Family & Relationships - 23 December 2006

there are 3 guys contesting for my love, they are all good for a relationship and that is the problem. i don't know who to choose.
how do i get rid of 2 of them to have 1 for a hopefully lasting relationship.

2006-12-23 08:02:15 · 8 answers · asked by shooter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 08:02:09 · 35 answers · asked by charli 1 in Singles & Dating

should you just start yeling at someone when you are really mad? When they did something wrong? Or both?

2006-12-23 08:00:23 · 26 answers · asked by spartamonkey14 2 in Friends

2006-12-23 07:58:52 · 37 answers · asked by bad boy 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get a persent for my friend but what it has to be not alot of money becuase its out of my pocket not my parents but it has to be something nice

2006-12-23 07:58:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I'm kinda quiet around men and never really had guys as friends till a couple yrs ago when I started hanging out with a group of girls and guys...once i get to know them i loosen up a little. Do guys ever think it's cute that a girl is quiet and shy or should i try to be more forward???

2006-12-23 07:58:36 · 7 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

One morning I had to go to the dentist and my fiance likes to sleep in and hes late for work everyday. Well anyways when I wake him up he gets really mad b/c he had to watch my son (hes not the father). He gets up cussing and throwing a fit so I got back at him telling him if he doesnt want to watch him then my mom will. But after we get into a fight later on he is nice to us, whats the deal? When he is around his friends he is always smiling and laughing, but when I go to see him its like he is not even there. I dont know what to do? Advice please.....

2006-12-23 07:57:59 · 13 answers · asked by tradeangel2000 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 07:56:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I haven't seen my ex -bf in a year so it was surprising when he said he wanted to see me and "meet up". He called me, and planned the whole thing (a movie). I assumed there would be coffee afterwards since after one year I thought he wanted to really talk & catch up. He picked up, but he never opened any doors for me, he walked ahead of me, & after the movie he just drove me home. He never walked me to my door & just said "merry Christmas". He never tried to even hug me so I just shook his hand & said bye. I felt like trash after the date, he treated me bad, like s**t. He would open doors & walk me to my door when we were going out, but I thought he would be a gentlemen again cuz of all the effort he put in to set up this date, by calling & picking me up. I thought after the movie, we would have coffee and that he would say either 1) I want u back, or 2) I wanna be friends. I thought #2 is what he would say. Neither of this happened. WHY did he do that & treat me like that?

2006-12-23 07:55:56 · 29 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in an apartment, my best friend lives in a 3 bedroom/3 bath house. He received a Christmas card/newsletter from a mutual acquaintance (Well, actually from someone who claims to be my families best friend in the world! ) We didn't. I tell him it is because he is her "equal". She is snobbish, but she also lives in a home they are buying complete with an HOA, same as him. She wanted to "sponsor" us for Christmas to teach her children it is better to give than receive. We politely asked her to sponsor another family at church, because we were doing okay this year. I believe we are percieved as poorer, lower class because we live in an apartment, not in a house we are buying with a Home Owners Association to tell us every move to make. What do you think?

2006-12-23 07:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Friends

My niece is very special to me. She is the daughter of my brother that was murdered by his ex wife. It was over custody issues. She was put back into foster care, mercifully with a good family, and I lost contact with her for over 25 years. When I found her again, we were living in the same city and found we have children of the same age (my brother was 21 years older than me) and they get along great. I gratefully thanked him for caring for her so well. Our husbands were like two peas in a pod. When we had the chance to get together, we had a great time together. Our two daughters are very close and the family similarities are very endearing. Then came the phone call where she told me he had left her for a woman he had a 2 year running affair (and a baby) with. Recently, they asked if we could attend a "family party" for the daughter's birthday. I could not bring myself to go because I knew the "other woman" would be there. Was I wrong? My niece has forgiven him but I cannot.

2006-12-23 07:55:22 · 21 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 07:55:06 · 8 answers · asked by pori k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 07:54:35 · 14 answers · asked by aihsertal 4 in Singles & Dating

This girl Nicky used to be my step neice. My mother got divorced, which makes us not related anymore. I really want to see her (it's been over two years) but her mother doesn't want her to see me because she thinks my mom is the evil stepmother or something. What can I do to see her?

2006-12-23 07:53:27 · 13 answers · asked by DunderMifflin 3 in Friends

my best friend is overeacting cuz my other friend and i played a little joke on her i dont know wat i should do cuz she is getting on my last nerves? HELP!

2006-12-23 07:53:25 · 12 answers · asked by sassy suzie 2 in Friends

2006-12-23 07:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This kid in my homeroom likes me,but I don't like him.He's been a pervert to everyone he likes.I want to tell my mom,but don't know what to say.How do I get him to leave me alone?Please help!

2006-12-23 07:52:42 · 19 answers · asked by COOL♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-23 07:52:01 · 1 answers · asked by Alaa E 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf, who just asked me to marry him, but i haven't answered yet. last month he asked me if i was ready to have sex with him, i said no, but i think manly why he asked me to marry him is because he thinks i will get into bed with him. do u think this is why he wants to get married?

2006-12-23 07:51:46 · 20 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Singles & Dating

This is happening as we speak.

My mom and sister are arguing about something that really doesn't concern me. I don't want to jump into the argument and try to defend either side, because I know I am going to end up in tears like my sister.

Usually at the end of an argument, both my mom and sister are in tears. My sister can get really crabby if I try to comfort her, she is really independent, so I always just go hug my mom, but I don't know what to do now, because I agree with my sister, but I don't really know what to do at the moment, I hate the sound of them arguing.

This is also kind of frustrating, because the letter I have been waiting for has finally come. I have been waiting for a month, and I have finally been accepted into this fine arts program, but now, no one seems interested in it.

2006-12-23 07:51:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-23 07:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by curiousJ 2 in Singles & Dating

without making them angry

2006-12-23 07:50:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 26. Whilst there is absolutely nothing wrong with the age gap and it bothers neither one of us, the problem is that I only look around 15/16.

It also doesn't help that he is 6"4 and I'm 5"2.

I've noticed that the looks we get when walking down the street sometimes have started to bother him, he's scared he looks like a paedophile and although I am happy just to ignore the looks (which definately do happen, they're not in our heads), it genuinely bothers him.

Aside for making myself look older, which is what society is forcing me to do as a consequence, what can I do, I feel guilty for being with him and for making him feel so unacceptable.

2006-12-23 07:49:47 · 24 answers · asked by sneakinaroundlookinsuspicious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you've had an affair, what was the outcome?

2006-12-23 07:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-23 07:49:26 · 2 answers · asked by V 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-23 07:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by CUTIE 4 in Singles & Dating

ok I am not looking to get married for some time becaus i am only 20. So this guy i have been dating told my friend that he thinks I am the one... and he told my friend to not tell me... but we are best friends so she told me...then he aksed her what I thought about the matter and she didnt tell... now he texted me last night and told me he has something to tell me the next time I see him. I dont feel I could Marry him.... but I do like him i just dont think i could marry him...
how do I tell it in a nice way with out hurting his feelings.... also we both are LDS and he will be leaving on a misson in a few months and he asked me if I would wait for him (* 2 yeas)

2006-12-23 07:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by songbirdchelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

which one?

2006-12-23 07:46:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u think about if there is a true love nowadays, do u think that there is a real love that can live 4eva ;however happens between both?? and how can u know that the person u love is really loves u ??

2006-12-23 07:46:20 · 5 answers · asked by ayouya l 1 in Singles & Dating

She has also left a message on my phone with a contact number.What is she up to.Is there an ulterior motive.Should I return the call?

2006-12-23 07:45:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce