Ok here is goes my friend went to see her ex the other night and said she couldn't stand it anymore she was moving back he said I don't want you back here. He then rolled over and cuddled her close to him for about 15mins and she said "didn't you say I should go away and do the police force thing or go overseas for a bit then decide if I want to be here with you then she said does that still stand and he said yes! She has since had a job offer for work over there for about a month or so! and she has talked to a person that knows him really well and this person and her ex's mother have both said she should go away and then come back!! Do you think at the end of it from what I have said that thats what he wants for her to get out and try something else! As I think this is what it sounds like! He said to her he isn't going anywhere he just wants to be by himself for a while!! While she was there the other night his dad pulled up she said would you like me to go in the other
2006-11-25 15:53:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
room so he doesn't know i'm here and he said no just stay in here with me!! So by the sounds of it it sounds like they all want her to go away then decide as if she gets back with him it is a life long commitment if he takes over the business from his father. You ideas are much appreciated. Thankyou
He mother also told her that she thinks he could be giving her this time to go away and do what she wants before they get back together!
Her ex his mother and his mothers friend all think that all they need is a bit of time apart and space and they'll end up back together it's like they all know something?
2006-11-25 15:54:10 · update #1
And everytime she turned around he was looking at her and then he would quickly look away. He looks her straight in the eye if they have sex (which is not everytime she goes there)
2006-11-25 15:58:53 · update #2
i found this story really confusing....
2006-11-25 15:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by tutsie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that she shuld move on since like the whole family doesn't want them back together and I know that she can find someone else.
2006-11-25 23:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. Let them work it out.
If you guess the wrong way and they do, or don't, get back together you could end up losing a least one friend.
Instead let them know it's their decision and you will support what ever that is, even if they change their mind.
and put a little punctuation to let us know when the sentence is supposed to end.
2006-11-26 03:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your buddy has a partner who will not communicate with them honestly and openly, that is cause for concern. You may suggest couples counselling. If the party in question is not willing to commit to that, I suggest your buddy not commit to them.
Best of luck.
2006-11-26 00:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bud, time to party. call some friends and get stepping. a new girl with her mind made up is right around the corner. trust me, lonely woman are a dime a dozen. be nice
2006-11-25 23:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by JPARIS3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is WAY to complicated and weird. You don't send people away to get to know themselves better. your friend either wants to be with him or she doesn't. It sounds liek she does, but he can't make up his mind. She needs to cut her losses and find someone else. If it is meant to work out they'll find each other again and if it isn't they'll find someone even better for themselves.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-25 23:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by espressoaddict22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be many things that is causing the problem, you gave too little information to conclude his problem, many things i did not understand, but forget the opinion of others and follow your heart-
2006-11-26 00:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant understand what you are trying to say don't make any senses.
2006-11-26 00:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say what??????
2006-11-25 23:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋