She has also left a message on my phone with a contact number.What is she up to.Is there an ulterior motive.Should I return the call?
2006-12-23 07:45:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well obviously there is a reason for her card and msg. You know her better than we do. Did you break up on good terms ?? Perhaps she is just feeling sentimental for some reason. If you are married again or have a girlfriend l would discuss it with them first and then decide whether to return her call or not. If you are single then l guess it is entirely up to you whether you want to get in touch with her or not. There's really no harm in a phone call otherwise you will always wonder why she wanted to get in touch again after several years, but the bottom line is it's entirely your call really. Good luck and Merry Xmas.
2006-12-23 08:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, let this one go by! You've had several YEARS without contact. Why start something now? No! Get your hand off that phone. Put the can opener away! Of course there's a motive but you don't want to know what it is! Some things are just best left alone!!
2006-12-23 08:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there's no harm in returning the call. There's no commitment in a phone call and you're not leaving yourself vulnerable if she does have an ulterior motive. She's probably just feeling reminiscent, time of year that it is and all.
2006-12-23 07:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship.... I have an ex where the relationship fizzled out, in fact we would have probably been better off being friends... I would have no problem being back in touch with him, should he contact me.. as friends... however I have another ex who is nothing but trouble, no matter how much time it has been since the last time I saw him, I know that if/when I see him again, its going to mean alot of pain, heartache etc etc...if the ex was trouble ... leave well alone mate.
2006-12-23 08:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by mz_recruiter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be, you just need to figure out how you feel about that. I recently contacted an old boyfriend but I had no ulterior motive (Im married) I just wanted to apologize for breaking his heart. He did not resopond. Which is fine. But if you want, give her a call, she may just want to catch up.
2006-12-23 07:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by lynjen31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't return the call. Just send a simple card saying "Nice hearing from you, hope all is going well with you and yours this holiday. Merry Christmas."
That's it. And that's only if you even want to go that far to stay in contact.
2006-12-23 07:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you should return the call. Your ex after several years may have realized that you were the best thing of her life and she wants to give it another go.
2006-12-23 15:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont return the call, send her a christmas card wishing her all the best for the future. keep it nice sweet and short. she either wants to get back with you, or she wants to clear things up between you, then again she could have been drunk when she contacted you and forgot all about it.
2006-12-23 23:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a simple, not-so-personal Christmas card and send it to him. Sign only your name, or if you're married, the names of your whole family. That way he gets the same courtesy he extended to you without getting the wrong impression.
2016-05-23 02:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her back, she may just need a friend at the moment and may still want to be friends with you. Either way if she does want to be back with you, and you don't, you can awlays tell ehr where to go. Good luck and merry christmas
2006-12-23 08:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋