Family & Relationships - 30 November 2006

2006-11-30 08:38:25 · 2 answers · asked by the1looking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister and I have really been having trouble lately (just read my past ?'s! LOL!) It occured to me today -- she's had a past problem with prescription drugs--and I see the same pattern now. Last time I helped her go cold turkey (tho as a health care person I did advise her against it!) What do I do now? Do I just let her move in with Dad since she's lost everything, do I keep a watchful eye, or just walk away and let the chips fall where they might? She's angry, I'm angry--there's no communication at this point. My son tells me I'm expending to much energy on this whole thing (I kind of agree). So what do ya'll think??

2006-11-30 08:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by fallingstar 4 in Family

2006-11-30 08:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Lotes mie G 1 in Singles & Dating

she told another person to tell me if i said i loved her she would go back out with me and she is so nice and hot and the reason she broke up with me is because my friend died and she was crieing and i didnt see her so she broke up with me.

2006-11-30 08:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by mattmwr 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so theres this guy at my school and we used to go out. he says he still has feelings for me and he's not afraid to show it. the only thing is he's dating this other girl and i feel really guilty about it. he doesn't seem totally happy in his current relationship but he's such a flirt with me and it makes me feel really bad for his gf. are his feelings for me for real or is he just being an a**, and why do guys do that, anyway?

2006-11-30 08:36:51 · 5 answers · asked by vera lynn 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 08:36:42 · 6 answers · asked by Dave..... 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 08:36:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it weird that i don't really get turned on by two girls kissing?

2006-11-30 08:36:38 · 31 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so my pillow case idea wasn't good for my boyfriend's christmas gift, what do you think he'd want then? i mean... what do guys usually want? .. electronics? hardcore stuff? my boyfriend is not hardcore .. but... ya..

2006-11-30 08:36:29 · 5 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-30 08:35:58 · 8 answers · asked by rohit r 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not me

2006-11-30 08:35:42 · 9 answers · asked by Angelica 2 in Singles & Dating

well ok mines... clear i know TMI but is that a prob?

2006-11-30 08:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by chevy_man301 1 in Singles & Dating

I've looked through multiple catalogs on wedding napkins and only found one I like, but it's not the color I'm going for. I found an ink stamper that would be perfect and was wondering if there's a certain ink I could use to make my own, but don't want it to rub off on someone's face. Any ideas? I've searched the web and can't find an answer.

2006-11-30 08:35:40 · 6 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

My boyfriend thinks im cheating and im really not. When we were having sex he said"why r u so loose." i was shocked and upset.And i didn't want 2 talk 2 him ne more so he got upset and started chocking me and he hit my head aganist the wall. He said it was an accident and he says he loves me, what do i do?

2006-11-30 08:35:03 · 24 answers · asked by Lady_K 1 in Singles & Dating

what to get my boyfriend for christmas.
hes 17.
and i want to spend around 200.
not all on one thing persay.
it really doesn't matter.
something sweet.
he says "nothing" so asking him is no help.
pleasee
thankss

2006-11-30 08:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

Thanks for the replies to my first post, it's nice to vent & get unbiased responses. Quick summary; my husband of 3 yrs went through a long period of migraines & depression that left him a zombie on meds 24/7. I needed a partner, someone to lean on myself, but he could not give that. It was like i was just a roomie, to take care of him, and as soon as i needed something, he'd check out and claim he had a headache or was tired. Now, after 2 months of therapy, & hitting bottom, i realize that i don't love him anymore. I gave him everything, he stomped all over it, and I can't forgive that. He has changed into a cynical negative human who gets no joy out of life. I don't want to be married to that the rest of my life, i want to be happy. The problem is, he says he can't live without me, that he loves me, that i keep him from being depressed. He claims he will change for me, and tries to pretend things are normal. He'll reach to kiss me, and i cringe. sigh. am i the bad guy?

2006-11-30 08:33:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dated him n thought he was better as a friend, but not as a lover. he too wants me as a friend n not as a girlfriend, but everytime i talk to him about the kind of man i want in my life he takes the whole issue to himself. i'll give u examples. please, tell me what they mean.
me: i want my man to stand by me.
he: i am like that.
me: i want my man to be my devoted lover.
he: i am going to be devoted.
me: i think i like this dude.
he: is he nicer than me?
me: i am dating him.
he: i am happy for u.

2006-11-30 08:33:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A year ago, I was 12 and I wanted to go to church and hang out with my friend. I wanted to go do what kids are supposed to do, which is have fun and not worry. My dad said I couldn't go, and it got me pretty down. It usually does. I told him "thanks" in a rather sarcastic manner, and he told my mom about it when she came home from work. The next morning I woke up to a flashing light and the words "You're going to be homeschooled!" and a cynical laugh, all supplied by my mom. I thought, in that moment, that I'd lost it all. Everything had just crashed down, burned, and I was being sent to hell for trying to be someone else. All that thinking, changed me. Entirely. I did cut myself that morning. It only lasted a day, but a week later I still felt all that pain, and I decided to leave church to go get coffee with that friend. She then kept me out of school for another week, and let me back on my birthday. I don't cut, not once since then, but I still can't forgive myself. How do I?

2006-11-30 08:33:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad will retire in 3 weeks from a 35-year career in business. My siblings and I want to do or give something really special to him, but haven't thought of any original and meaningful ideas. So I need your help! His retirement party is in just 4 weeks so I need to get going on this!

2006-11-30 08:32:54 · 15 answers · asked by Julie T 2 in Family

2006-11-30 08:32:12 · 4 answers · asked by goody_goody 1 in Singles & Dating

i know this is s stupid question but is sperm supposed to be white when it comes out

2006-11-30 08:31:47 · 22 answers · asked by chevy_man301 1 in Singles & Dating

i have sooooooooo many rumors and stuff. i have this person that i want to be friends with again but i cant cuz ppl are spreading rumors that i said crap about them when i didnt. theres this other girl thats telling everyone that i am immature and a hole bunch of other stuff. i dont know what to do. i really want to not go to school tomorrow but my "friend" says im pushing everything away. i have 2 friends that are mad at me cuz idk. and i lost the other girl thats spreading all of the rumors and i cant take it. i really wanna not go to school tomorrow but on monday everyone will be like "the only reason u didnt go to school is cuz of rumors" and my firneds will still be mad at me....




AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH

help me please

i know this was confusing but please help me

2006-11-30 08:31:35 · 7 answers · asked by sup yo 5 in Friends

About 2 months ago my father insisted on saving money by turning off the hot water. Our whole family has to endure cold showers everyday. My father has not let up and anyone I asked for help insists there is nothing that can be done.

2006-11-30 08:30:39 · 4 answers · asked by lizzygirl 1 in Family

i got caught up in writeing letters to ladys pretending to be single
when in fact i wasent so this is like my confession to you all ask to be forgiven i did not get intamate with eny one or sleep with any one so im i a bad man and what should i do please help ?

2006-11-30 08:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by clifford d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I still love her but I cannot deal or wanna see the new flame.

2006-11-30 08:29:39 · 14 answers · asked by Patsy Cline 2 in Singles & Dating

Im currently learning to drive and its been a long, slow process. i recently bought myself a wee car (petrol, i know now i should've bought a diesel) as id taken 10 lessons but wasnt getting any better as i wasnt getting any practice.
im very nervous and i panic that im holding up traffic (because i am usually) and people are so mean and beep at me and this makes me even more nervous.
I just dont understand this whole biting point crack, i cant hill start, i can just about reverse, i am forever stalling and overall ive no confidence.
has anyone got any tips for me?? ive got another driving lesson in the morning and im bloody dreadin it.

2006-11-30 08:29:30 · 11 answers · asked by Caz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-30 08:29:06 · 28 answers · asked by tency23 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is looking to do some thing new to spice it up in the bed room but he dosnt like to be wild he is a gentle and soft kinda guy i would like to be a lil rough once in awhile does any one have any suggestions or ideas?

2006-11-30 08:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been flirting back and forth with a man I work with. All along he has acted interested. He is quite a bit older than me, but not an issue for me. I was very blunt with him that I was interested in the physical aspect of moving further with no strings attached. Now, I feel ackward because he didn't jump at the chance. Let me know you're opinion on if I should let it go and see if he makes another move or keep pursing until he tells me to go to H---

2006-11-30 08:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by brevly 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you wish she was wearing.

2006-11-30 08:28:47 · 22 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Marriage & Divorce