six years ago i meet this wonderful girl that i always consider as a friend and never cross my mind to be with her but the thing is that now somehow i realize that i feel something for her but she has a boyfriend. Now i feel sad and happy because i want her to be happy and enjoy good moments but i can't control the feeling that is growing day by day towards her, what should i do?
2006-12-29 16:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by bravo20212000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i forgot to mention that they have been together for only 2 weeks.
2006-12-29 16:50:10 · update #1
You feel attracted to this girl even though she has a boyfriend. How devoted is she to this guy? Is this guy devoted to her? Is she open to seeing other guys? Why don't you ask her? Communicate with her and talk to her about how she feels about her boyfriend. Treat her as a good friend and work your way into her heart by doing the little things for her like opening a door for her and helping her with her books and complimenting her on the way she dresses and encouraging her when she feels down or depressed. Whenever you can be a good friend to her and be sincere and make her laugh. She will grow to love you.
2006-12-29 16:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's interesting that you started feeling this way at the same time she started a new relationship. A lot of people develop feelings for unavailable people because they are considered "safe". Could that be the case for you? If not--if your feelings are real--you should think about what you believe your chances are with her and whether you are willing to risk your friendship if she doesn't return your feelings. Although it isn't the nicest thing you could do to her boyfriend, their relationship is new enough that it can't be too serious, so this is the time to tell her if you think she's the one for you.
2006-12-30 01:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reconsider what your saying, how is it growing? Is it your feelings or something else? Since she's not married it's fair game my friend, but rude to split up a relationship. If you think you can pull it off, I say go for it (as long as you think you really want to be with this person). People always hate someone who splits up a happy relationship, keep this in mind.
2006-12-30 00:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The proper thing to do is wait. If you attempt to interfere then she may get angry and her being in another relationship may affect her actual feelings. wait when shes free see what happens
2006-12-30 00:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u have to wait until it ends on it's own naturally, if she dumps him for u, and isn't happy she will throw it up in your face, and blame u for the split, and she will leave u for him, so cool your heels, u should have moved faster.
2006-12-30 08:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she's not the "right" girl, she has a boyfriend...she is "taken". You need to move on and search for a "right" girl who isn't involved.
2006-12-30 01:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means she is not the right girl. Move on.
2006-12-30 00:32:48 · answer #7 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obvious buddy, if she has a bf she couldnt be the one for you.
2006-12-30 00:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea what you should do...do they have kids?
How you get them is how you loose them apparently...just do it right.
2006-12-30 00:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill him.....then console her on her horrible loss. you will be good as gold.
2006-12-30 00:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by brandorules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋