Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I have an older sister who is always trying to start trouble in my family. I know many things about her sons,and what other people say about her behind her back. She babysits her one son's child and they are constantly complaining to my daughter how they can't stand her. Her other son is gay and I have known it for many, many years, but I would never tell her because I feel that is her family and their business. She thinks my aunts and uncles and my children like her and they make fun of her all the time and immitate her behind her back. She gives her grandson things to eat and drink ( which her son tells her not to) and she still does it. She ran her house like a Hitler camp when her kids were young, and has a son who lives in another state and can't stand to be in the same room with her. He lived with me for awhile cause he couldn't stand her. She has tried to cause trouble in my brothers family between his kids and them and she is doing the same to me now with my daughters.

2006-11-25 16:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by Corina 6 in Family

be honest

2006-11-25 16:00:35 · 7 answers · asked by Sharp 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 16:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by RIO10GAL 2 in Friends

he is 35 but hangs out with unmarried boys of 25yrs and the only thing they get to talk about are girls. i am suspecting he hangs out with them to get some girls. what do i do?

2006-11-25 15:59:55 · 24 answers · asked by bode 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughters 14 but isn't really ready for the touching & feeling that goes on in real dating. She's been to movies & dances but thinks she's abnormal because she's not ready for more. I was 15 when I had my first boyfriend. Is there a certain age where teens should be ready for more? If it were up to me she'd be this way for the next 3 years but she's not happy feeling this way so should I just leave it alone or push her? My nephew was 11 when he started french kissing girls but I think that was way too young. Any thoughts?

2006-11-25 15:59:18 · 26 answers · asked by gitsliveon24 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 15:58:23 · 11 answers · asked by imran 1 in Friends

my mom kicked my dad out when I was 3, he was an alcholic, he is sober now after 10 years, but he lives in cicero, and i dont. My mom wont let me live w/ him. But i do, then dont.

2006-11-25 15:58:21 · 9 answers · asked by dark_angell999@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

she was at work at a Denny's(her second job) and at 4:30 in the morning he came in and broke up with her saying that he didn't trust her. Mind you, he just came from a "titty" bar. but she's not allowed to have any guy friends. even though she has some...she isn't allowed to see them.

2006-11-25 15:57:30 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

what if you did some stupid things last year and you said sorry to everyone later on. but this year the same people told everybody in your new school what happened so now you can't even get any friends or even a boyfriend because they thought you were a s.l.u.t. . what would you do to try and clear up your reputation and get a guy?

2006-11-25 15:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Holly♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there's this guy. i really, really like him. i cant stop thinking about him...but see, there's this problem, the guys like...really...big...like obese. and i dunno what to do! why do i like him?! i mean, if it had been anyone else, ill be like, eww. and i wouldnt give the guy a second chance...

2006-11-25 15:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i girl knows u like her and does the following:
1) say "whether we become acquaintances, friends or whatever, i won't regret anything", what does the whatever mean? she has said in the past there is a possibility but has seemed unsure lately

2) while talking about pants, touch your pants on your thigh to judge how loose they are.

is this flirting?

2006-11-25 15:55:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here is goes my friend went to see her ex the other night and said she couldn't stand it anymore she was moving back he said I don't want you back here. He then rolled over and cuddled her close to him for about 15mins and she said "didn't you say I should go away and do the police force thing or go overseas for a bit then decide if I want to be here with you then she said does that still stand and he said yes! She has since had a job offer for work over there for about a month or so! and she has talked to a person that knows him really well and this person and her ex's mother have both said she should go away and then come back!! Do you think at the end of it from what I have said that thats what he wants for her to get out and try something else! As I think this is what it sounds like! He said to her he isn't going anywhere he just wants to be by himself for a while!! While she was there the other night his dad pulled up she said would you like me to go in the other

2006-11-25 15:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are planning and paying for our wedding ourselves. Because we are on a tight budget, we are planning to go out to dinner after our wedding and small "cake and punch" reception. We want everyone to know that they are welcome to join us - but on seperate tabs. How can we go about making it known to everyone that we'd love the company, but dinner is "Dutch Treat?" It seems most people don't know what "going Dutch" means anymore, and we want to be clear, but not tacky or rude. I can't find anything about it on any of the "Etiquette" websites.

2006-11-25 15:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by cinren13 4 in Weddings

For 5 years. NO CHILDREN after married for 11 years.

2006-11-25 15:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by bob 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 15:51:52 · 12 answers · asked by santi girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok there's this boy name dillon and I really like him and I really didn't want him to know but my friend told him...and now everytime he sees me he always looks at me I also catch him staring at me but then he looks away and it's very akward! How do I get him to notice me more???

2006-11-25 15:51:22 · 12 answers · asked by Aimey N 1 in Singles & Dating

that we would spend the holidays together. It works well for both of us because neither of us have a boyfriend or girlfriend since it's so difficult with kids and we both put our children first. While it was a nice holiday and the kids loved it, sometimes I feel so selfish for our marriage ending, I was so unhappy and couldn't stand staying married to him but now I wonder if I made the right decision since it seems like there's no one out there for me at this time. I often feel destined to be alone, do you truly think we meet just one mate in a lifetime? Do you think we ever have chance at love again? It's been two years now and not a glimmer of hope, I'm starting to lose faith. What do you think?

2006-11-25 15:51:09 · 15 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 15:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by non active 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and i asked him out once. only once, and he didnt say no to my face. He said it to my friends. I didnt want them to ask him, but they did behind my back. Is what they did made him say no, because i really love him. He is the same sweet guy around me, and he talks to me all the time, but he has not said a word about what happened. Does he like me? Hoe can i really tell? help please.

2006-11-25 15:50:37 · 7 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex fiance and I broke up in june after being together 2 years, he has two little girls 5 and 8 who became very attached to me as well as me to them, their mom likes me alot, she has full custody but while we were together the girls spend alot of time with us.

My ex swore if we ever ended he would never keep me from them, because i am like a second mom to them.

Since we broke up in June, he has become very bitter with me, he told the girls mom, who live 100 miles away that he did not want me to call or be around the girls again, they had a huge arguement over this, she told him she had custody and the girls loved me and insisted on calling me everytime they come to town.
They called me Wed. before thanksgiving to let me know they will be in town their mom says they want to see me, they were here for 5 days and he told them every time they asked "NO" they could not see me, I do not talk to him, and don't want to, I feel so sad for the girls, do i ignore the girls, or him

2006-11-25 15:48:40 · 11 answers · asked by snickerdoodle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-25 15:48:16 · 33 answers · asked by mikeyheinstein2 1 in Singles & Dating

The size of a guy does matter. I'm so tired of women lying about it. So what about the guys ego, we all have flaws and things we would like to change about ourselves. At least the size is something hidden to most people. Average is 6 inches to me, larger is 7-8. Any bigger is kind of too big.

What is attractive about an average or small sized guy? Nothing. It doesn't buldge out of his pants or turn you on. The sad part is when a smaller guy is flacid, he is even smaller in percentage than a flacid bigger guy. The bigger guy gains less inches when erect meaning he is bigger in the begining. You can't feel the same satisfaction from an average size guy than a bigger guy.

So stop lying ladies, it does matter, just admit it!!!

2006-11-25 15:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by Erica B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 15:47:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend of mine and she is coming back from thanksgiving, and I want to surprise her; very romanticlly... any ideas? I could use some advice... I want to make a really good impression... we have been dating since february. I want to show her that I still have in me the same as when we met, but 10 times fold, but i am not made of money.... get my point??

2006-11-25 15:47:33 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,this guy is drooling over me one day and hates me the next.He even said he likes me,but he keeps changing his mind.Does he like me?????????

2006-11-25 15:47:13 · 12 answers · asked by Austinlover 1 in Singles & Dating

how to get more people on my 360 page! My wife says she can get more then me by the end of Monday, but I have something on mine she doesn't!

2006-11-25 15:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Mum and I had a huge fight because she got upset that I broke up with my bf, whom sh really likes. What should I do? My sister is looking forr me, should i go home? But i dont want to face my mum.

2006-11-25 15:46:33 · 8 answers · asked by Pennexx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a girlfriend.
Most boys are very excited about that.

Girls are to..But my friends are worried about me
just going through this "phase" But I'm not, I really
am Bisexual.

I just really need help.

Do you think that Being bisexual is abnormal.
or should people just leave me alone?

2006-11-25 15:46:32 · 13 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Singles & Dating

there's a guy that i recently started to like...i want him to notice me and ask me out..any suggestionS? btw i can't flirt...and i can never find the right thing to say in silent moments...any pick up lines? or something to make him smile? suggestions? please help!

2006-11-25 15:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been sleeping with this girl for a few weeks. When we first got together it was purely on the premise that we would NOT have a relationship. We would ONLY date, and if there were benefits (sex, etc.) that those would stand alone. Now, she is horridly clingy, won't leave me alone, etc. I've told her flat out "There is no WE" and, "We aren't in a relationship, period." She doesn't seem to understand that. She calls me daily, sometimes 3 and 4 times a day, and leaves messages constantly. She won't go away... How do I get her to go away? Yeah, I quit sleeping with her a while ago! I've even introduced her to other women that I've gone so far as to kiss infront of her! What's the deal???

2006-11-25 15:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by cyanne2ak 7 in Singles & Dating