Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

I like this guy! we talk on msn messenger and he blocks me a lot because i type to much which is like talking to much... so i like him but does this blocking mean he doesn't like me! if not how do i say i like him and wat if he doesn't like me back! i hang with him a lot and if he doesn't like me back it would be weird hanging out with him! what do i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-26 14:07:00 · 3 answers · asked by The tiger :] 2 in Singles & Dating

they say i have no life because i spend a little bit of time on the computer and say i play games online only which is a lie because i talk to family and friends on myspace. They dont even go anywhere but work and blame everything on kids and say kids dont no anything.

2006-11-26 14:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by AJL 2 in Family

my boyfriend and i had been dating for 3 years, then he cheated on me, dumping me and then asking another girl out, then the girl rejected him, then he came begging back, a year later i gave him his chance bak, thinking he's changed. but now i've hacked into his email, and found all these singles.net, true.com, y'know single online pages, and now knowing that he's looking for someone else now, but i want revenge, cause this is prolly the 5th time, including minor ones, that he's done this online, on me. how can i get revenge? or resolve this?

2006-11-26 14:06:17 · 10 answers · asked by lilo_flower 1 in Singles & Dating

do a long distance thing but i kno they'll be other gurls there that will be attract to him even through he's shy, n i dont think some1 can balance having a realionship n ur major but i dont want to let him go but i also want me 2 be but wut should i do n i also kno they'l be others but still i dont want to lose him, wut should i do? try the long distance thing? o just let go even trough i dont want to?

2006-11-26 14:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by chica17 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what gets your attention mostly, and keeps you interested.

2006-11-26 14:05:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that prostitute have the face of Jessica Alba and the body of Heidi Klum...i was very enjoy yesterday

2006-11-26 14:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by KO 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my sister do get along. I am the most honest sbiling to her, and I have her back but if she is wrong I will tell hershe is. She is always there when I need help, but she always want to make me look bad toward my parents and siblings. I will be the first person she disregard in the family, but I will never do that to her. She claims I do not give her respect, but I think maybe my honesty is misunderstood by her. I sick of tired of being treated this way. What should I do? Should I stop being honest to her? I confronted her about this issue and she will not change. Maybe my honesty is looked as being rude. How can I aviod this conflict?

2006-11-26 14:05:32 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family

I truly have never loved anyone in my 26 years, but I truly love me late girlfriend.
Anways there has been just one thing that plagued this realtionship and built up inside her since a few months ago. I think I was too honest with her when she asked me how many partners Ive had, and what my past was. It maybe none of her busness, I guess but I wanted to be a honest good man. I have been with 8 and kissed about a dozen, and I know that is not the most abnormal thing, she has told me she has been with 4. The thing is that she has been abusive towards me physically and emotionally when she thinks about it. She occasionally trapped with with questions like " why did you sleep with this one and what did you do? " I have told her that there is no point bringing back the past it only hurts us both and its pointless. She then would slap me if I didnt want to anser or if she didnt like the answer, other than that she is so wonderful. She wants to see a counsellor and for me to forgive her.

2006-11-26 14:05:03 · 4 answers · asked by William 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i've found the perfect guy. we love each other a lot so how cam u tell if you've found who your meant to be with?

2006-11-26 14:05:00 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Sky&&Jazz♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Lives with her dad and step mom.

Workes at fast food restaraunt.

Wants to move in with a friend; married; child, illegal imigrant. This summer

2 bedroom apartment, very limited income.

Will have to change high schools in final year, making poor grades.


The point of the move? Get away from the home situation as fast as possible.

(PS she is throwing away a college education, her dad has saved for her)

Any suggestions to help her understand that while she will get away she will be jepordizing her future.

Thanks

2006-11-26 14:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by redford 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was on my bf old computer that has not been used in yrs.found in his favorites his screen name and password for match.com.when i went under his name i saw he signed-up 3yrs ago,we started dating 4yrs ago.he had about 70 profiles saved you could see he was very active 2-3yrs ago when we were dating.since there was no resent activity i did not think to much of it intill i brought it up in a joke.he looked at me like i was crazy and said he had no clue what i was talking about and got all defensive.i was taken off guard by the fact he would all out lie to me about something that happened 3yrs ago that i just droped it.i'm more concerned that he would lie to me about it than what he did yrs ago.it just makes me wonder if theres more to it than what i know.i may just be over sensitive as i know he cheated on his last wife and we are to get married next yr

2006-11-26 14:04:46 · 29 answers · asked by valmaey08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i never really had a "real" boyfriend before I mean my longest relationship was 5 months and it wasnt really serious. I wanna find the right guy for me and my daughter but guys only think about me as a "friend w/benefits" and i dont know why i guess becuz i'm a lil big...but i want someone who likes me for me. how should i find someone for me? help!!!

2006-11-26 14:04:45 · 3 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating

was on my bf old computer that has not been used in yrs.found in his favorites his screen name and password for match.com.when i went under his name i saw he signed-up 3yrs ago,we started dating 4yrs ago.he had about 70 profiles saved you could see he was very active 2-3yrs ago when we were dating.since there was no resent activity i did not think to much of it intill i brought it up in a joke.he looked at me like i was crazy and said he had no clue what i was talking about and got all defensive.i was taken off guard by the fact he would all out lie to me about something that happened 3yrs ago that i just droped it.i'm more concerned that he would lie to me about it than what he did yrs ago.it just makes me wonder if theres more to it than what i know.i may just be over sensitive as i know he cheated on his last wife and we are to get married next yr

2006-11-26 14:04:33 · 4 answers · asked by valmaey08 1 in Singles & Dating

How many of you guys think Little Angel is a FAKE?
Hey guys I'm sure i'm not the only one getting sick of this.... Little Angel's guestions are totally absured.... I mean come on she never gets the real answers shes looking for, the only she is getting is yelled at... she has asked about 60 questions so far, one more stupider than the other and she just teased, yelled, treated like a total moron, yet she keeps on coming back for more....???? ************* LITTLE ANGEL I THINK ITS ABOUT TIME THAT YOU QUIT WASTING EVERYONES TIME ON HERE AND FIND YOURSELF A CONSTRUCTIVE HOBBY. WE DON'T BELIEVE YOU SO GO AWAY!!!! **********************

2006-11-26 14:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by Tina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 14:03:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Son is a good kid, however spends a great deal of time sitting on the computer gaming. I'm not saying gaming is a bad thing, I enjoy doing it somewhat myself. However, this has become his only interaction with people and I'm very concern about the amount of time he spends gaming on the computer...it's obsessive(sp). Any help on timing or cyber clocks....or whatever would be great. Thanks for your help.

2006-11-26 14:03:39 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was with this guy alex. hes lived across the street from me for 4 years. Everything was going great and we were both really happy. Until i told him i loved him. well he said it back but i later found out he lied to me. And he felt so bad he just stopped talking to me. Its been 5 months now, and i still cant get over him! i've tried but the feeling keep comeing back. How do i get over him!!!?? please, i really cant take this

2006-11-26 14:03:24 · 3 answers · asked by cooltmb08 1 in Singles & Dating

hello out there in cyber land! unfortunaley i am up and lonely and depressed. does anyone have a guy like mines. EXP: ask him a certain question and he gets mad? OR UMM LETS SEE.... you show any type of emotion and they get mad or they call you names or talk and make you feel bad?

i really cant seem to figure this out i mean are men really that stupid or clueless about life?

or is it just him?

2006-11-26 14:03:11 · 6 answers · asked by gaurdianangelic 3 in Singles & Dating

My Dad and my Aunt had a little disagreement earlier today. My dad called me and we talked about it for a while, I mentioned that maybe my aunt had thought he was overbearing( he can be overbearing but does NOT realize it AT ALL) He said, "I dont know" we started talking about something else, and it seemed like the end of the discussion right there. Just now at almost 10pm, he calls me back asking, "What do YOU mean I am overbearing?That is not nice!!" I answered, "I did not say you were overbearing. I said Maybe Aunt---- thinks you are, she did mention that A LONG TIME AGO" My Dad said, "Ok I'm sorry I misunderstood you" I said ok, then he started going into the same stuff with my aunt all over again. I said "It is LATE. Can we talk about this tomorrow?" He said ok and did not seem mad. I am very close to leaving the phone off the hook at night because of these calls at all hours.

2006-11-26 14:01:52 · 11 answers · asked by eastcoastdebra 3 in Family

I'm half mexican and half Italian but I'm currently dating a guy who is white ( dutch and german decent), I introduced him to my family and my father(who is mexican) told me to break it off because "he's white and won't fit in". I didn't now they keep on making comments about it and my brothers almost got inot a fight with him. I think I love him, how do I get them to just accept it?

2006-11-26 14:01:39 · 23 answers · asked by Lexy 6 in Singles & Dating

This is a basic question: What causes them to lose interest in us? And please no cruel answers like maybe you got too fat or you don't do oral enough! Let's hear it from both sides too because I'm sure women have opinions on this!

2006-11-26 14:01:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
(oh yeah..you're not "popular" if you've slept with more than 5 guys..you're a HOE)

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.

3... Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're gonna say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're goin for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

11. Guys get jealous easily.

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

23. Guys will brag about anything.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.


43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.

53. We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy ...like wheather it's a one time deal or not ....

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to..it may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unoticable tell them about yours...

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs..

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that...after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

61. Your best friend, the guy you can go to with anything, is the guy who loves you more than any other ever could. He'd do anything to be with you, and will always love you. When he sees you cry he wishes he could change the stars to make you happy. He would go to the end of the world for you and loves you deeply.

62.)most guys are pigs but give them a chance they might prove you wrong!

2006-11-26 14:01:31 · 7 answers · asked by laker4lyfe92 2 in Singles & Dating

well friday night my friends and i decided to prank call my (well he's not my boyfriend yet, but he acts like he is)! and we told him it was some girl that knew who he was and that she liked him.. he told her to call him later. then he calls me and asks me if i know that girl, and i say no.. we called him yesterday again and he made it seem like he wanted to meet up with her. was this a dumb thing to do or is it a clue that he's willing to cheat on me... please help.

2006-11-26 14:00:12 · 2 answers · asked by YourGirl08 3 in Singles & Dating

Gifted wrapped (1/2) keg of Natural lite, or should I have bought a whole keg. The store was nice enought to give me christmas cups.

Should I return for larger size, just incase we open it early for sunday football games?

She did say that she wanted a necklace, but cant drink that.

2006-11-26 13:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by ill take it straight with no ice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-26 13:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by paramita_chowdhury_4462 1 in Singles & Dating

problem is she is my sisters mate, i think it would be awkward. help!
only 2 yrs younger so not worried bout that.

2006-11-26 13:57:54 · 16 answers · asked by dj 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you guys usually like in girls. like wild and sexy or ready to settle down and have a family?

2006-11-26 13:57:33 · 9 answers · asked by GuauBaby<3 1 in Singles & Dating

what do girls like in a man because girls like me i look like chris brown and i know they like me but i am trying to see why do they like me any way plus i love my beautiful girl and she is a cheerleader.

2006-11-26 13:56:23 · 1 answers · asked by shyheim_mltn 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 40 and have been single for 9 months now and feel that I would like to start dating. It's difficult to meet single people in the pub etc so was wondering about on-line or speed dating.

Anyone got any experiences good or bad!

2006-11-26 13:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by Debs 1 in Singles & Dating

Being divorced, the family situation is a mess; different dads, different cities...things that can't be corrected. My kids are not my husbands kids so my need to see my kids, is not his need to see his kids/

Plus women always miss their families quite a bit.

Plus I feel now that my kids have grown up, what is the point of life?

Sorry to be so honest, know there are others out there who may feel the same. What does one do with ones self, when they find themselves away from family, and wondering what is the point?

2006-11-26 13:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by redford 2 in Marriage & Divorce