Family & Relationships - 29 December 2006

This girl asked me out. I didn't know her that well besides the fact the she is my boss. She stood me up, and the next day when I went to work I was fired. I was told the reason was that I stood the boss up on our date. Apparently she was at O'Charlies and I was at Pondarosa. I told my kids that they were going to meet their new mommy , and now they are mad at me. Should I move to another providence and leave my kids behind?

2006-12-29 16:33:24 · 13 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Singles & Dating

He just broke it off 4 no reason, should i move on to older guys, or should i try to fix it, i thought he was the one, im really sexy, and i shouldnt be treated this way, what should i do?

2006-12-29 16:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex jen hubley left me and abandoned our 2 girls late sept/2006,she said she left because she didn,t love me and would come back in time,i recently with my 2 girls was driving by her boyfriend,s house and saw her naked in the kitchen,i now know she has been having an affair and has been lieing to me and my girls,what do i do

2006-12-29 16:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by cheated on by ex girlfriend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i always think i am in love with someone but then a week later i stop liking them and it bugs the heck out of me. how do i know when i am really in love?

2006-12-29 16:32:13 · 16 answers · asked by girls in the hood 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this guy and have liked him for like 5 years, i know pathetic... we have dated twice for a couple months at a time... once in march-april of 2005 and again may-june of 2006... i told him i liked him again/still a couple months ago, and he just told me, a couple weeks ago, that he doesnt think that he likes me... but he acts like he does... we are both in college... he is in Rhode Island and i am in Maine, so we are about 6 hours apart, but he acts like he still likes me... i'm so confused and i just wish he would make up his mind... is there anything that i can do to get him to make a clear decision??? cause it really bugs me not knowing if he likes me or not... cause if he doesn't, i want to know so that i can work on trying to move on... i just need help, or maybe he does...

2006-12-29 16:32:07 · 1 answers · asked by Storm G. 2 in Singles & Dating

k im argueing with my bf! he thinks im cheating on him cuz someone is trying to ruin my life by saying i cheated on him and he believes them. then he said fine i believe u but he doesnt say it like he means is!!WTF AM I SUPPOSE TO DO??

2006-12-29 16:31:12 · 12 answers · asked by i hate me more (^)*_*(^) 1 in Singles & Dating

do u people think is wrong for to guys to sleepover at each others house...?

im 15 and is my friend, were in high school, in middle school we spent night all the time at each others house, and now that were older to u think its werid or wrong to still be doing this

we have been best friends for 5 years now, and were really close, and were not gay or anything.

do u think its wrong for us to still be doing this..?

2006-12-29 16:30:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know we share some common interests but I have no idea how to approach him.

2006-12-29 16:30:35 · 6 answers · asked by adanarama 4 in Singles & Dating

I know him a year back. both of us are married and have each of our own problems. we get along well and soon spend lots of time together. We are very happy when we are together. But now, i start to ponder if i really like him, or was it because he was there when i am feeling low........ Does he really like me too or its also because i am available when he is feeling low..... What can I do ?

2006-12-29 16:30:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, well I am a one woman man...always have been I think I always will be. I get no satisfaction out of the idea of nailing random skanks. I have had a tendency to get really interested in women but I am very safe and dont really pursue them until I know them really well. This usually works out because I find out there is something there that wont work out. Currently there are four women on my mind. Two I work with, intrigue me but the situations, being at work clearly, arent great. Another I met at a place I hang out and another I was great friends with for a long time but we had a tremendous falling out. It seems like everyday my mind switches, that I think one of them might be the best option (I havent really wanted to date in a while, self loathing, etc.). Given that I dont want to be the "typical guy" and have my cake and eat it too, I think this just shows I am not ready for a relationship. Would you agree, and whats my problem?

2006-12-29 16:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my and this guy meat a couple of months and i like him so today we were hanging out but out younger cuz were hang with us all day and would not leave us alone but its always like that.but when it got dark we were sitting outside. and he semed happy that we were alone. and we talked for a long time.about deep things but then his mother came out of the house and he had to go inside.but he wanted me to come back later.but my mom would not let me.so do u think we are friend or more than friends

2006-12-29 16:29:05 · 6 answers · asked by minda marie 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when your crush is your best friend friend

2006-12-29 16:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by Monie_Luv 2 in Friends

Is there any meaning behind this?!?
I think my Boss who is a single Doctor has some feelings for me. It's been 10 months that I'm working for this guy & he has always been nice to me even if I made a mistake or something. He
mentioned few things about marriage stuff to me INDIRECTLY cause he is thinking about the right person for marriage I believe. Therefore, I think he has an eye on me. I like this guy as well but it's a hard situation for both of us to move on. Last week in an office party he told me something that made me certain about his crush on me. It was at the first five minutes of the party that he told me "You better find a nice doctor at this party"(he certainly meant for marriage reason); since there were only 3 doctors at that party & two of them were old and married except himself. So, do you guys think he said that on purpose since he couldn't look into my eyes & were shy when he was dancing???

2006-12-29 16:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

why does it seem that, whenever you see an interracial couple involving a black male, it is nearly inevitable that the woman will be fairly unattractive? It's something I have begun to notice in the past year or so, ever since a good friend of mine who is black recently started dating a white woman. I was really quite surprised and even a bit shocked at first when he introduced me to his current girlfriend, who is white- I find him to be quite a handsome guy, and all of his previous girlfriends I had seen him with were all extremely attractive black women. I've nothing against it, and I have also dated women of all races, but I find it very interesting to see what often appears to be a great difference in terms of attractiveness between black men and the women of other races whom they choose to date.

2006-12-29 16:28:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have not had a bf in 1.5 years. all of my girl friends that have bf's made the first move. they flirted until they got the guy to make a move and then they flirted some more. almost throwing themselves at them, being super nice and stuff. i am not like that. i want the guy to come to me. i am not fliratious. does that mean i will not find a guy? do i need to make the first move???

2006-12-29 16:28:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-29 16:28:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mother and some guys I tried talking to never seemed interested b/c they dont date women with children. I know not all guys are like that but what is a good way to change their minds or just dont bother with it?

2006-12-29 16:28:03 · 4 answers · asked by tradeangel2000 2 in Singles & Dating

What just shakes you to the core and crushes you? For me it is being decieved by a lover or a friend.

2006-12-29 16:26:21 · 28 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a 3 year relationship with my ex im 20 shes 19 we had our own house for 2 years and did the grown up thing. Towards the end of the relationship i became not the same person ignored her and everything wrong you can do. We been broken up 3 months now and the first 2 i begged for her to come back and i know that makes things worse. She wants to hang out with me and what not but i want to get her back just not on as serious note. What are the chances that i can get her back. She told me that she has no doubt that we would still be togather if i didnt neglect her and that shes sure that she lked me before that she could again what approach do i take or do i not at all

2006-12-29 16:25:28 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently met a man worth dating and I am moving, case of poor timing. Anyway, we are hitting it off so well and it's exclusive and serious. I want to stay to pursue this and he is not allowing that. Do you think it's because he doesn't want to pursue this or is he just being unselfish? I guess the real question is............if you met an incredible woman would you ask her to stay or tell her to go. Assume that he genuinely likes me very much. Is it a sign of love or weakness to ask her to stay?

2006-12-29 16:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating

Dr. Drew Pinsky, or Berman and Berman. Even though im a man, i would take advice from Berman and Berman because they seem very sincere.

2006-12-29 16:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by Craig C 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell him to go away but that would be kind of rude, and my friends don't mind him but I really do. Please help me answer my questions and be appropriate.

2006-12-29 16:22:04 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan T 1 in Friends

Hey, my question comes from the fact that I'm inlove, but that makes me a little bit cheese in some of my poems/songs, so I would really want your opinions. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING.

I think I love you
But how should I know
All I know is that without you
My life doesn't flow
My guess comes from thinking
That life is just too short
but being around you
Just seems to make time float
By the way you hug me
makes me hear your heart
and last time I heard
We were both beating as one

It might sound Crazy
but I love you for who you are not
which is being fake, shallow, bad,
and not all the things you are
You had me at hello!
I had you at what's up!
Even though, you knew
I wasn't ready for all that
You like no other man
Respected me
Feelings, body and mind

2006-12-29 16:21:55 · 17 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy...i asked him to the dance and he said yes. he's really cute and much more popular than i am, but i've been talking to him a LITTLE bit, not very much, though, and it seems he may like me back. I don't want to keep asking him stuff and scare him away, but i want to go out with him before the dance at one point. its a month away, but i work slow...any suggestions on 1. how to tell if he likes me and 2. how to get this to go further and get him to ask me out perhaps?

2006-12-29 16:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

well im 11 and i need a girl to like me cose i like her a lot she seems so perfect to me in everthing(basically) and she has no boyfreind.she doesnt make anything of me just like a person u would find in the street and i wont go on a date with her cose she would refuse but for now i just need her to not notice me but like the way i go about things and my sence of humour cose its pretty good and of couse be attracted to me in a good way like well sence of humour cose she likes to laugh and she spends heaps of her time with her best freind and her sort of boyfreind and he has a big sence of humour but not in a to funny way. anyway what could i do but at the same time not to imbarrese myself to much cose theres people still very thick headed cose im only 11 so what would be a good way.

2006-12-29 16:21:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi my grandma is getting ready to kick the bucket, and shes a realy good grandma and ill miss her so so so so much when shes gone (witch is in no more than a month), she had a good long life and she 84 so she running out of time any ways, and so any ways i was just wondering what are some good ways of copeing with it all? or ways to relax? or some ony who knows what i am talking about. thanks.

2006-12-29 16:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by Lala 3 in Family

Given that you are in an unhealthy relationship, is it possible for your significant other to change in merely a month? Is it possible for anyone to change significant personality traits in a month?

2006-12-29 16:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

six years ago i meet this wonderful girl that i always consider as a friend and never cross my mind to be with her but the thing is that now somehow i realize that i feel something for her but she has a boyfriend. Now i feel sad and happy because i want her to be happy and enjoy good moments but i can't control the feeling that is growing day by day towards her, what should i do?

2006-12-29 16:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by bravo20212000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-29 16:20:16 · 8 answers · asked by ari-pup 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-29 16:19:50 · 18 answers · asked by goodgirl 1 in Singles & Dating