i love my girlfriend wit all my heart but im scared she is gonna hurt me again how do i learn to trust again i feel like thers no me without her shes my everything
2007-01-06 11:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-06 11:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self-image needs some serious work...there was a you WAY before her. You keep up this line of thinking and you're going to self-destruct your relationship. If she's cheating on you, you will find out, trust me. I've been cheated on a time or two, and I always found out. If you do find out she is, ditch her, don't look back, and no second chances...there's never a reason for it, and there's never a "one time deal." You're a man, you have two legs, and they both work, stand up on 'em, and quit leaning on someone else to feel "whole." You're relationship will be better if you want eachother vs "needing" eachother.
2007-01-06 11:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you love her if you don't trust her. Talk with her in the open about it but bottom line is if you don't trust her its not going to work right now. If you end up single again, take some time to let yourself heal and get to know yourself as single and self sufficient. Let yourself believe that your ok on your own and comfortable with who you are.
2007-01-06 11:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Krista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bud - yes there is a you with out her. You were you before you met her. You can stand on your own two feet with and wtih out her.
She cheated on you in the past?? If you're feeling this way again listen to yourself. She maybe cheating, again. ?
2007-01-06 11:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but once a cheater, always a cheater. You deserve way better than someone who will take you for granted, she says she wont do it again but seein you let her get away with it once chances are she will do it again. sorry
2007-01-06 11:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
final week I made this checklist of achievable signs and indications that your boyfriend is cheating: signs and indications that somebody is cheating: - without notice appearing ineffective or arrogant via fact the female he in basic terms slept with quite stroked his ego. - appearing indifferent in the direction of you. - no longer answering his telephone around you. - Canceling plans with you. - Dressing in a distinctive way. - Getting shielding or appearing in charge in case you ask him if he's been cheating. - appearing in charge or crying at unusual cases. - Being distant or without notice quite into you - constantly getting abode previous due. - leaping on the mail as quickly because it arrives - Over mileage on the automobile - Scratch marks on their decrease back. - Your mutual buddies start up appearing distinctive around you - Accusing you of cheating, that's an attempt to make you think of they does no longer cheat - without notice being very in touch approximately their visual attraction or paying for new clothing - text cloth messages from new human beings. - previous due night calls. - constantly answering the telephone remote from you. - "Staying at artwork" later and later or "going to the wellbeing middle" each night - asserting they're too drained to have intercourse - Making jokes that he's cheating or accusing you of cheating - in basic terms needing you around while they desire something - taking a bath while coming abode. - issues like random cigarettes or pony tail holders exhibiting up on your rooms. - unusual fragrance smells on the mattress sheets. - each thing is without notice a controversy. this could be a kind of opposite psychology; by applying getting you right into a combat approximately something and then storming out they're able to experience much less in charge as they are able to assert it become your fault. For you it works as you're left feeling which you are the only in charge. Do a radical seek of his place or the abode you reside in jointly. save this checklist, print it, upload issues to it, bypass it on on your human beings, and examine it each time you think that your boyfriend could be cheating. have faith me, you ought to examine it each time, it is going to help your strategies handle your strategies greater at as quickly as. in the experience that your boyfriend has cheated, smash up with him. A cheater quite cheats himself, via fact he would not get to maintain you.
2016-12-12 05:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the dude on the t.v show Cheaters....he'll watch her for you
2007-01-06 11:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Greg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be the last to know
2007-01-06 11:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋