He will NOT do it even though I told him it meant a lot to me.
2006-11-26 13:50:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesn't mean he wins all arguments, it simply means you have no backbone and give in. If he is the sort who doesn't care about your feelings I would dump him.
2006-11-26 13:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have met your family BEFORE you got engaged! Dump him before you make a huge mistake. That is a red flag!!! A guy that has no interest in your family, is a selfish man. If he always wins arguements, even if he is not right, leave RIGHT NOW!!! Im telling you. You can NOT change him!!! A relationship is very much 50/50. IF he doesnt respect your opinions and always needs to be right, you are going to continue to miserably lose arguements.
I know you do not want to hear that. But this doesnt sound like a good situation.
2006-11-26 21:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of my business, but you are asking the question so here is my opinion. If you have clearly stated your feeling, that it means alot to you, and he hasn't even considered it or thought about it, I don't think that's a good sign. That's with anything, but with meeting the family, even if you hate your family he should at least have met them once. I would not marry any man who refuses to meet my family, or care about my opinion.
2006-11-26 21:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by Toni B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your fiance, he must meet your family!
This is non negotiable.
If you want your family to approve of your marriage (and if he is your fiance, a marriage is coming up), he must meet them.
Of course, you do not need their approval, but a family that is unhappy with your marriage can come up with new and interesting ways to make your life uncomfortable.
Your fiance does not have a leg to stand on. Not a long term leg, anyway. If the marriage is on, he must meet your family!
2006-11-26 21:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have reason(s) why he won't meet your family. and if it's just because, then i think you should keep on digging for answer(s). he might be holding back answers.he should meet your family, after all, if you're going to have children, he should meet the people who're going to be going to be your children's grandparents.i think you two need to have a serious discussion as to why he won't do it---especially when it means alot to you.good luck!
2006-11-26 21:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by K.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋