2006-11-30 08:07:33 · 39 answers · asked by moussaidnas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait...whats the rush? I'm 30 and i wish i was still one
2006-11-30 08:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is a strictly personal decision, no one else can make it for you. If you feel like you want to wait until marriage, then you should. But having sex with someone, especially for the first time, shouldn't be something that you question yourself about. I think that when you feel like it is the right person, and the right time for you, then you will know. And you won't have to ask anyone else. I know that it sounds cheesy, but it's true. Let your feelings guide you.
2006-11-30 08:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your personal beliefs, are you going to be with her forever? Do you love her? When a relationship becomes that intimate it can change into something uncomfortable if the two of you aren't really ready to take that step. Sex is a big step and casual sex doesn't actually exist. If she cares about you she will wait, and if she cares about herself she should wait.
2006-11-30 08:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by who said that? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this chic pressure you into having sex. You seem like a nice guy and she seems to have had sex before. She will probably dump you later and you won't have your virginity left for that girl who would be "special". Don't do it! Wait it out! There needs to be more respectful teenagers like yourself, plus you deserve a nice girl who will not pressure you.
2006-11-30 08:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait! It will be a far more meaningful and yes "pleasurable" experience if you wait. It should be with your wife. You can't give her a greater wedding gift nor her to you than your virginity. You will have a lifetime together to learn and explore your sexuality together. Not to mention; no unwanted pregnancies, deseases etc.... Wait, you won't regret it.
2006-12-01 03:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Chief M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait until marage...
it will be better..
and no problems after...
your not the only one whos
waiting..i am...
2006-11-30 08:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by snc_diaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to decide when the right time is for you. No one on yahoo answers is going to provide you with insight into your life, nor are they going to deal with the consequences of your decision.
If you decide to, be safe, use protection.
If you decide not to, then good for you, and wait until you're comfortable.
2006-11-30 08:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your asking this question your not ready for sex wait until you are ready. doesnt mean wait until you get married just wait til the time is right for you. if she loves you she should understand and not pressure you to do something your not ready to do. if she cant wait til you are ready then your better off without her. so talk to her and tell her whats on your mind
2006-11-30 08:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by shellie11985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to a personal decision... it's something that only you know the real answer. If you care for the girl and it is something that you want to do and you know you won't regret in the future, go for it.. just be safe.
2006-11-30 08:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your place I would have sex with the willing girl. However, there are lots of religious people and the so-called morality police who are going to tell you to wait for marriage. Do what you think is right for you.
2006-11-30 08:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wait. Lots of people have said that they regret having sex before marriage. But have you ever heard someone say they regret waiting?
2006-11-30 08:09:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋