My boyfriend and i are planning on moving in together and i want to look for an apartment right away, but sometimes I feel discouraged because I want to be able to help with some bills aswell. He tell me he can take care of it but I am a little doubtful. I know he can he got a good job but I always think until everything is good. I want us both to have good jobs and right now I can't find anything that will be decent and I dont want to put all that pressure on him when he has his own bills too. Should I wait until I get a job to help out financially?
2006-12-27 15:47:01 · 8 answers · asked by Ally R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are correct, you should both have good jobs first. nothing like money problems to end a good relationship. do your best to have a decent job, if youre that determined, youll find it.
consider it also a sign if you cant find a job yet. it may not yet be a good idea to move in together.
2006-12-27 15:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and get some skills if you don't have any. Go to school. For all you know, your boyfriend will be your ex before you know it and then what? You'll end up like my next door neighbor, stuck with a couple of kids, a heap of bills, no income other than child support and no prospects.
2006-12-27 23:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wait. Since he doesn't mind that you don't have a job right now, you shouldn't worry.
He obviously loves you and wants to be with you. You can continue to find a job that will help out with the bills and still live together.
Why not?
2006-12-27 23:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel better about the situation if you contribute financially, however, I'd encourage you to explore more education as well.
A part-time job will help and an education will reward you later on.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-27 23:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait till u get a job. because if you're ok for money now u shouldnt have to worry. i dont think it matters to him as long as ur both together.
2006-12-27 23:50:21 · answer #5 · answered by Green Ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you both aren't finacially secure that you should refrain from living together, that is the last thing you want to fight about is money and bills!!
2006-12-27 23:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should help as much as you can in every way.
2006-12-27 23:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-27 23:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by $$bags$$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋