A male friend of mine, who is gay and a crossdresser, has asked if he can borrow a one-piece swimsuit from me.
I have no problem with him being a crossdresser -- I've known about it for about 6 months and have seen him dressed as a woman several times (he looks very convincing). He wears the same size clothes as me.
I've offered to buy him a swimsuit if he's too embarrassed to do it himself, but he says he'd much rather borrow mine. I've told him I'll think about it.
Should I let him borrow my swimsuit? Has anyone faced a similar situation?
2006-12-21 22:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would convince him to buy a suit. These days, a man wearing a ladies 1-pc suit is pretty common.If I was you, I would tell him that it is much better to buy his own suit. Convince him to let you help him pick out a suit, and show him what to look for. He might feel embarrassed intially, but I am sure that would pass.
2006-12-23 22:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by justin10000_1999 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him the exact same swimsuit you have that he wants to borrow. Then while he changes into the swimsuit go ahead & change into your swimsuit & then you girls should go for a swim.
2006-12-23 00:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not be too embarrassed to buy one for himself. Ask him to dress up convincingly and take him shopping. This will help him get over any embarrassment. I am a crossdresser too but like women.
2006-12-23 06:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cause that is kinda like borrowing underware, just too personal.
2006-12-22 12:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by JML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give him swimsuit
2006-12-22 17:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋