do a long distance thing but i kno they'll be other gurls there that will be attract to him even through he's shy, n i dont think some1 can balance having a realionship n ur major but i dont want to let him go but i also want me 2 be but wut should i do n i also kno they'l be others but still i dont want to lose him, wut should i do? try the long distance thing? o just let go even trough i dont want to?
2006-11-26 14:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by chica17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
me and my guy was online and i read him you question..this is da answer he gave me ....
"We almost are in the same situation as you..I'm gonna go to another country for 4 years for my higher studies and she will only see me few times a year.. the thing is this is not as difficult as it seems.. dear sis you are not the first one to go through this.. there are loads of people who came through this or if not you have us... even we were pretty much worried in the first place as what to do... but let me give an advice to you... don't let go... just hold on...we are going to have a harder time than you even... cos it's a way longer period and we are both in seperate other countries which is not our mothercountry... so sister the distance doesn't matter...the only thing you have to do is to have a long distance dedication..... the key thing is to keep in touch as much as ppossible... not seeing your guy is tough... i know... but with time you may be able to adapt to that... just keep him in your heart..i'm just saying.. "so close no matter how far, couldn't be much more from the heart, forever trusting who we are , and nothing else matters.." goodluck sister... this will be posted by my girl who's in a country so far away while i'm writing this...
hy im his gal hear ..darling im teling u pls go ahead i dont regreat..taking the chance caz my guy is da best no matter how far he is his jus near my heart..and his all mine ..dont b scard i ws scrad my self....belive me ...i didnt know wht to do but jus go aead ..its better dan nt knwing wht u 2 wil end up with.
2006-11-26 14:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Oshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my wife got married 7 days before I left for Iraq, and though i know there are 1000 people at home for her I trust tht if she felt that strongly toward me she will wait and be patient. You cant just say no to a long distance relationship if you care about them. If you do the in a year he may not want a real one, do you understand? I say do it, be patient and send lots of letters even cute little ones thats say only hi i love you and good bye. Pictures help too. But you must let him go, becuse if you hold him away from his move it may push him away for good
2006-11-26 22:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by Quoth the Raven on this one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what its going to be hard, isn't it?
He'll be moving on & your relationship will never be the same again. More than likely he will meet someone he'll like to date. So here is what I suggest for you:
Keep in touch with him but begin dating others & let him know he is free to date others also. You can see each other when he is home & keep in touch in between but eventually your romance is bound to peter out. Let it go gently. You're young & you will find someone you like. Someday you'll meet the right person for you at the right time & place.....timing is everything.
2006-11-26 22:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...College is a time for exploration and self discovery. It is too stressfull on both sides to hold on to a relationship long distance while in college. If you decide to stay, just realize that you need to trust him.
2006-11-26 22:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by D'Mi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋