Me and my bf just broke up last week and i miss him terribily. I keep thinking that he is the one for me and is even prepared to marry him. =(
We broke up as we thought that since we are only 19, we should have more space and freedom. I really want to know what are our chances of getting back together even in the far far future. Cuz i really want him back. i noe its immature to think this way but i just want to think this way. I can't help it. What should i do? He told me that he still likes me and i can feel it too. He just doesnt want me to feel for him and get hurt further. Now we can still talk like normal .
2006-12-21 21:26:46 · 9 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stop and think where your life is going and what you want out of life.
If you're not ready for the wholehearted commitment of marriage, then any exclusive relationship with just one guy really isn't on.
If you're ready for an exclusive, lifelong commitment, then marry.
Drifiting along in an exclusive relationship with one individual but without the commitment of marriage is fraught with complications to an extraordinary extent.
If you're not ready to commit to marriage, then by all means keep him as a non-exclusive friend -- but be prepared to see him go off with someone else, whether from time to time or for good.
2006-12-21 21:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to miss him terribly and that you want him back. Hey, you just broke up last week!!!
You mentioned you guys broke up because "WE" thought we were only 19..., so meaning it was a mutual decision. Who suggested it? If it came from him, maybe he wants to venture more and meet other girls. Meaning, he must want to know what he's been missing while you're together. There's still possibility that you might end up together. But, please, DON'T wait for him. Go ahead and venture on your own. You're only 19. Enjoy!
2006-12-22 05:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you have sexual relationship with him, then is better for you to go back to him because you already lost the game and going back to him is like cutting losses. Otherwise, then go for a better man, there are plenty of good men on this earth.
2006-12-22 09:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still talk with mine the same way,and i thought he was my soul mate no hope on the getting back together part and its almost been 3yrs.
2006-12-22 05:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not immature to think that way to know you love him for real and if he cant see that then it is a great loss on both parts i wish you luck but the out look is not good
2006-12-22 05:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both really in love u will get a along soon.. hope ur bf learn a bit of appreciate when u are together next time..
2006-12-22 05:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these r teen age feuds you both love each other get back and make amends. at 19 it is a common thing to make and break . best of luck to you both.
2006-12-22 05:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Behave normally with him,do not show any sentiments. watch him, if he is really intrested, you will get him back.No dont think of marriage at present.
2006-12-22 05:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about it... if he feels the same way, you in. Good luck.
2006-12-22 05:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋