if a girl is asking you questions, does it matter if you do or don't ask questions back.?

Question

i know a frind really well, but she doesn't realise i like the things she likes. meaning we have things in common. do you think this is a good foundation to base a relationship on. if you want a relationsip with a girl, should you tell her or should you just let things develope naturally. my biggest problem with women is! when i'm asked questions, i can calm up sometimes, thing is i get nervous a sweat, because my brain is prepare my body for a possible encounter. i don't fear rejection, becuase i'm used to women. i'm also not affraid to tell a women when i like or dislike/hate something. does this show confident? do women like to know when their doing something wrong.

Answer 1

if yo do not response then it may appears that you do not understand the question or your IQ is low.

Answer 2

Yes it matters! By asking questions she's making an effort to get to know you. You should try to take up your end by doing the same. It's only right, and if you like her it's the right thing to do. Let her know you feel the same way. But don't be afraid to ask her questions, this makes a woman feel needed and lets her know that her opinion is valued. Just take a deep breath when you have to answer questions if you clam up. Think of things not sexual like your parents, but also remember to focus on her questions. You sound young. How old are you? The sweat is normal for younger guys and so is the whole "possible encounter" but you need to make your body focus on your mind, not your mind focus on your body. As long as you can respect woman's decision and realize that all people have different decisions when you tell a girl you disagree with her, then yes it can exude a huge amount of confidence. Just be careful not to completely dismiss her opinion if you don't agree with it because that reverts your confidence to cockiness (which most women hate). As long as you don't make a woman feel like she is always wrong or incompetent, it is okay to voice to her that she is doing something that you think is wrong, but let her know that it is just your opinion. That way it won't escalate into something bigger than it needs to be. A lot of things in common is usually a good thing. The old opposites attract might be true, but opposites hardly ever work out in the long run. The more you have in common with someone, the more you have to discuss and generally be interested in. This provides for bonding which is a must when trying to establish a relationship. When two people are too alike however, I think this can complicate things for some reason. They always seem to clash even though they are so much alike.

I think as long as you can remember to be yourself, but to remain calm and conscious of how you address a woman you will be fine. Best of luck and I hope I answered your question right!!
Cheers!

Answer 3

You need to find the type of woman who does not ask you loads of questions. I'm quite surprised that you are in this situation because nearly every woman I have ever met likes to do most of the talking, and they just like to know you are listening.

There must be something about you that they find interesting, that's all. Perhaps you should go after "less intelligent" women, who will not ask so many irritating questions ,then when you get into a nervous sweat because your brain is preparing your body for a possible encounter, you have more chance of getting what you want ( sex, presumably?) instead of just all this damn talking .

Answer 4

Sometimes its best to say something and sometimes its best to let things develop, you will have to make that call. Drop some hints, invite her somewhere nice. Ask to spend time with her, complement her and she will soon get the message. And most importantly relax, don't get yourself in state about it. Enjoy wooing her.

Good luck!

Answer 5

do you like to know when ur doing something wrong? well anyway, no - we absalutely hate it!!!!!!! is it possible for woman to do something wrong? dont think so