i got caught up in writeing letters to ladys pretending to be single
when in fact i wasent so this is like my confession to you all ask to be forgiven i did not get intamate with eny one or sleep with any one so im i a bad man and what should i do please help ?
2006-11-30 08:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by clifford d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, you got caught writing sexy letter to other women, and claiming in the letters to be single. Now, you are hoping one of us can come up with some magic solution, one that convinces your wife that it great for her husband to be chasing after other women. I have no magic solution, and doubt one exists. Beg forgiveness.
2006-11-30 08:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you were writing letters. Did you actually send them through the mail OR via computer? If you sent them through the mail (and these ladies have your address), you better hope none of them show up at your door!!! What a mess that could be!
If you truly loved your wife, you wouldn't have betrayed her by chatting with other women (especially while pretending to be single). You have to tell her now...and be prepared to tell her WHY you did it as well. Just be totally honest!
2006-11-30 09:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by happydaisy74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTY!!! If your wife finds out, weather you had a physical relationship or not, she is going to think you had one, just on the mere pretense of your letters. Tell her about them give her time to be angry, then work what ever problems you 2 have. Take it from someone who just found out her husband had an affair. Being lied to is the worst part. It's hard to build trust once it's broken. I hope this helps.
2006-11-30 08:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter, your spelling is so bad she would not even be able to read the letters to the other women even if she found them. And people say there are no advantages to being illiterate. This is one instance where skipping school will have a positive result. Good luck
2006-11-30 08:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop doing it, and be happy your wife didn't find it out, normally one should tell the truth, but as long as no one got hurt, and she doesn't know, keep it to yourself, but stop doing it, unless u want to hurt your wife and end your marriage. this is how adultry begins, with a thought. so if u value your marriage than stop it.
2006-11-30 10:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd better tell your wife before she finds out on her own an dalso try to figure out what would possess you to do that you must not be happy in the marriage or you wouldn't be searching for someone or lying
2006-11-30 08:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by pumpkinbugaboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever do it again and keep your mouth shut....if you tell your wife, she will never trust you again....hope she doesn't find out and tow the line from now on.....otherwise, you will lose her at some point.....
2006-11-30 08:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just human and the attention was wonderful !! Stop it now so it doesn't get deeper!!!
2006-11-30 08:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋