There is this girl that goes to my school she kinda just text messaged me out of the blue, and for the past few months we have talked so much, hung out a few times, had 1 kiss haha but anyways. I think we both like eachother but she just broke up with her BF and im not exactly sure what to do. I always ask her if she wants to hang out and she usually says sure but then she sometimes blows me off... So then i get the feeling she may not feel exactly the same way i do. Shes more outgoing than me but im trying my best. Girls what should i do next?!!?
2006-11-30 08:05:43 · 18 answers · asked by iPlayAcousticguitar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is this girl that goes to my school she kinda just text messaged me out of the blue, and for the past few months we have talked so much, hung out a few times, had 1 kiss haha but anyways. I think we both like eachother but she just broke up with her BF and im not exactly sure what to do. I always ask her if she wants to hang out and she usually says sure but then she sometimes blows me off... So then i get the feeling she may not feel exactly the same way i do. Shes more outgoing than me but im trying my best. Girls what should i do next?!!?
I have told her that i have feelings for her
and she told me she has feelings for me
2006-11-30 08:29:37 · update #1
You should tell this girl that you are interested in being more than just her friend. She may think that you want to just hang out as friends and that is why she ends up blowing you off. Girls don't normally kiss guys that they have no interest in, so now all you have to do is get up enough courage to tell her you like her.
2006-11-30 16:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be there for her. Dont pressure her into hanging out or doing things. If she just broke up with someone she may not be ready to start something else with you. I would say since you kissed, there is something there, but just give it time. If you like her enough, the wait will be worth it.
2006-11-30 16:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not be ready to move on yet, having just broken off a previous relationship. The best thing you can do for her is comfort her, yet give her the time and space that she needs. Show her that you can be sympathetic to her experiences and needs. It does sound to me like she's interested in you, but probably afraid to move on just yet.
2006-11-30 16:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by abgurlie2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to keep things the way they are for now.you said to very important things one was that she just broke up with her boyfriend and the other is that she has blown you off a few times. don't rush things right now,you don't ever want to rush into a relationship with someone that just broke up with someone else. most of the time that never works out. so take your time.
2006-11-30 16:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful as she's on the rebound she might just be lookin to have some fun for a little while. she must like you if she text you outta the blue, just stay her friend and continue hanging out it'l prob lead to more down the line ....
2006-11-30 16:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have done a lot of initiating in this "relationship"...you need to back off and let her come to you. If she just broke up with her BF, she is going to need some time to be with her friends and heal....try being her friend first and getting to really know her...when she's ready she'll come to you.
2006-11-30 16:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give her some time. Just hang out with her for awhile and get to know her, then ask if she likes you.
2006-11-30 16:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give other girls some attention while occasionally giving her a little bit of attention (less than you currently do). If she increases her attention to you have what you want. If she doesn't then you have new opportunities. It's a win-win.
2006-11-30 16:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ph_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her bf y she dumped him and mayb she blows u off bcoz she likes u n shes nervous....give her some time.
2006-11-30 16:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont push it but she will most likely tell you if she likes you maybe right now shes just glad to have you around to talk to Thers no harm in that and most girls love a guy they can talk to. Somestimes it becomes more. But now i can just tell you be there for her
2006-11-30 16:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋