This morning I got a text from my bfs phone telling me how much "fun" his ex is. I tried to call him but immediantly after the text his phone was shut off. So I went to her house, then his, and neither of them were there. I went to the hotel she works at, and I see their cars there. I blow up and tell him we are done in a voicemail, and when he calls me back he claims he didn't do anything with her but she got him a free room cause he accidently locked himself out of the house. He said the text he got was from her because since she is a manager she has access to his room, and took his phone to send the message. When she told him what she did he yelled at her and left.
He says he is sorry, and he didn't mean to hurt me, but that he didn't do anything. Should I even believe this?
2006-11-26 13:54:40 · 32 answers · asked by aimeelopez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO! I beg of you, use your head not your heart. Wouldn't he have called you or a friend or a locksmith for that matter, if he were locked out of his place? The fact that you knew where the girlfriend lives and works makes it seems as if this is not the first time and you and the ex has a (fighting) history. Find someone more loyal, more discreet or maybe a little smarter... How on earth did he let her get the phone?!
Good Luck!
2006-11-26 14:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by blackcaligirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not stupid, but I would think long and hard before taking him back. She gave him a free room because he locked himself out of his house? I've locked myself out of my house before and found a way in. What, is he going to live at the motel for the rest of his life because he can't get into his house? He would have to do a lot more than tell me he was sorry before I would take him back, if I ever did. Stand back and ask yourself, would I be better off with him or without him? Then go from there.
2006-11-26 14:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know when you care about someone you WANT to believe what they tell you. But his story is full of holes. When he realized he was locked out what did he do? He had options. He could have called a locksmith, or if he rents - the landlord. He could have called you and asked if he could stay until he got into his house. He could have gone to ANY other hotel and got a room. He could have stayed at a buddies house.....but he didn't. He went straight to her hotel. I think that's wrong in itself. Secondly, if she broke into his room and stole his phone she could be fired. A hotel manager wouldn't do that. If I was you I'd bring that to his attention, remind him that what she did was illegal, and tell him to call the hotel (in your presence) and report her. If he won't than he's full of sh*t. If he lied than I wouldn't stay with him. You deserve better than a liar and a cheater.
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2016-11-27 00:19:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advice is what you ask for when you know the answer, but want a different one. I am guessing, since you are asking "Am I stupid....." that your gut it telling you it's wrong, turn around a go...but you don't want to. So you will ask us and pick the answer that is closest to what you want to hear. If you have to stay with him and have it happen 3 or 4 more times to get it, then that is what you should do. Or you could suck it up, lift up your chin and decide your better then that. If he locked himself out of his house, why didn't he call his girlfriend? Don't be a fool.
2006-11-26 14:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she truly did that, he should be making some very large complaints at the hotel. That's a horrible abuse of her privileges/responsibilities at the hotel. Se can easily be fired for it.
If he refuses to make the complaint and insist on immediate punishment, take it as a sign that he's lying and move on with your life.
2006-11-26 13:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Empy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still talk to him, but usually if a guy really likes a girl, he will make sure that he lets her know that he is sorry. If he keeps saying 'I'm sorry' and things of that sort, then he most likely is telling the truth. If you've had problems with him cheating, then he might be lying. Go with your gut on this one.
2006-11-26 13:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by JDmcgee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, Do you believe him? Just Chill for a sec, and try to see it from his perspective. Then also What do really think happend? I'd say he's a dog. but I don't Know him. Sounds like a chapter out of the book of my life! Eww! I divorced my husband...
2006-11-26 14:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are asking this question is because you secretly wish you hadn't taken him back. Even though it seems convenient to just patch things up, it will be less painful in the long run to cut it off now. You don't want to be with someone who lies to you, especially about another girl.
2006-11-26 14:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not the smartest thing to take him back, especially if he texted you to how fun is ex is.
You have two choices:
1) Trust him that he wasn't cheating and go on.
2) Don't trust him and break up with him.
You really don't have any other choice.
2006-11-26 13:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋