I asked a question a few days ago about how when my bf does something to hurt me, and doesn't recognize what he did or admit to doing anything wrong, and never ever apologizes, I was saying how that builds and builds and although I love him very much, its driving me crazy. Some people said I need to leave the selfish bastard, but some said try to learn to let go of your anger. He is the way he is and if I want to be with him, I have to accept him the way he is.
So I thought about it and wondered if I could learn to let go of the past, present, and future pain. But, how much do you accept and "let go" of before you're a whipping post or a patsy with no spine. How do you maintain respect for yourself while "letting it go"? Meanwhile, he'll think he can walk all over me right, because I'll just let it go? Uh, that doesn't sound right. I love him and don't want to leave him, but he's an ignoramus. He does nice things sometimes, actually, but never ever admits wrongdoing.
2006-12-23
16:14:43
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Ade
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Marriage & Divorce