I've been sleeping with this girl for a few weeks. When we first got together it was purely on the premise that we would NOT have a relationship. We would ONLY date, and if there were benefits (sex, etc.) that those would stand alone. Now, she is horridly clingy, won't leave me alone, etc. I've told her flat out "There is no WE" and, "We aren't in a relationship, period." She doesn't seem to understand that. She calls me daily, sometimes 3 and 4 times a day, and leaves messages constantly. She won't go away... How do I get her to go away? Yeah, I quit sleeping with her a while ago! I've even introduced her to other women that I've gone so far as to kiss infront of her! What's the deal???
2006-11-25 15:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by cyanne2ak 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, some of those answering didn't READ the description. I told her flat out, BEFORE we started even dating that there would be NO relationship EVER. I continue to tell her that. I've gone to the point now where I refuse to see her and she won't take NO for an answer.....it's creepy. Yeah, I've had some 15 years experience with women, and never had one flake out like this. It's creepy.
2006-11-25 16:00:12 · update #1
Block her calls and just ignore her, or you can go out with her for like a day then break up with her so she understands that its really over. Mainly you should just ignore her, if you never see her then she can't talk to her.
2006-11-25 16:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by honkytonkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should never tell a woman before you sleep with her what you told her. Women do not think the same as men. The minute you stuck it to her; you were married. If you have any experiece with women at all, you should not even be asking this question, in my mind. No offense bro, but come on....... Unless she is flat out ugly, and you both did you know what a a keg party, that is still not an excuse..... Dont stick it unless you plan to stick with it.
2006-11-25 15:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she wanted more from the beginning. She must be co-dependent and is having a hard time realizing that you don't feel the same. Sometimes people have a hard time letting go and it sounds like she is one of those people. Once she realizes that you are not sharing the same feelings in the relationship that she is I think she will get the hint sooner or later, otherwise just tell her to get a life!
2006-11-25 15:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by rhythmoftheblues 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just sit down and talk to her PERSONALLY. In this matter, you can actually tell her how you feel. Say that you're sorry but you two are just not meant for eachother. If you can't handle it, let the pressure go and release it by finding a solution.
2006-11-25 15:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The deal is that you slept with her and now she thinks you have a relationship. You can't expect a girl to do this and to think nothing of it. It's normal for her to expect you to be there if she's sleeping with you. You're going to keep having this reaction if you expect women to sleep with you and you treat them this way.
2006-11-25 15:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need to ignore her and quit talking to her entirely. She'll get the point.
2006-11-25 15:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't honestly expect there to be sex with no relationship can you? Grow up! And if you can't, just hire a prostitute. No relationship worries there.
2006-11-25 15:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by WILSON 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing says stay away like an order of protection.
2006-11-25 15:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing says "I don't want a relationship" like intimacy.
2006-11-25 15:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fatal Attraction dude.
They may agree to sleep with u with no attachments but they dont mean it. youre f*cked.
2006-11-25 15:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋