I met this really hot guy who moved here from Italy. I speak English and he speaks Italian. I don't understand anything he says, but he sure is eye candy and we enjoy our love and kisses.
What would you do? Continue dating someone even though you don't really understand each other except on a physical relationship?
Thanks!
2006-11-30 08:06:26 · 19 answers · asked by Blondie4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell yeah! i will date her if i really like her...
doesn't really matter about the language...
2006-11-30 08:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by bäwЄŁ Ļoĕ ® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are looking to get into a real relationship I would have to say break up with him. Because sooner or later the physical stuff will get pretty boring (believe it or not). You need more than that. What happens when you had a really terrible day and the only person you want to talk to his him. He can't understand you and fully understand why you feel that way. And it's vice versa. So right now it's a lot of fun...but think about it in the long run. It's your decision tho.
2006-11-30 08:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a physical relationship you're looking for then you shouldn't date. you go for a one night stand thingy.
But if it's a partner that you're looking for, then it wouldnt hurt to learn your 'dates' language or vice versa. Physical relationship should not be mistaken with affection or love.
Dating is basically the time to get to know each other. And also, theres a high possibility why the other person is dating you is because of the physical pleasure hes getting.
Anyway, just becareful.
2006-11-30 08:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by ToX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... well, you can't really have a serous relationship with someone that you don't connect with on an intellectual level. I'm always a little weary of having a strictly physical relationship (though I have) because it's situations like that when you wake up one morning and realize that you are absolutely crazy about this person! But, if you are enjoying yourself, I say go for it! Who wouldn't want a hot little italian in their bed?!? Just be careful sweetie.
2006-11-30 08:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nik 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I totally know what you mean. I fell for this Spanish-only speaking guy, and I speak English. Although we can communicate some because I can speak some Spanish. I on the other hand didn't want anything sexual since I'm saving myself, but I understand totally what you mean. You can still have a great chemistry/attraction with someone by body language and eye contact and SMILES! :)
We are now great friends and teach each other our own language. He teaches me more Spanish and I teach him more English! :)
Teaching each other can be a fun, bonding experience as well!
Good luck and happy loving! :)
2006-11-30 08:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relationships so shallow as to be based upon lust and outward physical attractions aren't the kind to typically overcome a language barrier or last into grandparent-hood wouldn't you agree? Lust isn't love and never will be but only an instant self gratification.
2006-11-30 08:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd either take some Italian language classes or have him take English classes. Love is a universal language
2006-11-30 08:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 13:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to learn a little of it. and 9/10, that guy speaks english. Ever seen the proud family and suga momma's boyfriend. Look at them. That guy talks about her and she doesn't even know it.
2006-11-30 08:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You can both learn each other's languages in time, and besides, you like him. Have fun!
2006-12-01 10:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the use, there will be no future in this relationship, exept physical. It will be the same as if I answered your question in my language. Nee. Dit sal nie werk nie.
2006-11-30 08:13:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋