does anyone realy care about how my life turns out cuz even my parents stoped careing i was ready to change?

Answer 1

I know this is kind of long, butt bear with me, if only i could have taken my own advice. This is not a ***** out ok. Its food for thought on the importance of your future and the importance of wanting things for yourself not wanting to please someone else.
Your parents care very much for you. The problem is for as far back as you can imagine, generations, children have always done the oppsite of what their parents say to do.
Don't ask me why. But what will happen is in 10 years your going to wish you would have had faith in them and listen to their suggestions about learnin a productive way rather then go the path you know will not provide you with your full potential. Seriously! Mark my words, your either going to be proud you made a good life for yourself or you will one day find yourself talking with them and "I know now I should have listened to you when you tried to tell me to do this or that"will come from your mouth. without a doubt. thats a promise. So from here on out , every thing you do , do for the good of yourself and life to come. Be exellent to your self.



Why is it that you say "was ready"? You are the most important one alive to your own self.Shouldn't reflect on what any body else thinks. Their not the ones who have a life time to be you. Make your decision to change based on the knowledge that the better you set yourself up in life now, the further you will go in life. The choice is yours.

Where would you like to find yourself in 5 or 10 years?
Wearing the head gear at some drive thru repeatedly saying"Welcome to Burgerbummer, may I take your order please"?and living in a apartment you share with 3 other guys that work with you and only 1 bedroom and theres always a party going on.It will get old and so will you butt that life doesn't promise you one thing, definetely not respect. Its the easy way out but don't let the name fool you because it's a hard life.

If you pull your weight though, do well in school for 'you', not any body else then you might find yourself kicking back in a plush office with a long distance customer at the other end of your head set closing a big deal. Taking the rest of the day off because....'you can'!
Care about your self. Your the one who desides weather or not you get into the porshe or the volkswagon wearing a suit or a uniform when you head out to work.
Think about your lifestyle and what you want to have for yourself later in life. really. Kids these dayz tend not to think ahead. Take it from someone who was so young when I became an adult, my child and I practically grew up together.
You know what happens when you grow up? Just that! Your grown up. Childhood and adolesense is your information supply being fed to you for the point in time you are set free. How you receive your intelllegence is up to you.Just know one thing.

The more you learn, the smarter you get,the smarter you are, the better your job,the more money you'll make, the better life you'll live, nicer house, cars, toys, vacations.
Thats all on you to have these things.
Not for any one else. Quit thinking about
everyone else, be selfish, think about you. You deserve the best. Open your eyes and relize the only thing you do in adolesnce is learn. 24/7 everything that happens to you is more information to be able to bring forth sometime later in life when its needed. So learn everything you can and when you need it you will have it and it will bring you in to adulthood with the upperhand you need.Then your years will not be as harsh when your older and you can actully relax knowing you have set your self for life. Be proud of yourself and accomplish alot.Keep reminding your self of the rewards...An easier lifestyle with real vacations, house in the foot hills with pool and jacuzzi, a boat ,nice car, clothes restraunts, true friends that you can trust.so anyway..
obviously, I care.........please don't read this like a ***** out. read it again and hear all the goodness in my words, ok. thx for listening and good luck in whatever you do.

learn to love to learn.[i like that, think i'll write this one down]lol.
Ok well ....your in my thoughts and prayers now so when you feel that little extra bit of strength in you, you know where its coming from. I'm on your side.
peace out.:)>-

Answer 2

You must be really sad, because this is your second post in minutes.

Again, people care. I will pray some more for you. Talk to you parents,I suspect they actually care. I'm not sure what you have done in your life, but there is always a way to change. There is also forgiveness available. No matter what you have done.

You should call someone and talk to them. Call them tonight. Again, I will post the hotline number.

Girls and Boys Town National Hotline...
Call With any Problem, Anytime
1-800-448-3000 (TDD 1-800-448-1833)
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I pray you find happiness,

Answer 3

Dearest Matt,

There are a lot more who care about you than you realize. YES, your parents still care. Perhaps there are things going on in their lives that cause them to be a bit distracted, but they care and always will.

Change is difficult and will take a while to show, but you can do it. Good luck to you on that front. Get someone you respect to help you with that. Take it slow and make sure that you can handle the changes as you put them into your life. You can change, if you really want to do it.

Never forget that God loves you and wants everything good for you. He made you to be a very unique person - NO ONE ELSE is like you. Keep praying for His help, and you'll have it.

Then, keep in mind that someday, you will come across a young woman whom God made especially for you. Pray for her and yourself each day that when you meet, the time will be right and you will recognize one another. Don't mess up and let her wind up all alone in this world. Keep your heart open and you will find her and know it was all worth it.

Always keep God in the center of your life and you cannot fail.

Hugs to you, Matt. How smart of you to have asked!!

Answer 4

You sure know how to pose a question. Are we supposed to guess?
You were ready to change, but didn't show evidence that you were, and they were sick and tired of all your sh*t, and couldn't take it any more. You should go to them and apologize for all the anguish that you have put them through with the crap you've been pulling. But don't do this until you have gotten professional help and can exhibit real signs of change.
Does anyone care, Hell yes, man. Lots of people care, but you have a way of turning them off!
Quit your crappy behavior, and make decent friends.
Get to work!

Answer 5

I'm sorry that you feel that your parents stopped caring. Perhaps they are just tired. You did not elaborate on why you are ready to change, but do it for yourself and not for anyone else.

Your best bet is to care about yourself. When you do that, you'll always be okay.

Best luck and take care.
You'll be just fine.

Answer 6

I stay homestead with my toddlers, yet as quickly as I did make the main of daycare i does no longer pull them out for various motives. First one is the youngsters get very related and related to their companies, so this might reason pointless issues. additionally, assuming merely because of the fact the hetero daycare working will refrain from making out along with his/her significant other, i assume the gay daycare worker will as nicely. i'm picking to homsechool as nicely, and to no longer convert society to my way of thinking, yet to guard my toddlers from toddlers that are raised with the aid of mum and dad who could no longer care much less what they watch, do, work together in, etc. desire this helps from the perspective of a born back Christian :-)

Answer 7

You need to care about your own life, your parents are hoping for you to change.

Answer 8

believe it or not i do i love humans and i want the best for everyone it really hurts me when i see people get sick hurt or die I'm a firefighter and it hurt to watch the events of 911 i was even hurt to know the terrorist died i would have loved for them to have learned the truth and change their ways then die my father was killed and i talked to the guy they believe killed him (it was never found out who did because two witnesses disappeared) and there is no hatred i just hope he changes if he did it

Answer 9

Yes there are alot of people that care for you I am sure of that maybe you need to open your eyes to those who are around you; but most of all you must like yourslef first...

Answer 10

If you really want to change yourself than do it! Do not wait for approval of others...you do it to make yourself a better person! Your parents are probably waiting to see if you are truely wanting to change!!! Soooo do it!!!