I need advice, I needed to break up with my girlfriend, she abuses me, what should I do? she wants another try

Question

I truly have never loved anyone in my 26 years, but I truly love me late girlfriend.
Anways there has been just one thing that plagued this realtionship and built up inside her since a few months ago. I think I was too honest with her when she asked me how many partners Ive had, and what my past was. It maybe none of her busness, I guess but I wanted to be a honest good man. I have been with 8 and kissed about a dozen, and I know that is not the most abnormal thing, she has told me she has been with 4. The thing is that she has been abusive towards me physically and emotionally when she thinks about it. She occasionally trapped with with questions like " why did you sleep with this one and what did you do? " I have told her that there is no point bringing back the past it only hurts us both and its pointless. She then would slap me if I didnt want to anser or if she didnt like the answer, other than that she is so wonderful. She wants to see a counsellor and for me to forgive her.

Answer 1

She should not have asked about your past if she didn't want to accept the answer. Your past should stay in the past. No one has the right to abuse another person for any reason. She should go to counselling to deal with her anger issues. You should forgive her but you don't have to stay in the relationship.

Answer 2

Sounds like she is a possessive spoiled brat! Women are abusers as well. You are 26 years old. Think hard if this is the kind of life you want to have for the rest of your life. Wake up. You deserve far better than her. Emotional abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Both of them will bring you down and make you depressed and bring your self esteem down fast. Forget counseling...its just another ploy for her to keep you under her thumb. Tell her as much as you love her you are letting her go. End of discussion and stay away from her....no phone, no email, no text messages. Move on before she ruins you!

Answer 3

Tell her to get counseling NOW, there is no reason for her
to hit you. As for your past, unless you have a child with
another woman that keeps you in that past, than she doesn't
need to know anything. And if you did share things with her
about your past relationships she needs to be an adult and
realize that was your past. Don't let this person mess you
up because you have deep feelings for her. Some women
are crazy like that, so be careful.
Good Luck to Ya

Answer 4

tell her that if she keeps asking you these pointless questions,then your going to have to start lying to her because your face cant stand the abuse anymore