There's this guy...i asked him to the dance and he said yes. he's really cute and much more popular than i am, but i've been talking to him a LITTLE bit, not very much, though, and it seems he may like me back. I don't want to keep asking him stuff and scare him away, but i want to go out with him before the dance at one point. its a month away, but i work slow...any suggestions on 1. how to tell if he likes me and 2. how to get this to go further and get him to ask me out perhaps?
2006-12-29 16:21:20 · 8 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you'll hate this answer.. I always did.. just be yourself. That means put away the plotting and planning, figuring and analyzing, and just be the person he agreed to go out with in the first place - he liked you enough to say yes, remember? Guys like confidence. Confidence has patience. ;)
2006-12-29 16:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Tara C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, the first thing that you have to notice is if he enjoys spending time with you because if he does is a good sign. Now there's no need in asking too much just go right to the point,trust me because i been there before with some girls and when i thought that something could happen between us there was the boyfriend so don't lose time and ask him out, best of luck.
2006-12-30 00:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by bravo20212000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see you want everything to go right and smoothly for the dance but really jusdt remember to be yourself. We girls know how guys don't like fake girls right. So just play it nice and cool.
Maybe you can invite him to have coffee with you after school one day. An afternoon date is much more casual. Talk to him about his hobbies and school and see where things lead.
Just remember he said YES to you and that's a huge positive sign. He may be as shy as you. Good luck!
2006-12-30 00:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body language. Easy. If he gently smiles, there's something going on. Smiling too hard, it's a pitty date. Offering you gum, candy, nuts or snacks of any time that means he is offering a commitment (always say yes to show that you trust him but only if you like him) if he gives you compliments that include the wrds uhh it means he's at loss at how pretty you are or he doesn't know what to say about you (the 2nd one is a bad thing) if he is scared to dance or dances in unnoticable spots it'a a pitty date.If he flirts with other girls he's obviously trying to say something to you. To get him to ask you out you have to play hard to get rid of. I did that and all the boys in class are drooling over me (ick) but you know it could take a week or so. plus don't invite yourself to his house. Invite him and introduce your parents (you might want to have 'the talk' with them first though) if you have any pets keep them away. Boys might not like them and they might bite in a "hurtful place" and if you cant contain them ask him and he might say yes (shaw right) and if he has allergies it is MANDATORY to keep them out. Good luck!!
2006-12-30 00:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Paola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow wow wow girlfrined. I am a guy so I can totally help you out here. First of all, it seems as though this one boy is a little confused, but he isn't sayin "no" just yet. Pretty much all the moves are up to you and you need to create a list of what to do and what not to do. Like I told my other friends, you need guidance from this awesome book that I bought. I made the mistake of paying $100 for it but you can get it cheaper online at http://cgi.ebay.com/Human-Sexuality-by-Bryan-Strong-2004_W0QQitemZ250067613921QQihZ015QQcategoryZ2228QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
The book will teach you what to do when you are about to ask someone out. How to tell how much he likes you and what to do to make him like you more. It has tips on how to get some hunny if you know what I mean, and it will help you create a list of what positions to use with what guys, what positions not to even try and stuff like that.
If you need any more hints butterfly, l,et me know.
2006-12-30 00:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you've already put the ball in the guys court by talking to him. you've made it much easier for him to ask you out or pursue anything further if he wants to. if he hasnt acted on it, he's not into you. you may have to ignore him & make him feel like he's no big deal....he may come around.
2006-12-30 00:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what part of saying yes to a dance don't you understand? if he didn't like you to begin with, he would NEVER have said yes.
get over the shyness and being scared....he's just a boy.....just a human being like yourself. breaths, walks, sits, laughs, cries, sleeps, baths, etc.
2006-12-30 00:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you can't
2006-12-30 00:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋