Family & Relationships - 27 December 2006

2006-12-27 15:56:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you just know? what if they are your soulmate, and deep down you feel that they are, should you trust that feeling? ah i dont know. its just i feel that he is the one, the true and ultimate one but i dono if thats trustworthy to believe taht. or if it means that you belive it it makes it true. .

2006-12-27 15:54:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a woman the past 3 months, and we're intimate (stayed over each others) the past few weeks. I don't feel like we need to talk on the phone every night, though. But sometimes I feel guilty if a couple of days go by where I don't call. What's the right frequency of calls in this kind of relationship? And should she do some of the calling, too?

2006-12-27 15:53:29 · 6 answers · asked by instant.kharma 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married over a year ago. I relized then that I loved wedding planning. There are days that I miss planning my wedding. Am I the only one that misses my wedding day? What do you do when you miss wedding planing?

2006-12-27 15:53:12 · 2 answers · asked by steffiegirl815 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

- i'm "tired" of my life: i want something MORE - bigger and better things, i'd rather travel the world than go to parties every weekend


- i'm sick of the "in crowd" and "cliques": i hate people that are soo exclusive and that are into hanging with the same, large group of people every weekend at parties - i only want to spend time with "important" people to me: close friends and family



- i dread school: i feel like i've accomplished nothing in school and badly want to be done soon...it's the most discouraging thing for me right now



- i don't like going to the mall as much anymore: there are way too many people on the weekends, teeny boppers are EVERYWHERE and annoy me so much - and no offense, but i see a lot of peoplei know, and i want to shop in peace - i'm not in the mood to talk


- i long for independence...


so am i depressed? or just growing up?

2006-12-27 15:53:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I appreciate that this isn't the best place for serious questions, but I need to ask this one as it is driving me nuts. (I'd be grateful if any trolls lurking here would get lost, as I'm really not in the mood for 500 pointless spam answers.)

My younger sister is scheduled for a caesarean section in a few hours time. To say she's not in the best of health is an understatement: she's an eplileptic, asthmatic smokerwith bronchitis! The problem is that she's insisting on having a general anaesthetic rather than an epidural. When her elder daughter was born via caesarean, the anaesthetic didn't work at all; obviously, she's not keen to repeat that experience.

I respect that. Still, I can't shift my own fear that it's is all going to go horribly wrong. I've looked up a load of info on the internet and, quite frankly, it has terrified me even more! Can anyone offer me any advice on how to get through the next few hours without going totally insane from worry? Someone? Anyone??

2006-12-27 15:52:47 · 17 answers · asked by Wildamberhoney 6 in Family

PLEASE READ ALL Well she's been my friend since grade 3, well I have a site, and someone said the colour of my page looked like ****, and to change it.. I remember before my friend told my it looked like ****, and I should chang it, so I thought maybe it was her. But I being my self didn't like what whoever had to say so I wrote after saying that WHO ever wrote this is a ***, and I'm not going to change just because one person told me to... and I staided some names along with it, I staided all my friends names, and my enimies along with it, then my friend write in the guestbox. Why are you blaming me for telling you that your front page coulor looked like ****.. So now I'm really angry with her, should I be, she got all defencive, at least she could be more thankfull I didn't blam her straight up, because I origanaly thought it was her... Tell me should I be mad at her, or at my self?

2006-12-27 15:52:04 · 2 answers · asked by Rain-- 3 in Friends

2006-12-27 15:51:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv been married for 7 seven years (together for over 10) I feel like I come home to a war zone. My daughter (13) and my husband are constantly at each other. He did, She did is all I hear every day. Should be easy huh? Except that I know my husband lies to make himself look better, Iv caught him on several occasions lying about what things she's said or done. We have other children at home, but its always her fault no matter what. On several occasions my son will step up and even say, "Hey she dident do that I did" and still my husband does not appologize for accusing her. Its a daily battle and he has gotten me to the point that all I want to do is defend her as soon as he starts. ( he starts every single day)

I know I may be wrong but I feel like I have to defend her from him, Iv tried talking to him about it but it always ends up in a battle. I just want peace in the house. Im not happy coming home everyday anymore because of this.

2006-12-27 15:50:34 · 24 answers · asked by just_trump_my_ace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found another man in my house, he clamied to be the plumber even though he was completely naked and so was my wife, now I let this slide because I am deaf, and have to set limits to stay married. Should I encourage this behavior if it makes my wife happy. It doesn't make me happy. Shoulds I see if my kids are mine, although the a deaf too so they probably are.

2006-12-27 15:50:18 · 11 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 y.o. African American female and new to this whole question thing. So does any one out there want to befriend me?

2006-12-27 15:49:54 · 6 answers · asked by just me 2 in Friends

2006-12-27 15:49:02 · 2 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

1 being Quasimodo, 10 being Halle Berry/Thandie Newton

2006-12-27 15:48:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know what are boyfriends suppose to do??? Help

2006-12-27 15:48:49 · 16 answers · asked by bregail12 1 in Singles & Dating

My cat got married against my wishes, and now she wants to move out of the house. What should I do?

2006-12-27 15:48:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Our 13 year old daughter is out of control. We are doing everything we think we should to help her to become a productive teen and eventually an adult, however with each passing day she seems to be getting angrier.
Here's a .little history - i will keep it as brief as possible --First off her Dad left her mom when she was 3 and married me. Her mother never did get over him and said many horrible things about us to her from an early age. (like: your dad doesn't love us ) To make a long story short she played games w/ her head. A yr ago Jan. she moved in w/ us cause her mom got arrested for being under the influence of drugs. This phase was short lived but her mom pretty much abandon her after her arrest. No calls eccept my daughters appempts to reach her mom, and no way of talking to her about what it is doing to her emotionally. She is taking it out on us saying hateful things to us & her lil brothers. She has fits of rage that are uncontrolable most of the time. WE NEED SOME HELP??

2006-12-27 15:47:40 · 13 answers · asked by truepassion76 2 in Family

My boyfriend and i are planning on moving in together and i want to look for an apartment right away, but sometimes I feel discouraged because I want to be able to help with some bills aswell. He tell me he can take care of it but I am a little doubtful. I know he can he got a good job but I always think until everything is good. I want us both to have good jobs and right now I can't find anything that will be decent and I dont want to put all that pressure on him when he has his own bills too. Should I wait until I get a job to help out financially?

2006-12-27 15:47:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with this guy for about a year on and off. andd hes 20 and im almost 17 nicest guy in the world my parents love him but he didnt graduate highschool and hes in adult ed trying to get his diploma.. he works at a pizza place. whenever we go out places i alwayss end up paying for both of us. i duno the whole thing just doesnt seem right.. im not sure what to do. im only 16 and i feel like i shouldnt be getting too serious with anyone cause i LOVE to have fun. im not sure if i should break up with him or not..

2006-12-27 15:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by happily_taken16 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 15:45:43 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-27 15:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by matt h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean me and my boyfriend have tried it but ever time i would come over he would want to andi dont wanna do it every time i go to his house but i dont want to tell him no. what do i do? im so scared to tell him cause he might break up with me.

2006-12-27 15:45:01 · 3 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it bad to walk around naked in front of your two girls who are 12? I dont think they mind cause im not fat or anythin but is it affecting them in any way ?

2006-12-27 15:43:50 · 24 answers · asked by girlzgirlza 1 in Singles & Dating

I met "Patrick" about 5 months ago, and we started talking as friends before going out on only 2 dates. Bad thing is that we got "intimate" the first time we went out (which was in the middle of the night). We did exactly the same thing the next time we dated. I wasn't really taking him serious and didn't have any feelings for him, that's why I did what I did, but I actually regret it with all my heart now. All we do it txt eachother everynow and then, but I try to make him understand that I really like him(in a serious way), and that I wish I had a serious relationship with him now. I know I did really bad by having done what I did on those first 2 dates, he probably thinks the worse of me. I don't know what I should tell him next time he invites me to go out with him because he will eventually expect the same from me. I want him to know that I'm not like he thinks I am, and that I could be a good girl for him. I want 2 start something serious with him, but i feel ashamed

2006-12-27 15:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tried by giving her a diamond necklace for christmas but still no change.I have known her for a long time and she is a good friend.She is finally single I would like to have a chance at a relationship with her.

2006-12-27 15:42:15 · 18 answers · asked by JR 1 in Singles & Dating

She's having an affair with a married man. Almost everyone in the family knows about it except for my dad. I don't have the courage either to tell my dad about it because of fear that he might do something bad to us and to my mom. My mom is working abroad but she came home this december with the guy to have a vacation. I'm finding it hard to adjust and I can't forgive myself for always lying to my dad. Please help

2006-12-27 15:41:02 · 20 answers · asked by clueless_mama 1 in Family

these are grown men.With familys of their own.

2006-12-27 15:39:32 · 9 answers · asked by mawmaw6 1 in Family

2006-12-27 15:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by rickaelkins 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and me are in the same class, one fine day he came and told me"you look like pooja and u do stuff like her, u do laugh like her". pooja was his first crush!

2006-12-27 15:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do? There's a possibility that we wouldn't meet. Should I stop chatting with him before I totally fall for him? Should I tell him how I feel before we end our wonderful chat? I can feel that he's falling for me too.

2006-12-27 15:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by phoenix 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some real talk from someone who knows what their talkin about please!!!

2006-12-27 15:37:55 · 9 answers · asked by Minnieboo 1 in Singles & Dating