Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I recently seperated from my ex after 7 years. He is my childhood sweetheart and have have two kids together. We seperated on bad terms and we never talked about what was going on between us and I just uped and left without ever really saying good bye, but once I left he already had another woman i didnt know about and it hurts me to know that he would do that to me. Even though he has moved on and still tries to interfere with my life, I still cant let go. I know I left but now I wonder if this was the worst mistake I ever made because you can always forgive but can never forget.

2006-11-26 13:55:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This morning I got a text from my bfs phone telling me how much "fun" his ex is. I tried to call him but immediantly after the text his phone was shut off. So I went to her house, then his, and neither of them were there. I went to the hotel she works at, and I see their cars there. I blow up and tell him we are done in a voicemail, and when he calls me back he claims he didn't do anything with her but she got him a free room cause he accidently locked himself out of the house. He said the text he got was from her because since she is a manager she has access to his room, and took his phone to send the message. When she told him what she did he yelled at her and left.

He says he is sorry, and he didn't mean to hurt me, but that he didn't do anything. Should I even believe this?

2006-11-26 13:54:40 · 32 answers · asked by aimeelopez 2 in Singles & Dating

and like bf/gf?

2006-11-26 13:54:25 · 14 answers · asked by =]] 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok My friend Rick kicked my friend Dustin and messed his spine up and just because Dustin told Rick "His music was angry" Dustin is into the punk stuff and Rick's into hard core metal anyways Dustin didn't want to press charges but his mom wants too and Rick has got ISS and might get sent to carver for the rest of the year. Some in my choir class *Were in Choir* Hates Dustin and are giving him the cold shoulder. Im on the other side so I didnt notice. I Mean Dustin was in pain and couldnt walk and a day or 2 later his cat died. So yeah he has bad luck. Also Rick told Dustin he hopes Dustin's 10 year old cousin dies. Timmy has got problems. So yeah that's messed up. Now everyone's taking sides. Ugh!

2006-11-26 13:54:16 · 4 answers · asked by Rock_Star18 2 in Friends

I went to the movies two days ago and this cutwe guy at the consesion stand remembered what i liked and i had only gotten food from him once...what does it mean???

2006-11-26 13:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by Eva 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing a lot of girls wearing those abstinence rings. I take this as a personal challenge. i think to myself "that ring will come off after im threw with her". the funny thing is, although they wont have sex with you, they will do everything else lol.

2006-11-26 13:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like him but he called me sl*t should I curse him out

2006-11-26 13:52:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heyy ok well i like this guy but i dont know why hes kinda ugly and i dont even know him i think hes poor but i dont know i just like him alot but i dont know why he talks ghetto but i like himm please help me p.s i dont mean to offend anyone but hes white

2006-11-26 13:52:42 · 4 answers · asked by Danielle m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 13:52:27 · 8 answers · asked by jepp22 1 in Singles & Dating

me & michael (my ex) was together for a couple of months and i really loved him alot but i caught him cheating on me and it broke my heart but now he's all i think about, i know that he asks about me and misses me cuz his cousin tells me he does...but he's cheated before to. he's had a hard life and me and him being together before brought problems in the family but now that im not wit him me and the family are fine now, i had a baby 2months ago by my other ex and now michael thinks that the baby is his. what do u think i should do? let it go or try and work it out?

2006-11-26 13:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 13:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

He will NOT do it even though I told him it meant a lot to me.

2006-11-26 13:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A trend I've noticed. Women are drawn to being treated like crap, and then complaining they can not find any nice guys.

2006-11-26 13:50:30 · 3 answers · asked by Justin J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 13:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my wife offered her brother to stay with his family (family with 6 children) to stay in our house for about 2 months after coming from the philippines. They came about January 2006 and... it is the end of November. Her sister FINALLY started her nursing job and her husband does not want to have a job. I don't know what to do with them. They still do not have enough money to be on their own. They also have no idea what they will do after they leave us. What also makes me pretty angry is that they bought a brand new laptop... i didn't check it out but it had VIAO on the top. Even now they still do not pay rent to us. It kinda gets on my nerves to know that they have been free loading electricity, internet, food, and heat. ETC. Also my wife is getting mad because her parents are paying for anything they need. Education, gas ( my wifes parents bought them a car), food. Errg i don't know what to do. Give them their own house to live in. I don't know if u got any tips please give some

2006-11-26 13:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by stupid i 1 in Family

My younger brother has a weed problem and hes getting mixed grades As and Cs, but my older bro switched from weed to cigarettes and hes using it to get away from his university and family problems (to me they arent that bad) and it pains me to see them do this to themselves, I feel like they've destroyed the stability of the family, but my parents would flip out if they ever found this out, what should I do?

2006-11-26 13:49:38 · 7 answers · asked by niner f 1 in Family

We do have b/fs but they know we wouldn't cheat.
My friend says guys hate it when a girl walks around with her toned body in a sports bra and short shorts after gymnastics practice. She wants me to try it and actually pay attention to what they say. She says guys think it's degrading when we have to run two miles on the track aroung the basketball gym and me and my other friend wear our shorts and a sports bra.
Would you like for the girl you like to run above you while you play b-ball and give you a hug after, dressed like this??
We don't mind guys checking us out, cuz we will walk somewhere and we rate every guys we see. We just want to know if our friend is right!!
What kinda comments r we gonna get??
How will guys react??
What sort of reaction should we expect??
Is it a turn-on or turn-off for you??
Do you think the guys are gonna mind running next to us?? Are they gonna think it's degrading??
What kind of things are guys gonna say?? Do??
Why do guys hate this??

2006-11-26 13:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by Amabell 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 13:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

wut if my boyfriend never talks to me and wen i call him he is always busy... does he still like me?????

2006-11-26 13:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by hotmama418629 1 in Singles & Dating

When my husband and I have arguments it's usually about the same thing, the internet and him talking to other girls. When he gets angry he always says he has no intention of meeting these girls but my constant nagging is pushing him to want to have sex with someone else.
Do you think he really means it or is it done out of anger? This morning before he left he got mad because I erased some of his contacts off his messanger list and he said "I will f*ck someone today, I don't care who, if our neighbor wants to f*ck, I will because you are pushing me to do it."
He called me a few hours after that and appoligized, but it makes me wonder if I am going to push him someday. What do you think?

2006-11-26 13:48:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We moved east to be by our grandson but my husband is getting worse now - drinking more and more. We used to live in Texas and my family is there. Should I go back to my family and leave my grandson and my husband here. I really don't know what to do. Any advice about this situation?

2006-11-26 13:48:49 · 18 answers · asked by jworks79604 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for Paedon Moi? Her account was deleted today. Does anyone know what i can do to find her?

2006-11-26 13:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by No Name Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

I took my bf to my aunts this weekend for him to meet the family as well as my mother who was traveling from two hours away. Well mom showed up an hour and a half late completely drunk! I know she has a drinking problem but I was shocked to see that she'd drive that far in that state of intoxication. My aunt and I discussed it and I guess my uncle (moms brother) has known about this problem for years and doesn't want to deal with it. My grandpa went down south for the winter because he doesn't want to deal with her...and I live 6 hrs away and don't want to deal with her drinking issue either. She denies it of course. So question...do I make peace that I feel like I can't help and be like the rest of my family or should I try to get my family to help me help her?

2006-11-26 13:48:41 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family

2006-11-26 13:48:14 · 23 answers · asked by caterpillar 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of over a year and before we started dating he had feelings for this other girl that i used to be good friends with... Within the last 3-4 months his mind has started to wonder and he wonders what woulda happened with that other girl? he says he loves me and wants to be with me forever and that he doens't wanna break up with me for her... yet he still wonders and when she comes around at like a party i feel like his attention goes towards her and he forgets about me.... i know he loves me but i think maybe because i am his first real g/f that maybe he just wonders but will never act on it... what should i do? and does this happen to other ppl??? also... my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationship and the other girl lives back in our home town so when we go home to visit this is when this stuff comes up.... i love him sooo much he means the world to me...what should i do? and does this happen to other ppl???

2006-11-26 13:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by yowkie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 13:47:34 · 3 answers · asked by pnjabibarbie 1 in Friends

seperated after 24 yrs of marriage.......there is no legal visitation in place .........he gets to see them whenever he wants i did that for my kids not him.........anyway he comes and gets them almost every weekend which is fine but never tells me when he is going to drop them off....today i went out and apparently he came by to drop them off and when i wasnt here he was pissed.he called and left 2 messages .anyway when i got home he called and asked where was i didnt i know he was going to drop the kids off.....i simply said i went out he didnt bring the kids back sayin he had tried once already is this man insane or is it me?

2006-11-26 13:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help me

2006-11-26 13:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by bikerboy2006 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm going on overseas trip for high school students summer of '07,& my boyfriend's going on it,& my best friend's possibly going on it.my best friend doesn't like my boyfriend b/c she says he brought my grades down when we were all in our junor yr of h.s.---which isn't true.i get average grades,it was just some trouble in math & science.we're all now in our senior yr of h.s..i don't have any trouble in math anymore---yet---but i still do in science.i'm taking physics.but anyway,the point is he didn't bring my grades down.it's just b/c,even though i do all the work,i still have trouble.but anyway,yeah,she dislikes him b/c of that,& just b/c,she doesn't know why.he doesn't dislike her.but anyway,as i said,me & my boyfriend are going on an overseas trip for h.s.students in summer of '07,& my best friend might be going on it.The thing is,that my boyfriend,isn't from my school,so were going to hang out 2gether.we don't get 2 see each other much anyway.but what about my best friend?

2006-11-26 13:46:37 · 1 answers · asked by K.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy, but in our culture and religion, dating is not incouraged, also my brother is over protective lol. but when i see him, he makes a move....like we havent done anything but kiss and he kisses me, its hard to explain...but when he makes a move, after that i dont hear form him for awhile..he has a girlfriend (i am the one whos morals are high and dont want a boyfriend so things dont happen) so i understand kinda, but he told me yesterday he loved me since we've met, i aksed why he does things then i dont here from him for 2 weeks or whatever, he says its because hes confused. he knows i like him too.
what am i supposed to do now? what signals is he sending?

2006-11-26 13:46:25 · 2 answers · asked by .....u made me do it 2 in Singles & Dating