I'll admit that I am kinda over weight. Not by much. But it seems that guys always go for the skinny girls. It doens't matter whats on the inside. These girls can be the nastiest whores in school, but yet all the guys jump up for them. I just need to know if guys don't like me because i'm over weight, or because I don't sleep around. Anyone who can give me some advice please do, because I really need it.
2007-01-01 16:51:43 · 23 answers · asked by lbrqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its your personaility. You need to change it or develop it or mend it. You judge others without knowing them, when you state they are whores, they could just have a nice personality. You do not know them all.
Walk a little slower so a guy can approach you.
Judge a little slower so you can bring wisdom into your life.
Think of all the nice things you want to say to a guy and then that will make you smile a little more.
A guy is always looking at you, remember that, when you eat, eat slow, it shows you are patient to recieve something good in your life. Thus you will be patient with him. Chew with your mouth close, it shows you are polite and will not be too quick to be a smart mouth.
A guy likes inteligence , so don't get yourself in trouble too much. That sticks out.
Your weight is not a problem, there are guys that like medium girls, chubby girls, and boygirls. Each guy has their own personality. Drink water it helps take the hunger away.
Love yourself. It will show in everything. A guy will see this in you and it will show you can love him, too.
don't carry too much things in your hands, he wants to be able to hold your hand and walk with you.
in time you will see many guys will ask you for your number.
2007-01-01 17:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl,
I'm not fat, but in no way shape or form am I skinny. I also have friends significantly over weight. I am constantly asked by them, how I get asked on dates all the time. I have been married, divorced, and been in love three times in my life. And the only advice I can give you, is that the reason why boys don't notice or ask you out, has nothing to do with your appearance. Smile girly, there are so many guys out there that can't help but fall for a self confident girl. Keep your head up, laugh joke and show the guys your around that you can be the so popular "dream girl". Make him see that you can be a lady... but that you also know how to have fun. Look guys in the eyes when you talk to them, and show him that your comfortable with yourself. It's SO important that he knows he's not getting mixed up with someone that is going to complain about not "looking good".... that is one of the biggest turn off's for guys. Just relax, I promise you, someone will find you. The love of your life, could just be waiting for you to look him in the eyes. Take care!
2007-01-03 03:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lasa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO HELL WITH THEM!! I am sure you're a great girl and guys will notice that about you and there's guys who aren't hung up about weight. I admit that most guys are shallow pigs about this stuff and they have no right to be looking the way THEY look!! (Sloppy clothes, pants down, homely dudes...) Yeah, they all want calendar models who'd NEVER give them the time of day! Don't sweat it - you don't need to be thin to land the right guy OR sleep around. All that'll get you is loss of self respect, pregnancy and an STD. I'm overweight but my wife is a gorgeous, super sexy lady that all the guys drool over, but they can't have her! I hope you find someone who's decent and not shallow. I got lucky and so could you. Lots of people need to discover that overweight people are not slobs who overeat or don't take care of themselves. Don't waste your time on shallow scumbags, because you can find someone who knows you are an intelligent, strong atractive person who has as much to offer as any of those skinny b!tches do.
2007-01-01 16:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well because you don't sleep around some guys will ignore you but it's because there idiots. You should never put out just to be liked. As far as being overweight it depends on how overweight you are. In the end guys do not really like girls that are really skinny. Of course some do but most of us want a shapely woman that isn't a waif. I guess it really comes down to what you mean by "Not by much." If you are really fat than you need to work out and get your body in shape. If not then you just have a bunch of immature guys around you.
2007-01-01 16:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by playmkr278 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly how over weight are you? a little a guy wont mind too much, cause you'll have some curves but a lot I'm afraid is just a turn off, go for lots of walks up hills and delete any white sugar or white flour in your diet you will feel better and the guys will be queueing up
2007-01-01 17:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Gavin T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever think that the only reason that the guys go for the nasty thin girls is because they are easy?!?! and that is probable why they are nasty cause that cant keep the guy after they put out. As long as you are out going and yourself the Good guys will start coming around when they figure out that your not cheap and easy. if you are shy or stand offish they might just think that you are stuck up or something like that.your weight has nothing to do with it if you have a good attitude about yourself!! I hope this helps;-))
2007-01-01 17:07:35 · answer #6 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've found that men flock to women who are confident in themselves. If you are constantly worried about how you look because of your weight, men will pick up on that. Make sure that you focus on your positive qualities, like your outstanding personality, your morals, etc. If you need to, before you interact with a guy, give yourself a little pep talk about your positive qualities. While outer beauty can sometimes be an initial reaction, inner beauty shines through in the end. Good luck!!
2007-01-01 16:56:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read on, this is why guys like girls, and it does not even talk abt physical constraints sweetheart!
Here are a few reasons
why guys like girls:
1.They will always smell good even if its just shampoo
2.
The way their heads always
find the right spot on our shoulder
3.
How cute they look when they sleep
4.
The ease in which they fit into our arms
5.
The way they kiss you and
all of a sudden everything
is right in the world
6.
How cute they are when they eat
7.
The way they take hours
to get dressed
but in the end
it makes it all worth while
8.
Because they are always
warm even when its minus 30 outside
9.
The way they look good
no matter what they wear
10.
The way they fish for compliments
even though you both know that you
think she's the most
beautiful thing on this earth
11.
How cute they are when they argue
12.
The way her hand always finds yours
13.
The way they smile
14.
The way you feel
when you see their name
on the call ID
after you just had a big fight
15.
The way she says
"lets not fight anymore"
even though you know that
an hour later....
16.
The way they kiss when
you do something nice for them
17.
The way they kiss you
when you say
"I love you"
18.
Actually ...
just the way they kiss you...
19.
The way they fall into your arms
when they cry
20.
Then the way they apologize
for crying over something that silly
21.
The way they hit you
and expect it to hurt
22.
Then the way they apologize
when it does hurt.
(even though we don't admit it)!
23.
The way they say
"I miss you"
24.
The way you miss them
25.
The way their tears
make you want to
change the world
so that it
doesn't hurt her anymore.....
Yet regardless
if you love them,
hate them,
wish they would die
or
know that you would die
without them ...
it matters not.
Because once in your life,
whatever they were to the world
they become everything to you.
When you look them in the eyes,
traveling to
the depths of their souls
and
you say a million things
without trace of a sound,
you know that your own life
is inevitable consumed
within the rhythmic beatings
of her very heart.
We love them for a million reasons,
No paper would do it justice.
It is a thing not of the mind
but of the heart.
A feeling.
Only felt.
2007-01-01 17:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey, its life. The boys that we want are the good looking funny guys who always seem to like the skinny girls who are as dumb as rocks. But those aren't the guys you want to be with. If a guy doesn't like you because you are a little overweight then he is obviously not worth it. You deserve someone who likes you for who you are, not what you look like. If you wanted to lose a little weight, do it for you, not for some boy to like you. Wait for the guy who thinks you have a beautiful mind.
good luck :)
2007-01-01 17:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your in high school then yes, the boys are interested in getting some and impressing their friends so a girls looks are paramount.
However, you need to understand that CONFIDENCE can win anyone over.
Looking back at what girls in my highschool were considered "it" I realize some were not attractive at all, but THEY thought they were 'it', so others did as well. They carried themselves like hot stuff.
Get involved in school activities and be more out going. You will get a boys attention.
2007-01-01 16:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋