my ex jen hubley left me and abandoned our 2 girls late sept/2006,she said she left because she didn,t love me and would come back in time,i recently with my 2 girls was driving by her boyfriend,s house and saw her naked in the kitchen,i now know she has been having an affair and has been lieing to me and my girls,what do i do
2006-12-29 16:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by cheated on by ex girlfriend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just be thankful that you got rid of that slut... ! And that you saw her for who she really is! Enjoy raising your daughters and the best revenge is to be happy.... Good luck
2006-12-29 16:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a bit surprise you use her whole name. Anyway, as many others will repeat this: why do you want to continue a relationship with someone that is made of deception and disrespect? It's funny but I just had this conversation with a girlfriend of mine. Her sister in law just cheated on her husband (friend's brother). Why do people do it? Perhaps it is the sheer monotony (boredom) of long term relationships, they want attention to satisfy their ego from the opposite sex (anyone but the partner), it is a high for some people to conceal an affair and go on with it......
Whatever the reason may be, it is very detrimental to their "victim" (spouse, lover, whatever). You can't ride a horse that don't want to be ridden...basically you can't make someone be in a (faithful) relationship with you when they have other agendas/interest. Acceptance is the key towards moving on and peace. Take care of your little ones and don't cheat yourself out of a future with a better partner by attempting to stay in this one. Remember you can't open one door without closing another.
2006-12-29 16:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ya should move on hun i'm sure there's a girl out there that will treat ya so much better but only you can make that decision! Either way glad i met ya online ya seem like a totally nice guy and yeah :)
2006-12-29 16:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on her. Sh!t sometimes I pray my girl cheats on me because there are times when I meet beautiful women and the rest is history. I know this has to stop but damn, there are a lot of beautiful fish in the sea.
2006-12-29 16:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it already she left U the kids so be happy & forget her your better off without her.
2006-12-29 16:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY FOR WHAT YOU ARE GOING THOUGH BUT SINCE
SHE YOUR EX. IT NOTHING YOU CAN DO BUT MOVE ON
AND BE A GOOD FATHER TO YOUR 2 GIRLS. SHE NOT
WORTH ANY THING ELSE.. FOR HER TO LEAVE HER CHILDREN IS BAD. IF YOU AND HER HAD PROBEMS
THEN THAT ONE THINK BUT TO DO WHAT SHE DID
TO THE GIRLS IS ANOTHER. TIME TO MOVE ON FOR
THERE SAKE. SHE WILL REGRET THIS DOWN THE ROAD.
2006-12-29 16:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are while your dwelling over your ex your gonna miss out on something special with someone else
2006-12-29 17:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on raising your girls. they need you a lot. letting go of your ex will hurt but it's pretty neccesary.
2006-12-29 16:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you raise your girls. and let this so called mom which she isnt alone you can do better for yourself as well the children as well. in my opion?
2006-12-29 16:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you raise your daughters to be better women then she is
2006-12-29 16:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋