you were in a long term relationship and your partner slept w/ someone right after you broke up?
2007-01-01 16:42:27 · 35 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes i would be mad because it would be like our whole relationship meant nothing to them so yes i would be mad and hurt.
2007-01-01 16:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by neckbone2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I would be mad but I would certainly be upset knowing that it didn't take much time after the break up for them to sleep with someone else. Of course I am sure that it is just all about sex and maybe a way to not think about the relationship that they are just coming out of. That is a difficult thing to deal with for a long while after a break up. Good luck to you!
2007-01-01 16:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by sarteaga1970 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell Yeah!! That is just wrong. Although u were broken up...leave a little time to heal or something! That makes it seem like all the time u spent together and all the things you used to share were all lies! Although it hurts you to think about it...that's prolly the point of it all...to get to u!! Don't let it tho. U'll find someone better soon enough and that *** whole will c u with that person and it'll b about more that a quicky and they'll know just how much they lost!!
2007-01-01 16:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by Som31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its completely undestandable you would be hurt/angry knowing that. However, just like them, you need to move on.....I'm not saying that is easy.....but it will help let you heal.....If you think you are still in love with them....think about all the things that you didn't like about them or made you angry about them....and focus on that when you feel a weak moment......Get involved in some activities that won't allow you alot of time to sit around and mope.....As soon as you feel able? Dust yourself off and go find someone better. You deserve it........Usually when you lose something/someone? Its because something/someone better is coming along.....
2007-01-01 16:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by slavetofs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very hurt, why mad? no reason to be mad...
actually it all depends why you broke up in the first place, but if you broke up in a nice way, Yes I would be hurt.....
2007-01-01 16:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by jewishguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would. it means that your partner is a cheater and has had someone on the side. They were just waiting to to leave you. i would never speak to him ever!!!!!!! even if he did leave me. That means my partner didnt love me and was not ready for an honest relationship. They just wanted to get some.
2007-01-01 16:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by ck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad just disgusted cus you don't go with the person anymore and makes you realize that it was a good idea for the break up and that u could do betta
2007-01-01 16:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥yessy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that happened to me, and it was like a slap in the face. I lost a lot of respect for her. However, everyone has their own ways of dealing with loss, for some it's spreading their legs. What can you do? Just go find your own new person and move on, right?
2007-01-01 16:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea I would be mad. It would make me feel like she had no problem moving on past the relationship and make me feel like she thought it was nothing. It would also make me feel like I was being cheated on before we broke up. So yes, I would be upset.
2007-01-01 16:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Todd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hurt. and mad. the other person was probably already in the picture if it was right after you broke up.
2007-01-01 20:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋