K dis is asking all those teenage girls out there or if ure an adult u can post ure comment too but mention that u are an adult....ok ladies would u preffer a totaly idiotic hot guy or a very intelligent pretty ugly guy?
2006-12-21 21:42:07 · 20 answers · asked by Mark K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a real intelligent guy can never be totally ugly.. even if he is not good looking.. he will present himself in such a way that nobody will feel he is ugly...!!!
2006-12-21 21:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by hi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what are the ladies supposed to prefering the guy for?, is just sex?, potential mate?. Attraction has no rules, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If it were just sex I think eveyone would agree the Hot one, but if you just meet a person ugly or hot all else comes into play. time spent, is it at school?, Job?, conversation, personality, we all are attracted for different reason so ugly or hot , dumb or smart it love grows. So to the ones that simply choose based upon one's looks or the the size of his penis or her breast or just sex thats the ones that are shallow and their relationships are never truly happy and I doubt ever successful. Love has no looks, its neither hot nor ugly, or smart or dumb. It all depends on what the ladies are prefering the guy for? for the ones that choose simply on looks???, I question whether you are intelligent. Sure if you were hot sexual attraction would be there but if you had book sense and are one that chooses a man based on the outward appearence, for sex or as a mate then I don't think your very intelligent. You lack wisdom, which is the ability to use the knowledge that you have.
2006-12-21 21:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Wade S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a 20 year old med student and though hot has always been nice 2 look at it will totally frustrate me to be with someone totally idiotic.
Choosing a guy goes beyond his looks, which is only a bonus. Connecting with someone intellectually means much more. It has happened before that I meet a not so hot guy - lets say an 5 on a scale of 10 - whose rating goes up the more time I spend with him. You can then fall in love with someones personality which makes them irresistible.
In the long run it also better to be old and with someone who you can really talk to, than to be with an old idiot!
2006-12-21 22:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by jmk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As and adult .. I'm must say I'm attracted to intelligent guys. I don't see the point of being with a good looking guy who lack intelligence. And good looks are not everything in life. Some of the most attractive independent woman would prefer being with men who talk sense. Including my self.
2006-12-21 22:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a teenager, which I am not now...........I was into the hot not so bright guy...........because that's how it is when your young. The smart guys that where not so hot where very sweet and respectful and at that young of an age you just don't appreciate those qualitys? I think it has something to do with procreation? But, I know now where it's at. Give me a not so hot guy that's sweet and I'm gone...........It's immaturaty and superficiality and they either grow out of it or keep repeating the same mistake over and over agian. Maybe the teen girls you think are worth your time are not that bright either, just hot?
2006-12-21 21:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by corina381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am an idiot, I would prefer an idiot. If I am an intelligent one (ugly or not), I would prefer someone intelligent (ugly or not). Here the magnetism rule of opposites attract each other, doesnt apply. I am an adult.
2006-12-21 21:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey... It dosen't mean that you have to love only the hot guy because of his apperance as "sexy", "hot" and "good-looking". Remember it's not scaled the capabilities of a person if you are into the external characteristics you are looking. We can say he is so cool but because of his ignorance, he'll ruin your relationship and bring it to jeopardy! Besides a smart guy will be your guidance to a great life. he can be also good-looking if you give him some makeover and make him feel so confident.
2006-12-21 22:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ashlyn_47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an adult, i would prefer highly intelligent totally hot guy. because i can have 2 in 1. if i had to chose only from what u suggested i would prefer to stay alone. peace
2006-12-21 21:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an adult (early 20's), and I have always preferred brains. I can't stand dumb people. I hate them. And it's way easier to fix up an ugly guy then it is to educate an idiot.
2006-12-21 21:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as an adult I would suggest looks are more important when choosing a date but later when choosing a mate for life intelligence and personality become very important that being said why not look till you find both.
2006-12-21 21:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say as i am involve right now in it as well,that looks are not everything as long as the guy loves u truly ,respects and cares about u, that is the most important thing cause looks feds away some day,,,in between i am adult
2006-12-21 21:47:03 · answer #11 · answered by Yasmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋