What do you do if you suspect your friend of secretly talking to your husband?

Question

She is single, she has always messed with married men and she is not attractive. When we're all together they act really weird.

Answer 1

If you have tried to confront them and didnt get a straight answer or your fears were not relieved then do some investigating. You can buy a simple telephone recorder (try radioshack) or if you are worried about them talking online you can download a key logger which will tell you everything typed on your computer. You can watch cell phone bills for numbers there are tons of things you can do. But first just confront them.

Answer 2

Do you think that they have already been together sexually? Or do think that this is something that might have just started? I think that you should watch your husband and your friend before you confront them, you need real proof before you accuse them of anything. First does your husband get phone calls all hours of the night, and if he does, does he move from around you and take the call some where else? Does he come home and take showers and then at night go to bed and not really touch you like before? Has he received any new scented cologne ? Your need to look at what differences are in your husband first and then you look toward your friend. If he has not changed but she seems to be coming on to your man then you need to set her straight, you might have to drop her as a friend to feel comfortable again with your man. This girl needs to know that married men are off limits. Good luck ..

Answer 3

I would confront the friend first. From her past behavior of always messing with married men, you have every right to be concerned. It is always hard for a married couple to hang out with single friends of either sex. It seems to encourage single-like behaviors from those who are married. It is just not an influence you would want around your husband or vice versa. If you feel like there is really something going on between the two of them then you should confront them both.

Answer 4

Well talking is harmless enough. BUT what do you mean by they act really weird? BUT it sounds like they have a little more going on than just secretly talking. If I suspected this of my spouse I'd check into things. I start looking into where she is, who she is with, things like that. If I found she was actually cheating then I'd change the door locks.

Answer 5

I'm sure you already know that her not being attractive means nothing. Do they both have cell phones ?? Try to snoop and look at the call logs or phone book to see if they both have each other programmed. You have to snoop, its the only way. Maybe set them up too. Say your going out then hide and see what happens.

Answer 6

Confront both of them. On the same day within a similar time frame so they dont have time to talk to eachother and get stories straight.

Answer 7

Find out for sure. There's a high risk that both of them could be offended by your accusation of you're wrong. Find out and then ask them to see if they're lying. You'll know it's over.

Answer 8

i would go with my gut...my husband cheated on me not that long ago ...my gut told me something was not right but I put it away in my mind...turns out my gut was right. I would talk to him and tell him how you feal and I would not have a friend like tha around me anymore. Hope your's turns out better than mine did!

Answer 9

Well if you trust you're husband then don't bring it up to him. But you really need to drop her as a friend. With a friend like that who needs hussies.

Answer 10

Then maybe he is not a true love and she is not a true friend. Confront both of them about it and make them know that ur suspicious... It can work.