my bf is warm by nature. he embraces people and likes and get to know them at a personal level. ever since he met one of my girlfriends, i've had the feeling he's attracted to her and vice versa. I've sensed that she seeks his attention (her body language). what bothers me is that my man gives her the attention. he can't help but stare at her and her every move with such intensity that I feel uncomfortable. He also tends to swallow all she says like it is the absolute truth. It is like he is mesmerized by her when she is around and that makes me doubt that he loves me. Over many conversations he told me she was very feminine, very attractive, very smart, very sensitive, very everything. I confronted him about him being attracted to the gf because of the way he looks at her and likes to quote her, but he denied it and said it was a crazy idea; that he saw her as family. I am wondering if my insecurities are making me jealous or he is at some level attracted to her and what to do?
2007-01-01
16:48:16
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