I recently found another man in my house, he clamied to be the plumber even though he was completely naked and so was my wife, now I let this slide because I am deaf, and have to set limits to stay married. Should I encourage this behavior if it makes my wife happy. It doesn't make me happy. Shoulds I see if my kids are mine, although the a deaf too so they probably are.
2006-12-27 15:50:18 · 11 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would consult your wife from now on whether you are hiring a plumber or electrician or T.V. repairman or lawyer or doctor or cable man. Get background checks on all of them. Find out where they live and follow them around. No. Wait. It would be easier to just hire a P.I. to follow your wife around. Just get a background check on him, too. Also, get a background check on the guy doing a background check on the P.I. I hear they like each other.
Also, make sure none of them are deaf. I can't stand those people.
2006-12-27 16:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest no one deserves that. u should not have to make her happy by staying with her. she cleary pointed that out when u came home and found another guy naked claiming to be a plumber. if u stay with her me and u both know u will always have doubts about the two of u and whether she is faithful or not. just leave her and if u really wondering if the kids are ur then get a dna test. just becuz they are deaf does not mean anything.
2006-12-27 23:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be deaf but certainly not blind. It's pretty obvious she's cheating on you and you caught the guy in your house. You should leave her because you don't deserve that kind of treatment. Test the kids if they're really yours. Good Luck! I hope everything will turn out ok.
2006-12-28 00:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should not display that type of behavior, regardless if you are deaf or not. If your unhappy you need to let her know and tell her that it won't be tolerated. You still have feelings...thats just out right disrespectful.. a naked man in your house and she is still alive..just kidding...No way...Let her know how you really feel about that...IT'S NOT RIGHT....
2006-12-27 23:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Singer22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are deaf. You deserve respect and she is not giving it to you. You deserve to be happy. Try to work things out if you can but keep your self-respect in mind. If she doesn't stop cheating it's time to call it quits.
2006-12-28 00:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by pinkie60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN GONE. IF YOU FOUND HER WITH
HIM IN YOUR HOUSE. YOU MAY BE DEAF, BUT YOU NOT
BLIND. YOU CAN SEE THAT SHE CHEATING ON YOU. TIME
TO LEAVE HER AND SEE FOR SURE IF THOSE KIDS ARE
YOURS. SHE MAY BE LYING TO YOU ABOUT THAT AS WELL.
BUT YOU DONT NEED TO TAKE THAT FROM HER OR ANY
ONE ELSE. YOU DESERVE BETTER THEN THAT.
2006-12-28 00:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is terrible!!!! You must really have a tolerance for bull sh--!!
I'd recommend conversating with your wife about your happiness, your marriage and sexual relationship. Maybe you two need to spice it up...... (find out who he was-he most likely is screwing your wife)
2006-12-27 23:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by vabarbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad story. dump the ho.
or... find a plumber that can speak sign language... and then you can all get freaky together.
on the plus side, when she calls after you've broken up, you won't be able to hear her *****.
sincerely, lou
2006-12-27 23:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this kept happening leave her and test if the kids are yours
2006-12-27 23:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Gum Mo Jai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u serious? leave her.. !!
2006-12-27 23:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋