There's a myth (or maybe is real) that women have a special feeling for the first man they made love to. Is that true?
2006-12-31 10:53:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends. My first I didn't really care about I just cared that it was finally happening. The first one I did it with whom I loved, there is a little specialness for but he was definitly not the first.
2006-12-31 11:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. When I was 18 I lost it to the wrong guy who used to say that he love me. Later in two weeks after I lost it he dumped me for another girl, then the girl dumped him to go back with her ex and then he was hurt and then he was chasing me to go back with him and I never took him back end of story. Now I am 25years old and no I don't have any special feelings.
2006-12-31 11:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 1st time wasn't that special ! We didn't love each other and knew it. I guess you could call it an experiment. We were best friends, but no chemistry or romance for either of us. It was only that once and then I left town. I didn't return until I was engaged to my now hubby.
2006-12-31 11:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say that my first was with a man to whom I am currently engaged to right now, however, I will say that it does not happen for everyone at all, women or men.
Some have said they will always have a connection with the person that took their virginity, yet, there are some who end up hating that person too.
So what it boils down to is it all depends on the individual themselves.
2006-12-31 10:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by !?! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well for a long time i thought that i did but the older i got i realized it was just because i was young and that is something you will never forget. but when you have sex with someone that you care about the same bonding hormone is released as the one that is during breast feeding to help the mother and child bond. so maybe that is part of it.
2006-12-31 11:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by tarahabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm only 15 but i'm definitly wise beyond my years, i'm not a whore, but it's true, girls have feelings 4ever for their first because it's like a bond, the one that started everything,
i.e.-
no=special to me because it's my first word /
green=was my 974th word or wateva
james= special b/c my first
eli= okay, my 4th
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2007-01-02 13:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by stefani s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time this is true but there is just some people that think of it as just sex and nothing more.
2006-12-31 10:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe
2006-12-31 10:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by diana s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT for me. Not at all. Actually soon after it happend i hated him because of the way he treated me.
2006-12-31 10:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was supposed to be special but it was not. he was a jerk. he played me, and took my virginity with him.
2006-12-31 10:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by tallbluewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋