I had a 3 year relationship with my ex im 20 shes 19 we had our own house for 2 years and did the grown up thing. Towards the end of the relationship i became not the same person ignored her and everything wrong you can do. We been broken up 3 months now and the first 2 i begged for her to come back and i know that makes things worse. She wants to hang out with me and what not but i want to get her back just not on as serious note. What are the chances that i can get her back. She told me that she has no doubt that we would still be togather if i didnt neglect her and that shes sure that she lked me before that she could again what approach do i take or do i not at all
2006-12-29 16:25:28 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think it is good... It is always healthy to have a nice clean friendly friendship.. I am friends with my ex boyfriend.. It is good.. we talk about things.. so be friends with her again.. show her that u can be friends with her.. good luck.. ciao
2006-12-29 16:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by alohaforever16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, on a first approach, you should treat her as a friend, and prove that you care enough for her to sacrifice your feelings. That shows you do not neglect her and her feelings. Just try to be her friend, take it easy, and wait to see what she does.
maybe, you will get close as friends, then maybe be back together again, but anyway, a 3 years relationship cannot fade in 3 months. Good luck
2006-12-29 16:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by voweh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, that if you dont intend on doing the right thing by her, and you truly care for her, let her go.
I have tried the BE FRIENDS, on again off again thing and it doesnt work in the end and it only ruins any friendship that you might have. Sounds like she wants it to work , but if you want the space to do your own thing its only fair to do the right thing, no matter how difficult it is - this is especially true if u want to be involved with other women. You never know, once u get it out of your system things might be different, Best of luck.
HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM OZ!!
2006-12-29 16:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by scorpiosa70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being friends doesn't really seem an option since you want more than friends.
You need to calm down and think things through. You guys have problems you need to work out. Give her time and if she loves you and wants you back I'm sure she will let you know. You guys are really young, though.. holy cow. Just talk with her and try to assess where things could go.
2006-12-29 16:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the maturity and sophistication or worldliness of the ex and you and you future bf/gf's.
2006-12-29 16:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Just Chillin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were nice to her she would not have left so maybe if you are nice to her now she will ask you out again.
2006-12-29 16:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by sillygoosetonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends for life are hard to find. if possible be best friends, but most of all be "honest".
2006-12-29 16:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by dribcam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn just befriend her again,,,,
2006-12-29 16:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by DOMINATUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be naive.
2006-12-29 16:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋