when your boyfriend says he loves you and misses you so much, but then doesn't call you for 3 days?
2006-12-23 16:08:59 · 15 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey looks like my own fiancé at some time. We lived apart for one year because he had to study overseas and there were times when he would not text or call me. I can understand that you have doubts in such times but maybe there's a good reason behind this. Maybe he does not have any credit left on his mobile to call, maybe he's been too busy working, maybe he's had worries of his own. You can subtlely ask him why he took so long to call you but don't do that too often because he'll feel pressurized. And also, I've come to realise that guys attach less importance to calling and saying love words...but that does not mean that they're in love. It's just the way they are. Dont worry too much
2006-12-23 16:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Maria wants no hassle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something might be up, but you need to give him the benefit of the doubt...Ask him!!!Why???...And that you don't understand that, because when you care about someone you want to know everyday, if that person is OK!!...Now let me say this...I am one of those people that doesn't like to talk on the phone...I love my kids and grand-kids very much ,And also have a boyfriend that I'm very fond of...But i don't call everyday, Does this mean that I don't love them or that something is going wrong in our relationships...NO, it dosent....The only way your gonna know is to ask!!!So ask away and see what he says...Then you should know, if you really know him!!!!Whats going on And if hes messin around or not....You go girl, do it right!!!
2006-12-24 00:26:30 · answer #2 · answered by highpockets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there other signs that something is up? If not, you might just be paranoid. It depends on how the relationship has been in the past, too. Is three days ridiculously long for you guys? And where is he that he's been missing you? Does he have a reason for not being around?
2006-12-24 00:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by centralwimusic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you. Been there done that. I know it's very hard, but go out with other people, find a new hobby or something like that. If he really loves you, he'll realize that he's on the verge of losing you and will come around. If not, then you will find someone better down the road.
2006-12-24 00:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by wolf_lady509 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he loves and he misses you so much he is probably telling you the truth.Believe him until you find out otherwise.
2006-12-24 00:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by melbournewooferblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, he's messing with you. I know there is emotions involved but don't be the one to call. If he says he misses u just say sure u do, and act like u don't belive him.
2006-12-24 00:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probaly missed you and then his mates came arround and hes been out on the town for 3 days
2006-12-24 00:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so lying to u if he loved u so much he would have called be real
2006-12-24 00:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha iv done the same thing. if your thinking hes cheating on you then stop, hes probably wrapped up in something
2006-12-24 00:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by conan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means he is playing you. and doesn't take the relationship to serious.
2006-12-24 00:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by mburleigh8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋