i met a guy on vacation. one night we talked the whole night about pretty much everything, and then hooked up eventually at the end of the night. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him to hang out. he came within 10 minutes, and we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything was intense, and eventually led to sex in the moment. after we had sex we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room. he knocked on my door about 20 minutes later to sleepover and lay with me. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him that i was with another guy. we didn't talk for the next two nights because he was upset. and eventually we met up again and talked the whole entire night and i explained to him how i was not with anyone else. we ended up having sex again, but this time he was more caring and talked a lot more, and then we layed together and he slept over. he wasn't with any other girls, and the next night we just hung out and kissed goodbye. after the vacation, we had talked a couple of times, and i wrote him a letter once saying if he didn't want anything to do with me then don't write back. he actually wrote back, and i actually even got to visit him. he acted the same exact way that he did on vacation, and he seemed really happy to see me. now 4 months later, he has a girlfriend. probably because we obviously can't be together, and i happen to be going to college by where he lives in august. what does all of this mean?
2007-01-06 11:15:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you keep asking this, you're not this girlfriend, he has all the right to be with other women!!
you shouldn't expect him to dump his girlfriend when you come down there for college.
if you wanted a long distance relationship, you should have told him, to see if he wanted the same thing. or better yet, if he wanted one, he would have asked you. its probably too late now, he is already taken, you should just leave him alone and not intrude on his relationship!
2007-01-06 11:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have a problem..in the first place, you were wrong by making out with someone you do not deeply know...i guess he's not a proper guy coz after what happened, he just turned his back on you and looked for somebpdy else....i think you just have to learn a lesson from this and be a har-to-get-girl ( if that's the term) next time...so that you'll finally get your true prince ;)
good luck!
2007-01-06 19:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by undine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would find out just how serious things are between him and his new girlfriend. If things aren't so serious, then maybe the relationship you had with him can be rekindled. Good Luck.
2007-01-06 19:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were a casual romance, many people have them throughout their lives.
2007-01-06 19:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He prob did like you and all, but he met someone else closer to home...move on...
2007-01-06 19:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to eachother and maybe u can get back 2gether
2007-01-06 19:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by Preppy Prep Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you are moving by him and let him make the choice.
2007-01-06 19:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋