I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. We are co-workers and her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. Sometimes she flirts with me. I don't flirt back I play it cool. If she flirts again, should I ask her out?
2006-12-23 16:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her showing coworkers the letter could be a very good indicator that she does indeed like you back, she just doesn't know how to deal with her feelings. She could be flustered, as you are, and just not know what to do. Start by comforting her, as a friend, when and if she comes in crying. Putting aside your attraction to her, try to figure out what is wrong and why she stays with her current boyfriend. Support her, and if there is abuse--verbal or physical--encourage her to leave the situation. If she doesn't leave and the abuse continues you can always call the police and leave a message regarding domestic abuse anonymously.
Don't try to persuade her to go out with you right after she breaks up with her current boyfriend, however, especially if it is a messy break-up. Support her for a while as just a friend, then, once you feel you know her a bit better, ask her out. But place your concern for her safey and happiness before your own happiness. This will help both of you.
2006-12-23 16:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't so much your problem as her problem. You put yourself out there in the open with the letter, and now it's her turn. It seems like she likes you back, but you'll have to be patient with her. She's wavering in between you and her boyfriend, it seems, so you have to give her time to make a choice. If you push her too much she might just go the opposite way. I'd say flirting is ok, because you still want her to know you are interested. But if you want to ask her out say something like, "You know how I feel about you, and I want to ask you out, but you have a boyfriend. Do you like me like I like you, or not?"
Saying that will clear things up. Don't go out with her when she is still with her boyfriend. A girl who is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you, is willing to cheat on you with someone else. Good luck!!
2006-12-23 16:37:42 · answer #2 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told her how you feel.
she has a boyfriend.
Now you have to wait for her to make the next move. Its not cool to steal a girl away from a guy, even if he sucks.
You'll be much happier if she comes to you on her own. There's nothing left for you to do. In the meantime, buy a book or something so you'll have interesting and intelligent things to talk about with her when you get the chance.
2006-12-23 16:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its glaring she has thoughts for you nonetheless, so basically question no matter if you do too. if so, bypass for it! It sounds like there is continually been feeling between you both even once you weren't at the same time, & because you recognize one yet another so nicely, a courting ought to very last for a lengthy time period & be well worth it. the basically element i'd question is the reason you broke up at the same time with her before. If it replaced right into a difficulty that ought to face up back, possibly evaluate no matter if that's well worth going out at the same time with her back. otherwise, i'd say you need to bypass for it. best of success! x
2016-12-01 03:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, sounds to me like she might like you...so keep playing it cool for right now...wait for her to break it off with her current boyfriend before doing anything more though.
2006-12-23 16:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way....wait until she is single...that is one big drama mess you don't want to be in the middle of for sure...when she is ready to move on she will dump this other guy but until then you keep playing it cool
2006-12-23 16:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooo sweEt, but anyways maybe u shuld try and asking her out it wuldnt hurt to try... and u neva kno she just mite like u back!
2006-12-23 16:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by CAN~U~SAY~GABBY!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT DO ANYTHING, SHE HAS SOMEONE ELSE
SO JUST KEEP IT COOL SHE KNOW HOW YOU FEEL
IF SHE WANT TO PURSUE IT SHE WILL DO THE RIGHT
THING BY EVERYONE INVOLVED.
2006-12-23 16:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋