Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

My boyfriend and I just broke up (after 2 years) and we have a gorgeous home that never of us can afford by ourselves. The house is technically in his name but we have shared all costs. We also have VERY expensive furniture that we both have put money into. We don't hate each other and we both are still hurt. I still love him but I cannot be in the type of relationship he wants, so because of that, because of my trust issues and because of his unwillingness to compromise we are thinking about continuing to live together as roommates. I would move into the guest room and there is more than enough room for both of us but I am worried about other issues that may arise. Does anyone have any feedback? Thanks!

2006-12-21 09:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this copper through a internet forum online...in september 06 and he said he had a gf but she was ok with us chatting to each other online. He started to flir with me and I flirted back. She went off for a few month starvelling and he came online more and more chatting to me. Our conversations got dirty and we both liked it. Now (dec 06) he is due to see the gf in Jan 07 and now he is saying that he will cut me short in conversation as he has re-addressed his life and although he flirts with the girls at work....he knows that the gf knows these girls....so thinks its ok...and he says she doesn't see them at work.

I think I started to fall for him cos I wanted to give him my number. We chatted tonight online and I said I thought his gf would mind. He said he loved his gf and always would. How can he say that when he spent the last three months chatting intimatey with me...asking me to stick my finger in my ***** etc etc. I got really upset when he said he loved his gf and

2006-12-21 09:03:56 · 15 answers · asked by Blue_Bell 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a job as a waiter almost two weeks ago and I'm making roughly about 13-17 dollars per hour.

Theres this lady that I work with that was soo nice to me the first day, then the next day she changed into a giant biatch. She wont acknowledge that Im around her - which is very annoying. Anyways this morning I went up to her and said that I wanted to start over on a clean slate with her and be nice to eachother and she said "get the **** out my face ************ before i beat your ************* ***." Astonished, I went to my manager who heard everything and she said that we both might get sent home, even though I didnt say anything and she let her keep working.

I feel so frustrated because no one should have to put up with that, and also because my manager wont do anything about it, but I want to keep my job because of the money.

HELP! What should I do?!?

2006-12-21 09:03:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going-out with this girl a week ago but we can meet only every weekend, but during the week i send her SMSes and phone calls (phone only every two days).

Yesterday i tried to call and sms but got no answer yet... i'm curious and it's driving me nuts lol
She is in her period and she also has serious PMS problems... but all the week have been cool... i don't know why she wouldnt answer :(

I know i shouldnt rush but i can only see her for a month since im going back to my country.

Please help out this desesperate guy :)

2006-12-21 09:02:02 · 9 answers · asked by theonoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 09:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by 1001 1 1 in Singles & Dating

likes your best friend?

2006-12-21 09:01:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, me and this guy went out for a while. He was great in every aspect of the relationship, but when it came time to pay a bill....boy oh boy did he back out.

For instance, on our first date we went to the movies. Of course, I offered to pay, and although he didn't let me, he made me go buy pizza and popcorn instead. After this date, we went to the movies again. This time, I paid. It's like....he's waiting for me to offer to pay, and he never says no. When we went out for dinner, I politely looked in my purse to bring out some money, but lo and behold, I ended up paying for the whole meal.

What's up with this? Regardless to say, we are no longer together. But it wasn't over money issues, something else. But still.....it bothers me till this day.

Who was wrong? Me for offering, or him for taking?

2006-12-21 09:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is never clear with me, hes more into the mysterious kind of personality! not in a bad way that involves cheating but in other life matters which i keep telling him he should share with me since we r a couple! then again i find out about sth else that he never told me about on and on and on!!! then when we argue he insists that he didnt do anything wrong and u never reach to an end arguing with him till ur bored basically! help!! im going crazy dealing with his stubborn head!

2006-12-21 09:01:11 · 13 answers · asked by Belle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK, there is this guy in a class of mine. we are friends but yesterday he finally got the nerves to tell me that he likes me over the internet. i dont feel the same way about him as he feels about me. i told him that and i made it pretty clear. he asked me out and i said no. then he asked to send him nude pics of myself. once again i said no. then he took it a step farther and asked me to have sex with him. i said no for the 3rd time. he keeps asking me about the pics and sex, but i dont want to and i have made it pretty clear that i dont wanna. I dont know how to get him to stop...what should i do?

2006-12-21 09:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 months w/my bf,he asked me to marry him n i said yes is that ok i love him alot.anyways my cuz invited me to go w/her to dallas 4 xmas n i said yes,im gonna be gone 4 almost a week and my bf told me that its ok 4 us will c if we miss each other and im scared that he will change his mind about us when im gone i dont know what to do im not going to see him and i feel like if i leave his gonna realize maybe that he doesnt love me or somethin.is this in my head only or could it happen im scared dont know what to do.please help.sometimes i think that hes getting tired or me n i have asked him but he says that im crazy.maybe its will help us get closer right cuz were always together and always on the phone and writing to each other maybe this is good 4 us just to have some alone time away from each other right!!!

2006-12-21 09:00:48 · 1 answers · asked by dance4life 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when you think about someone every 10 minutes or so....? im married! but think about my lover every ten minutes or so!
no matter what i do, his face/smell voice is in my head!

2006-12-21 08:59:55 · 13 answers · asked by im*horny 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How many people should be in a wedding and what are there roles?

2006-12-21 08:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by tina 2 in Weddings

Would you marry you if you could?


Yes or No and why?

2006-12-21 08:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by tickle me RUDE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-21 08:59:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were in a committed relationship, but had the opportunity to cheat on your significant other, and were guaranteed you would not be caught, would you do it? What do you think most men would say?

2006-12-21 08:58:54 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm making a coupon book for my mom for Christmas with chores that I'll do without hesitation! Any ideas on what to put in it! I'm 13!

2006-12-21 08:58:52 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda S 2 in Family

2006-12-21 08:58:36 · 39 answers · asked by timbo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Please help me, as i lack of ideas in terms of subjects to talk to girls.

2006-12-21 08:58:32 · 13 answers · asked by Pax2U 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 08:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

A-Beds fit for monarchical types
B-Larger than average sized beds
C-Based on original designs by King Henry VIII
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2006-12-21 08:58:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's being moody, being aggressive and it's upsetting me. Earlier I took some wood from his 'den' (in my house) to burn on the open fire and he did this thing where he slaps the back of his right hand into the palm of the other whilst looking angry. I'm on dialysis and feeling pretty rough right now - I want to talk to him about it and finding it hard to think what to say. Help

2006-12-21 08:57:47 · 24 answers · asked by Nicola L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if she says " i saw u at red lobster :D "

does it seem like she likes me or no ?

2006-12-21 08:57:39 · 3 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

If so, why exactly??? You always hear guys say they like when a woman can cook, but maybe you can explain it a bit more to me. I'm sure its not just because you're hungry and you don't know how to cook yourself! HaHa!

BTW, I cook and bake!!! But I'm not chunky or anything, so don't get the wrong idea! (just had to throw that in there, before anyone makes such comments)

2006-12-21 08:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, this guy follows me around at school. And i constantly catch him staring at me, everday for long periods of time. And now his friends started acting really weird around me. Does it sound like he likes me?

2006-12-21 08:56:54 · 22 answers · asked by crowsarecomingforus_letemlive 1 in Singles & Dating

I did it a few times but only because of a truth or dare game i really dont know how to make out on my own please help!

ps. im a guy so i dont know if things are differnt for girls i like girls! im stright so i need girls to tell me what they like and guys to just help everyone help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....please lol

2006-12-21 08:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by jenks 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to my friend on the phone, and she was telling me about this guy she met in another county that reminded her of me. she gave me his screen name and told me to im him, so i did last night. we had a very interesting conversation but then i had to go :( in the conversation he gave me his myspace so i could see a pic and i add him. well now hes really nice to talk to, and he seems like he understand me well. plus hes not bad on the eyes.....lol but i think i really like him but ive never met him. what should i do? (btw we're 15)

2006-12-21 08:55:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really need help on this one!!!

2006-12-21 08:55:34 · 10 answers · asked by lilchicki654 2 in Friends

I separated from my husband last December after I found out about a little fling he had. I have tried to take him back and to forgive and forget but I can't get over what he did. I love him and want him back in my life but I keep thinking about what he did and the lies he told etc. Would counselling help me?

2006-12-21 08:55:30 · 20 answers · asked by Sue K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just venting !!!!

2006-12-21 08:55:22 · 10 answers · asked by HOT LATINA 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do any of you married women out there get so sexually frustrated to the point of loosing it... if so tell me why, and whats up with that, and I'll see what I can do...

2006-12-21 08:55:08 · 6 answers · asked by J from O 4 in Marriage & Divorce