????????? Actually, if he loved you...you and he would be the ones that are married. And don't say that you and his wife are Friends.....apparently you don't know the definition of friends....friends don't screw their "friends" husband. The friend thing to do would be to leave him alone and tell her what's been going on...whether in a letter, email or in person. She needs to know what kind of scum she married.
2007-01-06 13:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to get a real conscience. If you had one you never would have been where you are now. just end it. Time will heal you and maybe bring you to a man that has no wife.
2007-01-06 11:29:08 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the affair immediately... In the end, you would lose a friend, destroy a marriage, and cause yourself to lose self-esteem. Nobody will benefit by this destructive behavior. Do it now!
2007-01-06 12:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by polecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ever found out???? Do you really think she won't find out? She'll find out all right, and not only will she be devastated, she might very well inflict pain on you....as well as her trifling husband? What should you do???? That question does not even deserve a response!
2007-01-06 11:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a real man, odds are if he is cheating with you, he will cheat on you after he gets bored with you. Just like he is doing to your friend. Anyway like they say he is an ex for a reason, right?
2007-01-06 11:28:32 · answer #9 · answered by ~dreamvette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish that relationship.You will destroy that marriage,that family and children if they have.There are thousands of men without compromises outside,in your city.Find a free man,a single man for you.Get out of that wrong relationship,before is too late.
2007-01-06 11:32:42 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋