Family & Relationships - 31 December 2006

my mom wants me to go to church and my bf wants me to spend the night with him. i really wanna be with my man but it broke my mothers heart when i said that i wouldnt be with her and the family. i have a bunch of people from church calling me and asking me to come. i tried getting my bf to come and he doesnt want to. i just feel really guilty. i wish i could make both people happy because i care so much about both their feelings. no matter what i do, someone will be unhappy and i feel guilty! some advice please

2006-12-31 10:36:00 · 7 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-31 10:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never been a religious person and I don't consider my fiance religious either... but he wants a priest to marry us. To me incorporating religion would be uncomfortable, but I also realize this isn't just my day. Any ideas on a compromise?

2006-12-31 10:35:15 · 21 answers · asked by Livia 2 in Weddings

girls. What are the advantages and disadvantages?

2006-12-31 10:34:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:34:07 · 31 answers · asked by Kassy M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by Chef boyardee 1 in Friends

So I want your opinion, if I wanted one, do you think I'd be able to get a boyfriend?- I am 5'10", have a size 36 C chest, don't have any rolls or beer belly or anything like that, have a nice little booty, brown, shoulder length hair with side bangs, olive green eyes, fairly tan skin, and only piercing is in the ears. I love Chinese food, travel, Europe (especially Spain), music, reading, and my friends and family. I like to bike ride, rock climb, bowl, ice skate (i suck at it though, haha), read, write, go jogging, dance, do yoga, cook, and hang out with the people I love most. I'm extremely outgoing, bold, kinda wild, passionate, and have a bit of a sarcasm problam. I stand up for my beliefs and speak my mind and don't let people tear me nor others down. Sometimes I say things without quite thinking, but I always make sure to apologize when I have offended people.

2006-12-31 10:33:17 · 6 answers · asked by T.M. 2 in Singles & Dating

Or just settle for someone they can tolerate for the sake of not being alone?

2006-12-31 10:32:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this really cute guy at my church. however, we are 8 years old apart, but i can't stop liking him. i have tried to stop for 2 years now, but it does not work. should i tell him my feelings? or should i just keep trying to forget? remember, our ages differ so much. should i also wait until i am older?

2006-12-31 10:32:12 · 17 answers · asked by Sandra S 2 in Singles & Dating

im married and have three children and at the end of the day all i want to do is go to sleep and my husband gets mad because i dont want to have sex is there anyway i can get in the mood more or is it just normal

2006-12-31 10:32:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:31:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to a new years party tonight and I don't really know alot of people. What should I do to feel more comfortable around all of these people I don't know? What should I do if I don't know what to say or have nothing to do, with out looking rude?

2006-12-31 10:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by linkielock 4 in Friends

I don't mean through the whole thing, but some sad parts.

2006-12-31 10:31:28 · 11 answers · asked by Sofia 2 in Singles & Dating

i need help

2006-12-31 10:30:41 · 14 answers · asked by kiwi 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm considering either filing for separation or filing for divorce from my husband and I was wondering what the legal difference is between the two. Even people who just legally separated I thought might know the difference. Thanks for your time!

2006-12-31 10:30:37 · 14 answers · asked by allen_penn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:30:23 · 8 answers · asked by bru:] 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl I like and she plays around like pinching me and stuff and she sometimes gives me comments is she flirting or is she just being friendly.

2006-12-31 10:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by rockerluis777 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:29:46 · 18 answers · asked by the golden kodiak 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im'a spend new years with my ex and she wants a romantic evening..if you know what I mean. She told me though she wants something different...right now I lack the imagination.

2006-12-31 10:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

i am stuck with my family tonight when i could be at a party of my friends. but ther are so many tonight who are alone. should i be more grateful.

2006-12-31 10:28:58 · 5 answers · asked by no longer caligirl. 2 in Singles & Dating

You have seen these muslim women wearing their typical head scarfs called hijabs and the borkha (full covered dress). Do you really like this visually? How do you feel about these women in general. Please answer as detailed as possible.

2006-12-31 10:28:21 · 2 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:27:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello Everyone,
Hope you all have a safe new year. For christmas my husband and I gave my niece a nice summer dress and it wasn't the only gift we gave her. I know it's a summer dress, but my sisters ex-husband made a comment to my sister that it was "a nice summer dress when did they buy it in the summer". We were not present when he made this comment, but my sister mentioned it in front of me and my husband. My husband got upset that my sister even mentioned it he said that she should have kept the comment to herself. My sister and my niece who is a toddler live with my mother and father. Tonight is the dinner in about two hours and my husband doesn't want to attend the dinner and wait for the new year at my mothers house because my sister is there. What do you think I should do? I almost have the ham ready that I promised to take. Please give me some advice.
Thank you.

2006-12-31 10:27:35 · 41 answers · asked by Shorty 2 in Family

2006-12-31 10:27:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in a situation right now that the guy calls Friends with Benefits but it seems like he is acting like more. Like, sleeping over and cuddling, wanting me to sleep over, getting jealous when my ex-bf calls, not wanting to use condoms even though we talked about it and agreed we should. What's the deal??? Is he confused or what??

2006-12-31 10:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:26:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if that is normal or not i realy need help and im shy to go to the doc...

helllpppppppppp
is it me or is it my husband he is my first partner???

2006-12-31 10:26:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have found alot of people that I haven't seen in a while on this site. I just wanna know if anyone has the same luck. Or if anyone has met "real friends". (myspace name= Fisher)

2006-12-31 10:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by Black J 1 in Singles & Dating

I really liked this guy he was possibly my first love. Its been almost 2 months since it kinda ended he said he cared about me but was conserned with the age difference (4 years) but he also said that it didn't change anything he just needed to think. that how it ended off and now hes moved on to another girl. I just can't stop thinking about the things he said to be about how we wouldn't always be just friends and all the times he told me he missed me and wanted to see me more. And all the times we were together how amazing they were. What should I do?

2006-12-31 10:24:58 · 21 answers · asked by ml3gg0ur 2 in Singles & Dating

I currenly pay 800 a month in child support for my oldest son. His mother refuses to send clothing for him to wear while he is at my house. It is being quite expensive to provide clothing for him while at my house and my younger son who resides with me and my wife. Also its being quite expensive to providing a blessed x mas for both. I have no problem providing support to my oldest son but with 800 a month coming out of my check i dont think its too much to ask to send clothing to my house clothing that my money helps provide. So my suggestion is to maybe to still get him but maybe just get him for the day then bring him back home the same day. Like I said earlier i dont have aproblem providing for him but in my onpnion i havent been providing enough for my younger son i refuse to have him suffer . Any suggestions would be much appreciated and possibly the view point of a mother who might be going thru the same situation. fyi the 800 per month is more than 20% of my income.

2006-12-31 10:24:40 · 27 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 in Marriage & Divorce