OK, there is this guy in a class of mine. we are friends but yesterday he finally got the nerves to tell me that he likes me over the internet. i dont feel the same way about him as he feels about me. i told him that and i made it pretty clear. he asked me out and i said no. then he asked to send him nude pics of myself. once again i said no. then he took it a step farther and asked me to have sex with him. i said no for the 3rd time. he keeps asking me about the pics and sex, but i dont want to and i have made it pretty clear that i dont wanna. I dont know how to get him to stop...what should i do?
2006-12-21 09:00:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To get him to really stop, in the classroom with it full of the other students you say..."Look, I am getting sick and tired of you asking me for naked pictures, and to have sex with you. I don't care if it's over the Internet, or in person, it is still wrong. If you don't stop harassing me, I'm going to go to the police."
Keep a record of each harassing email or text message. If he talks to you in person, write down what time it happened, what was said, and who witnessed it. Harassment is against the law. He CAN go to jail for this.
Telling him in front of the class will get the whole thing out into the open, and make everyone else aware of the problem. What he is doing is just another form of bullying. You need other people to know, so he can't get away with escalating into violence and get away with it.
Physical violence against you IS the next step in this obsessive behaviour.
If he is still harassing you after you humiliate him in class, then go to the police.
2006-12-21 09:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a dope this guy is!
He is making me laugh out loud! First he asks you out and you turn him down, then he asks for nude pictures and then for sex! hahahaha What a idiot!
Here's what you should do
1. Block him on your chat list so he can't send you instant messages.
2. If he talks to you at school ignore him - do not answer him or look at him. If he doesn't get the ignoring message then tell him you are reporting him for stalking you.
2006-12-21 17:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by krinkn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would threaten him and tell himthat you will get him arrested if he asks you again. He won't bother you ever again. A least I think so. If he doesn't back off by the threat, then you should probably really call the cops on him for seual harassment.
2006-12-21 17:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not a Friend after all but a jerk find a new friend and inform Mr. jerk boy that one more comment like that and you are going to report him to the principal and to your dad and that your dad will bet the living crap out of him if it doesn't stop immediately and if if doesn't follow Thur because what he is doing is called sexual harassment.
2006-12-21 17:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print out copies of the chat transcripts and give them to counselor at school or his parents - what's he doing is harassment.
2006-12-21 17:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restranting order , block him, tell him to f**k off , and if her does it agian have him arrested for sexual harrassment ! and has he ever put his hands on you ??? if so sue for domestic violence that is what i would . don't let this guy do this. oh and uh for some advice : sometimes sayin no isn't enough
2006-12-21 17:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by cheyclarkton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the school office and tell them what he's doing. They'll put a stop to it!
2006-12-21 17:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you will call the cops on him for sexual harrassment that will make him shut up and leave you alone
2006-12-21 17:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block him. you've made it pretty clear that you're not interested. if it carries on to school, i'd get the administration involved.
2006-12-21 17:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get a restraining order against him. He sound dangerous, and you never know what he might do.
2006-12-21 17:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋