Family & Relationships - 21 December 2006

Not clingy though!!!

2006-12-21 22:07:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an estranged mother. I haven't seen her or had her apart of my life for over 12 years. I am getting married this year, and just found out she is aware of the wedding. I don't want her there, it would ruin 'my special day'. Her side of the family disowned me, so none of them will be there either. There really isen't anyone who would be able to tell her the details of the event, but she is mentally unstable, and has gone to great lengths in the past to try and make herself present at my 'milestones' (highschool graduation etc). I want to know if anyone has any suggestions on how to keep a wedding 'locked down' without having it be obvious to guests. I really don't want her there, and I also don't want my guests to see her being escorted out by police. It feels like a fine line, and I am worried.

For anyone who is concerned about her, don't be. Believe me when I say this women has NO right to be apart of my adult life.

2006-12-21 22:06:13 · 13 answers · asked by Melissa N 2 in Weddings

a little kiss on the cheek to wish you a very Merry Christmas? Mmwah!!!

2006-12-21 22:03:36 · 34 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Friends

I want to do something special for my bf this christmas but dont know what, I have brought him a smart stereo with surrond sound but would also like to do something special for him, any suggestion?

2006-12-21 22:03:29 · 8 answers · asked by kitty76 3 in Singles & Dating

myself and my partner haven been getting on for quite sometime.every year we go to his parents house xmas day but they are all for the son and in recent situations they pushed me to one side i dont want to visit this year and play happy families we have 2 kids and i know my partner will throw it into my face that i should go for their sake..am i being unfair?

2006-12-21 22:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by nat c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which is your favourite Love Song and Why? Give me the best line in the song too. Merry Xmas to you all and a happy new year.

2006-12-21 22:02:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-21 22:02:22 · 32 answers · asked by neo2832 1 in Singles & Dating

A male friend of mine, who is gay and a crossdresser, has asked if he can borrow a one-piece swimsuit from me.

I have no problem with him being a crossdresser -- I've known about it for about 6 months and have seen him dressed as a woman several times (he looks very convincing). He wears the same size clothes as me.

I've offered to buy him a swimsuit if he's too embarrassed to do it himself, but he says he'd much rather borrow mine. I've told him I'll think about it.

Should I let him borrow my swimsuit? Has anyone faced a similar situation?

2006-12-21 22:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a foreigner in a far country, my gf is from this country. but something took place yesterday when i visited her. she brought a write-up and asked me to sign..the contents reads....i daniel hands my right and all that concerns me to..

2006-12-21 21:57:36 · 8 answers · asked by Daniel I 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi all, 2 years back i started friendship with one of my classmates.I knew her before but as a classmate only.We became very close frends (U can say I m her best friend among boys).we spent some wnderful moments together..and finally I fell in love with her.She said that she never thought of me like this. she has only seen me as a frend.But our friendship still continues till this date.She herself knows that how much I love her...keeps telling me that I shuouldn't love her that much because I will be hurt later.She knows that I can do any thing for her.She says that she never experience that love feeling regarding me.She tells that inspite of me loving her immensly she is just not able to imagine us as a couple.Sometimes she also feels bad abt it and tells me.I dunno what to do yaar.I have even said that I m ready to marry U whenevr u say,but no answer yaar what to do..She is just not ready to commit myself.btw v both are 24 years old . Plzz advise me wat to do.i can do nething for her

2006-12-21 21:56:57 · 28 answers · asked by Mayur R 1 in Singles & Dating

I over heard some people I was hanging around with talk about this girl and they rather not get involved with her and stay away.

2006-12-21 21:54:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say we were like going to cinema. aged 17. she's your first girlfriend or would you just expect to go halves?

2006-12-21 21:54:18 · 17 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

i know a frind really well, but she doesn't realise i like the things she likes. meaning we have things in common. do you think this is a good foundation to base a relationship on. if you want a relationsip with a girl, should you tell her or should you just let things develope naturally. my biggest problem with women is! when i'm asked questions, i can calm up sometimes, thing is i get nervous a sweat, because my brain is prepare my body for a possible encounter. i don't fear rejection, becuase i'm used to women. i'm also not affraid to tell a women when i like or dislike/hate something. does this show confident? do women like to know when their doing something wrong.

2006-12-21 21:52:06 · 5 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

I liked a girl for long time and she seemed to reciprocate the feelings but when I tried to start a conversation, she refused to even talk to me. Initially I was trying to forget her as jerk as her response was not polite. But now I came to know that she is having a secret affair with someone from my office for sometime and they are about to marry. I am not sure when this started.

It has really made me too sad. I think of her all the time and feel depressed when I think that she loves someone else. Had I got any hint, I'd have not gone ahead.

What do I do? How do I overcome this. Can you help?

2006-12-21 21:50:15 · 13 answers · asked by Infinite 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do i Smile so much?

2006-12-21 21:44:55 · 21 answers · asked by devsmash 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 21:44:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that mean she will like it more as a surprise.
am i approaching women the right.
i'm trying to do things my own way, by being confident
giving them space, when they need it
listening to them more, when they want attention
accepting it, when i'm not needed
being there for them, when i'm wanted

how could i improve my confidence, i like my attitude. i can sometimes be passionate, is this a good thing. i want to really combine this passion, with a little attentiveness. how do women like to be approach. does it help, if you let them start the conversation, i've been told that some relationship work that way, but you do need a little give and take

2006-12-21 21:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

K dis is asking all those teenage girls out there or if ure an adult u can post ure comment too but mention that u are an adult....ok ladies would u preffer a totaly idiotic hot guy or a very intelligent pretty ugly guy?

2006-12-21 21:42:07 · 20 answers · asked by Mark K 1 in Singles & Dating

hey..i'm a muslim and i have a christian friend..and till now i forgot to buy her a gift...and i don't knw wat to buy...can i buy anything for christams or a realy special thing ? ??

2006-12-21 21:39:49 · 1 answers · asked by someone 3 in Friends

2006-12-21 21:39:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am all for paying child support but I think its unfair and it really stinks when the system can't help the paying parent see there child because that child is 15 and in the eyes of the court it seems there old enough to make there own choices.Anyone feel the same?

2006-12-21 21:37:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plz help

2006-12-21 21:36:57 · 8 answers · asked by Manar 2 in Friends

so im pretty much inluv with this guy fom my old skool! His name is Josh, we where Pretty Good Friends For About a Year.
It Was In grade 8 When I Started Chillin With him. He Was Such A Sweetie He would Always Be There For me when I Had A Bad Day.
He Was The First To Make Me Smile & We Got Along Great! Than He Started Flirting With Me, He Would Chill wit Me At Skool On Our Breaks,
He would Get Totaly Jelouse When I Like Other Guys..It Was Pretty Sweet.Than In The Middle Of The Skool Year He Told Me He Liked Me.
Even Though We Never Dated I Still Really Miss Him & Like Him. & Than The Last ay Of Skool He Asked me For A Hug, But I Was Stupid & I
Just Walked Away & Said Bye..My Friend Who Was With Him Said That He Was Pretty Upset Since He Liked Me So Much.
It Didn`t Hit Me For Couple Months That He Was Such A Great Person & He Actually Cared About Me, Than We Hung Out Once Or Twice
Before Skool Started. He Was Pretty Shy & It Seemed Like He Was Still Into Me..Anyways Than he Whent To A New School and Met New People
So We Stopped Hanning Out Together. But We Stil Keep In Touch. A Few Months Ago He old me He Liked Me Again But He Wasn`t Gonna Date Me
Because He Liked Someone Else..But We Where Still Good Friends and he would still flirt with me! And Now It`s Like Hes a Totaly Different Person.
He`s Calling Me all These Rude Names & When I Tell Him I Like Him Hes Like Ohh Cool...Or Somtimes He`ll just say cool idc.
In A Way I Still Think he Likes Me (Even When He Is A Little Bit Rude) But I Dunno...I Think He Likes me cuz it was only a year ago tht he liked me.
im so confused. somtimes I Think I`ll Have a Chance & Other Days I Feelk Like He Hates Me..

2006-12-21 21:36:43 · 4 answers · asked by krazybaybe13 1 in Singles & Dating

could it be a possible sign, that she may be interested, but want me to get a job first, before we start ######. i've known this girl for 2 years, we've been friends mostly, but she does have a very positive attitude towards me. only problem is! she has social barriers, she can be high maintenance, spend alot of money, thinks she's god's gift to men, flirts alot, can be bitchy, when she doesn't want company, always put's her job over everything else.

2006-12-21 21:36:06 · 25 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

Met for a first date last night. Have been married twice, two very long term relationships and never cheated. I slept with him, first date and I screwed up badly. What must he think of me. Be gentle on my soul please, am I on a path to self destruction. The rejection I suffered with my ex leaving, is that what it was all about?

2006-12-21 21:35:08 · 24 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Singles & Dating

is that being polite or abrupt

2006-12-21 21:27:58 · 23 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought I was getting over him and moving on than last night I had a dream about him. . .I'm getting really tired of this whole deal. How do I get over him? I never see him and we haven't exchanged more than a few emails since we broke up. I'm even dating again and I still cannot stop thinking about him. What am I doing wrong here?

2006-12-21 21:27:27 · 21 answers · asked by blood_drop2003 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf just broke up last week and i miss him terribily. I keep thinking that he is the one for me and is even prepared to marry him. =(
We broke up as we thought that since we are only 19, we should have more space and freedom. I really want to know what are our chances of getting back together even in the far far future. Cuz i really want him back. i noe its immature to think this way but i just want to think this way. I can't help it. What should i do? He told me that he still likes me and i can feel it too. He just doesnt want me to feel for him and get hurt further. Now we can still talk like normal .

2006-12-21 21:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-21 21:23:52 · 6 answers · asked by jinnie 3 in Weddings

is that a way of showing interest

2006-12-21 21:23:52 · 14 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating