Family & Relationships - 31 December 2006

My Fiance of 4 years left me. I have two kids and she has one. I came home from work the day after Thanksgiving to a letter which basically said have a nice life and sorry we could never work out. We even bought a house together. I know she has two sick parents in Alabama 3000mi away that she felt guilty about not being there for. After she left she called and said she missed me. She told me she wanted to come back. She said she was leaving the day after Christmas. We talked on the phone for a month about things we wanted to do, places we wanted to go, discussed counseling, and told each other how much we loved each other. I talked to her the day she supposedly left and she said she went the wrong way and ended up in another state the wrong direction. Then she said she was on the way and told me about the different states she was passing through. Then yesterday I got ahold of her and she said she was driving but still in AL. Then the phone went dead. Still no call back. Why?

2006-12-31 10:55:59 · 20 answers · asked by Bummed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my current wife and I just split up after 11 years. Out of no where my first true love and first wife emailed me to ask how I was doing. I hadn't spoken with her since she left. My first marriage failed because of my behavior and inmaturity. Over the years I would always think about her. I wanted to contact her but never did because I was married and I felt I should not cross any lines. To this day I still think about her and how she gave me butterflies everytime I saw her. I never had feelings for my current wife as I did with my first wife. She is now married with a child but seems to be a little unhappy with her marriage after speaking with her. I know we are both different people and have changed throughout the years but I'm wondering if I should tell her that I still love her or just leave things as is and be happy I had a chance to talk to her after all of these years. Thanks :-)

2006-12-31 10:55:47 · 10 answers · asked by csharp1171 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like interesting things that happen and naturally pretty Girls as I am a dirty old man but don't like pure filth. sompem good Yea!!!

2006-12-31 10:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by ROBERT BBERG 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a myth (or maybe is real) that women have a special feeling for the first man they made love to. Is that true?

2006-12-31 10:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my close guy friends and i recently tried to make it something more between us. Things didn't work out so well and we started having problems and well he found someone else. we still talk all the time and everything but sometimes i just wish things were different. i'm over what happened but sometimes i just think about him in that way again. any help?

2006-12-31 10:51:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am newly engaged and very excited! However, my fiance and I have to pay for everything ourselves...Does anyone know of any ideas to have a nice wedding but on a very tight budget!? Anything helps! Thanks!

2006-12-31 10:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by lilronny009 2 in Weddings

I'm not sure if he's attracted to me romantically and I don't want to end up hurt if he isn't. I'm hoping eventually we would end up a couple if we share his place, even as roommates in the beginning. He doesn't have a girlfriend. Am I crazy?

2006-12-31 10:50:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am almost 14 and i like this guy who is 21. i know i am too young right now, but when i become older, should i make a move? if so, what age?

2006-12-31 10:49:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey mother in law and her daughter have not talked in 3 years and i am getting sick of being in the middle, i know they both love each other but neaither wants to make the 1st move to appolagise. they are both as stubbon as each other i think they don't even know what it was over that is how bad it is

2006-12-31 10:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by T O 1 in Family

2006-12-31 10:48:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If a guy hands you a shinny quarter... what does it mean?

2006-12-31 10:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by EM 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone out there that knows that secert i'll be ever so happy. plz answer me.

2006-12-31 10:48:17 · 18 answers · asked by Loserinluv_14 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I went into Eharmony, looked at the buying options and it said I can buy one year for 20.95 and one month was 50 bucks. So I went with one year, paid with paypal and guess what? it was 251 bucks!!! What the heck???

So I cancelled it, I don't know if it'll cancell all of it.

Do I need to close my account(the freepart too) completely in order to get a refund?

2006-12-31 10:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Singles & Dating

Jobs come and go, there is no guarantee that you will be there tomorow. Why are there people that get so obsessed with there career. I know many that have wasted their life not wanting a relationship or marriage and now they have regret being obsessed

2006-12-31 10:46:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by satishfreeman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-31 10:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by angie20k 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy and we were friends for 2 years
last year he moved to another city and i havent talked to hi for a while

all my friends have seen him around and say he says he misses me

how do i know if he really does

i dont have any way to contact him
football seasons over and thats the main time i'd see him...

HELP

2006-12-31 10:45:16 · 2 answers · asked by Flafibopsicles 3 in Friends

We have been living together for a year and 8 months. When we first met (within the first two weeks) he told me that he could "see us growing old together." That is about as close as I have gotten to him verbalizing any kind of a future. When I finally got the courage up to ask him about his future goals reagarding our relationship(about 6 months ago), he said that he has "came close" to asking me to marry him, but then something always happens. Now I feel like even if he did ask me to marry him, that I would not say yes. I want to marry someone that KNOWS they want to marry me, not that has to think about it, or someone that makes me feel like I have to "audition" for the part. But here I am, still here. I wonder if I am just trying to prove to myself that I can make him want to marry me? Am I just wasting everyones time?

2006-12-31 10:44:38 · 45 answers · asked by sds5214 1 in Singles & Dating

when we get ready to fondling with in 2 min. only kissing his face and neck and by the time we get to the bed room he ejaculate

2006-12-31 10:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by lonelybutnothardup 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:41:26 · 12 answers · asked by cuilte_babe_101 1 in Family

2006-12-31 10:41:00 · 18 answers · asked by Melanie 1 in Singles & Dating

as you all can tell from earlier postings......my gf and i broke up about 3 weeks ago.......after 4 years.......and now we havent talked in a couple weeks and she's talkin to another guy?......we where engaged too

2006-12-31 10:39:50 · 9 answers · asked by chris h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-31 10:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:39:28 · 11 answers · asked by LeeLee 2 in Weddings

2006-12-31 10:39:24 · 5 answers · asked by Magzilla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-31 10:38:52 · 15 answers · asked by S&D 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to work with a guy who is 8 yrs. younger than I am. He's 30 years old. At work I always caught him staring at me, smile at me & tried to have conversation w/ me. He sometimes joked at me & always comes around in the office where I worked. He showed jealousy everytime I talked with other male co worker. I did not mind his gesture coz I was focused with my marriage until my husband & I lost that sparks in our marriage. My husband is infertile & impotent. we tried the help w/ our doctor. For 5 yrs.of our marriage I can only count 6 times have normal sex with him. Anyway, this guy at work showed interest in me. But I left the job for better offer.One day I visited the company I used to work and saw this guy. He is a shy guy, confine to himself I asked him for his e-mail but told me he doesn't know his email add I gaved him my e-mail ad. If he really want to communicate w/ me he can ask my tel.# to other co worker who has my tel.#. Why is it he showed he like me but didnt write me?

2006-12-31 10:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

By crazy i'm not saying like we were just fighting. She started making crazy accusastions that like my friend who's living with me who's only 17 is supposedly with my father. My friends mother told my mother this because she wanted her to come home and thought it would get her home. My mother now believes and started yelling last night about how my father hasn't had sex with her since she was living here which I did not want to hear. She has no proof at all!! Because it's not true. She told my father that she was going to put him in jail and won't tell him or anyone else why. She kept telling my dad and myself to touch her so she could put us in jail. She locked all the doors in the house earlier today but missed her window so we used a ladder to get in. Earlier today my mother met with her mother and I believe they made something up to get him put in jail. My friends mother doesn't like my father because shes jealous that she's closer with him than her. She won't stop yelling!!!!

2006-12-31 10:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Friends

can i put my old girlfriend belongings out?

2006-12-31 10:36:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce