could it be a possible sign, that she may be interested, but want me to get a job first, before we start ######. i've known this girl for 2 years, we've been friends mostly, but she does have a very positive attitude towards me. only problem is! she has social barriers, she can be high maintenance, spend alot of money, thinks she's god's gift to men, flirts alot, can be bitchy, when she doesn't want company, always put's her job over everything else.
2006-12-21 21:36:06 · 25 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's a gold-digging whore. Stay away, man. You can do much better.
2006-12-21 21:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 1⤊ 7⤋
Well' Here's my take on it. You need to run as fast as you can away from this woman and here is why. You have already stated that she is high maintenance. What man in his right mind wants a woman like that. Yes' you need a job so you can provide for the family. But' on the other hand you don't want a woman that only wants you for money. Also' You don't want to be #2 to anything or any body. Think about this' What if something happened to you? Maybe you got sick some kind of way and couldn't work for a little while or for ever' would she stick with you or walk away? It has been known to happen. God forbid i hope nothing ever happens to you. After all the things you have just told us about her are you sure you would want to take that chance. I have already been there. I wouldn't
2006-12-23 19:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds way too high maintenance bud ! She doesn't sound worth it to me ! If she really wanted you she wouldn't be bothered whether u got a job or not. On the other hand, if u don't have a job out of pure laziness and not from lack of trying then she would be by ur side and helping u any way she can if she loved u.
2006-12-21 21:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Sheila SA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suffered from not having a job along time do to laziness and people just giving me money without me even asking, but grew up and got tired of handouts and depending on people, now just think, a woman like that, and you dont have a job, even if its pushing grocery carts, get a job, because without that a woman dosent see a man she sees a boy
2006-12-21 21:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's career oriented which means she's got a good head on her shoulders!! So what if she spends alot of money, she has a JOB she's entitled to!! Unlike some ppl! She's too good for you ya bum!!!
2006-12-21 22:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be interested in you - or she may just be wondering how you're getting on with getting a job!!!
I guess you wont know until you get a job and see where she goes from there! xx
2006-12-21 21:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like a piece of work- I would stay well clear. If you want a taste take her for an expensive meal she'll open up for you. That is the kind of girl she is after all
2006-12-21 21:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by hugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she couldn't really care less, but is just making conversation with you. I dont think that she is into you...she would want you even if you didn't have a job if she liked you.
2006-12-21 22:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. man. if u haven't got a job and she is a high maintenance - i don't understand what u re even thinking about - she is not for u. she needs a wealthy man. please do not waste her time. she is probably very polite, that's why she asks u about your job. or maybe she is just being sarcastic
2006-12-21 21:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women want a guy to work. I never hear any women talking about their dream guy not working. That's just the way the world is. I wouldn't take it personally or hold it against her.
2006-12-21 21:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sean C 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it could be either of these two things. girls want you to have a job before getting with them, so you are not living off them. there are TONS of losers out there living off their gf and it's sick! the other thing is, she could be a gold digger. you have to decide which.
2006-12-21 21:44:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋