Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

lately ive been getting the feeling my husbands cheating on me. This girl he works with has lately been calling my house and my husband would sneak off into a different room and start wispering...then the other day I looked out the window and he gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek..then I found a letter in his pocket from her that said she wants to take him out to lunch one day and then she said sweet dreams because I know you will be in mine...love always and then her name... I dont know what to do...He denies it and the worst part of all is we got married april 29 2006 and we have a 3 month old baby together. Please help because im really sad

2006-11-30 08:09:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you do when you get ignored by ya family and friends and
you gettin tired of it

2006-11-30 08:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is more than just one question. This is a question meant primarily for smokers, especially those with children. So, is it really worth smoking around your children to get that cancer smoke in your lungs and theirs, to get that nicotine in your body? Do you think it doesn't affect your children? Or not even your children, how about just the people around you that you love, family, friends. It doesn't take a medical degree to realize that second hand smoke is just as poisonous as inhaling it directly from the cancer sticks (cigarettes). I was told one time that smoking is a person's choice, I think that’s justified, if a person wants to poison their body, so be it. I have also been told that it's not right to nag or preach to smokers about the effects of smoking. However, at the same time in the back of my mind I keep thinking about seeing this person on there death bed, eat up with lung cancer and who knows what other complications from smoking. Often times this person is someone I'm close to a relative or friend, this person is barely into there forties. Don't go into why you smoke, I know why people smoke. I just want you to answer me one question. IS IT WORTH IT?

2006-11-30 08:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by uroplatis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the one i loved is marred...thts not all.. i will have to see him on almost daily basis ....it sucks..im lonely ..

2006-11-30 08:09:03 · 18 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boss is getting married and i want to give something that is appropriate. what should i get her?

2006-11-30 08:08:58 · 20 answers · asked by Jeannie 3 in Weddings

She is single, she has always messed with married men and she is not attractive. When we're all together they act really weird.

2006-11-30 08:08:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-30 08:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by Hannah G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 08:07:33 · 39 answers · asked by moussaidnas 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are an intellegent girl and the guy you like is the complete opposite but not entirely stupid what would you do to get his attention?

2006-11-30 08:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Kay, so I'm friends with benefits with the guy I like, "M"
Today everyone saw us hugging and like all over eachother, when people ask me if we're going out, what should I say? I don't want to seem like a s l u t and say we are just friends with benefits. what should I tell them?

2006-11-30 08:07:01 · 25 answers · asked by UH OH iiT`S J* 2 in Friends

I keep getting told I look like Angelina Jolie, I don't at all, but I am loving the compliment. Does anyone else get told they look like someone fab?

2006-11-30 08:06:44 · 44 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

I met this really hot guy who moved here from Italy. I speak English and he speaks Italian. I don't understand anything he says, but he sure is eye candy and we enjoy our love and kisses.

What would you do? Continue dating someone even though you don't really understand each other except on a physical relationship?

Thanks!

2006-11-30 08:06:26 · 19 answers · asked by Blondie4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I've know my guy friend for a long time. When we were younger he had a crush on me, but I didn't like him back. Thru all this we are still pretty good friends. Recently he told me in so many words that he still likes me. I told him straight up that I didn't like him in that way. But he seems to not be giving up. I'm starting to get freaked out.

2006-11-30 08:06:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I promise it will only be for a few days until I get back on my feet, you will hardly know I am there.
Please all you nice christians, help a lost soul.
I have to leave by Saturday at 8pm.
Serious offers only please, I am desperate

2006-11-30 08:05:49 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this girl that goes to my school she kinda just text messaged me out of the blue, and for the past few months we have talked so much, hung out a few times, had 1 kiss haha but anyways. I think we both like eachother but she just broke up with her BF and im not exactly sure what to do. I always ask her if she wants to hang out and she usually says sure but then she sometimes blows me off... So then i get the feeling she may not feel exactly the same way i do. Shes more outgoing than me but im trying my best. Girls what should i do next?!!?

2006-11-30 08:05:43 · 18 answers · asked by iPlayAcousticguitar 1 in Singles & Dating

Well? does he?

2006-11-30 08:05:35 · 21 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

Well my sister and her boyfriend have their off and on realationship thing going on. And they recently broke up. Well now I was tehir for a shoulder to lean on. But now I think I'm falling for my sister's ex, what should I do. Because my feelings are high and strong.

2006-11-30 08:05:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i've been with my bf for 7 months and i dunno exactly what to get him for christmas he's a redneck and he's going to be 19 in a week what would you like you're girlfriend to get you i already got him 2 shirts and 2 pairs of jeans but i need more ideas please help me what would you want

2006-11-30 08:04:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got my boyfriend a pillow case w/ XOXO and our names on it. is that good for one of the gifts?

2006-11-30 08:04:34 · 15 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Singles & Dating

One of my closes friendgirls just all of a sudden stoped talking to me! We were in writing club and she kept on trying to talk to me about crazy stuff. I got aggrivated and told her i'll talk to her later. She got mad and told me she was going to delete my number from her cell phone, block my number and not talk to me again. Then she called me a liar. That was two days ago and she hasn't talked to me since. What should i do?

2006-11-30 08:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 in Friends

I'm in the process of moving from NYC back to my hometown 100 miles away.
I have to spend the next month packing, leasing/buying a car, arranging all the utilities/cable/bank/insurance/movingcompany stuff.
Have to buy new stuff for place including appliances.
When I move home I know I will be spending time helping my grandmother who is almost 96 with things to make her life easier.
And starting a new job too.
Additionally I had a bad health scare that just turned out okay, but still left me wiped out and now I have to have surgery for it all around New Year's. (Will take a week to recover)
Tack on an exBF who is at turns melancholy/cruel/suicidal towards me, even though Ive tried to tell him to leave me alone and move on now.
And lastly I still have a budding bona fide internet stalker who Im still trying to figure out whether to ignore or go to the police about.
So I feel so farking overwhelmed right now that I want to crawl up in a ball.

2006-11-30 08:03:09 · 14 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

every talks to me like im not even there! i dont really talk in that class because everyone is annoying and everyone tells me that i never say a word and when i do say something everyone is like OMG YOU JUST SAID SOMETHING or THAT THE FIRST WORD I HAVE EVER HEARD YOU SAY! im so over it. im tired of people treating me like ****. what do i do?

2006-11-30 08:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so yea my parents are sending me to job corps and i was wondering if the teenagers were allowed to go and visit friends on holidays and if they were allowed to get visitors. i mean im onli 17 and this will be my first time being away from parents for an long amount of time. so i wanted to be comfortable and know what i was allowed to do and if job corps was like going to college before actualli going..plz help..

2006-11-30 08:02:49 · 2 answers · asked by brittany 1 in Family

Men are obviously pigs for wanting great sex.... do woman also seek to find men that they can just have sex with...?

2006-11-30 08:01:46 · 19 answers · asked by on2try 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else like to masterbate while you drive. I like to get next to a car with some hot girl\s and pace them learing while I jerk. And if they see me bouncing they will think it is the road. Sweet huh?

2006-11-30 08:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by jojobo 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some little cute (sexy) things that I can do for (to) him to show him how much i miss him and that i am so glad we have the weekend... I will probably kiss him, but i want something with a little more punch.... ??

2006-11-30 08:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by real bored at work.. 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy that I work with, but I'm getting really mixed messages. I've noticed that he walks away when I walk up to wherever he's standing.. I thought he was a quiet guy, but I came out of the breakroom early yesterday and he was standing with the other workers talking to them, as I walked up, he walked away! so it's just me that he doesn't talk to.
Once I said something funny and he gave me a huge smile. When I first come into work, he'll stop whatever he's doing and walk out of his way to say hello. But whenever I go up to him to ask him a work related question, he'll answer me while walking away... I've invited him out to hang out with us, and he smiled and said that I should give him more notice and that next time he'll come out with us.. and he smiles whenever I ask if he wants something from starbucks (next door), though he doesn't accept.

what the hell is up with this guy? he does a lot of smiling + walking and I get so tongue-tied around him that we just don't talk!

2006-11-30 08:01:15 · 24 answers · asked by Judi 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 08:01:07 · 21 answers · asked by salma 2 in Singles & Dating

I have written a letter to send to my primary school/high school sweetheart... But its been so long since I have seen this girl (maybe 7-8 years), would it be weird to send her a letter, just a general 'Hey how are you, this is what im doing, what are you doing, contact me back' type letter, attached with a few pictures... I am scared of judgement, but my intention is good... Should I send it?

2006-11-30 08:00:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 07:59:41 · 17 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating