I have an older sister who is always trying to start trouble in my family. I know many things about her sons,and what other people say about her behind her back. She babysits her one son's child and they are constantly complaining to my daughter how they can't stand her. Her other son is gay and I have known it for many, many years, but I would never tell her because I feel that is her family and their business. She thinks my aunts and uncles and my children like her and they make fun of her all the time and immitate her behind her back. She gives her grandson things to eat and drink ( which her son tells her not to) and she still does it. She ran her house like a Hitler camp when her kids were young, and has a son who lives in another state and can't stand to be in the same room with her. He lived with me for awhile cause he couldn't stand her. She has tried to cause trouble in my brothers family between his kids and them and she is doing the same to me now with my daughters.
2006-11-25 16:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by Corina 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I did put a distance between her and I, but she is still in my business through my children. I never told her all these years what others have said about her and what are saying about her now. But, she is trying to cause friction between my children and me now, and my children TELL me everything.
2006-11-25 16:23:23 · update #1
Keep your distance! Jealousy is a bad trait. I recommend that you keep your distance from her, and surround yourself with people that support you and make you feel good about yourself. You will be much happier when you are surrounded by people that lift you up, rather than drag you down.
2006-11-25 16:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be jealous of you, but you sure are not helping matters by allowing every one to talk about her behind her back. This is a family problem and either the entire family should sit down to talk with her or distance themselves. You may not be able to do anything about her actions, but you can tell her how you feel. Also, I would say that maybe you should take a look at your actions because you can always change yourself. From what I am reading you are talking about her and that is gossip, you are bringing the rest of her family into your problems. You and your sister sounds like a piece of work. Work on yourself and whatever she says or does will not affect you so much. It may come to a point where you and her should just put distance between you. I do hope that one day both of you are able to work it out and maybe come back together. But for now I think you should both take time and work on yourselves. If her family is her business, then don't talk about them at all. Take this time for you and your family in focusing on your relationship.
2006-11-25 16:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
some times its hard when family does those types of things...really i dont see any thing that you can do...think about this...how much control do you have over the situation...i know that it hurts but can you really make the choices that you sister has or that your daughters have...your daugters grew up with you...try to trust thier chioces...and support them even though it hurts...
2006-11-25 16:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by mytedominatrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really didnt see a question in this. It just seemed like u told all your sisters busisness.
2006-11-25 16:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by brieseptember 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remove yourself from her.
2014-09-30 04:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋