Ok there's this boy name dillon and I really like him and I really didn't want him to know but my friend told him...and now everytime he sees me he always looks at me I also catch him staring at me but then he looks away and it's very akward! How do I get him to notice me more???
2006-11-25 15:51:22 · 12 answers · asked by Aimey N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you talked to him? Sounds like he likes you just say hi. whats the worst that could happen?
2006-11-25 15:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Erika B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Aimey...
I'm a guy, so take it with a grain of salt... but one that comes from a guy's point of view.
Guys are more visually simulated than girls. No duh, huh? So, if he's looking at you or staring and then glancing away, he's noticing you in a big way. Now, this is either really good or really bad. It's really good if he's a shy kind of guy. It's really bad if he's looking away because he's not sure how to tell you he's not interested. So, hate to say this, but your impression of your looks and your friend's opinions on your looks are big indicator of which is the case.
If you even suspect he's interested... it means he's shy. So, be bold. Make the first move yourself. Go to him, when it's not crowded, so there's less pressure on either of you... and just let him know you'd like to get to know him better. If he's interested, he will be pretty surprised... but he'll be game for a date or something. Just keep the "date" low key and low pressure. No expectations on either side for anythign other than a fun time. Don't make it into a DATE. Make it a fun time out... go to the roller rink, a bookstore, someplace "non-datey". Just have fun.
And if it turns out he's not interested... it's his loss, not yours. Heck, he might have some cute guy friends that turn out to be a better catch anyways. Just keep this mindset... it's very important to keep this thought in your mind...
It's no big deal. He's just a guy. If he likes me, great, we have fun together. If not, no big deal, there's hundreds more out there. And it's a lot easier for a girl to meet guys than for guys to meet girls.
Good luck
2006-11-25 16:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Speedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like Dillon already notices you! If he's sneaking glances at you in class, he probably likes you. your friend did the right thing by telling him, because it sounds like he is quite shy.
To get him to notice you more, try smiling at him when you catch him peeking. Or, say "hi dillon" in the halls. When i like someone and they take the time to say hi to me, it means something dear to my heart.
Good luck! and kiss him for me LOL
2006-11-25 15:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you knows you like him he's obviously noticed you enough. If he keeps looking at you that's a good thing. Because he wouldn't look a second time if he didn't like what he saw the first. Just approach him yourself and ask to hang out. Good luck!
2006-11-25 15:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very straight up, obviously he likes you other wise he wouldnt stare so much. Just sit by him during lunch. Go to the movies. If you have a class together sit by him.
2006-11-25 15:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I have the SAME EXACT SENARIO!!!
Try to get to know him more, maybe talk to him.
Write him a note, an e-mail, a text message.
Then start to get into things that you both like.
Maybe once he sees that you like him,
he will be like "wow, a girl who likes what I like!"
If you try to get close to him, maybe you'll find you don't
like him as much as you thought you did.
:)
good luck.
2006-11-25 15:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Shauna. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have enough attention from him. Approach him. he probably likes you as much as you like him. ask him if he wants to meet at a coffee shop or a little gazebo where you two can talk. That's how me and my husband met.
*IM me sometime, i'm lookin 4 new friends!*
2006-11-25 15:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi to him or go up tohim. dont be shy at all cuz then he will start to forget that u evem liked him. show him ur there. be outgoing around him. and in the halls say hi and stuff. dont be scared and if he thinks ur werd for doing that then hes not a true perosn to be liking
2006-11-25 15:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by jessicacd91 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, all i can say is that don't push it. When he sees that you are desperate, he might use u and bump u. Act as if u do not notice and he will notice you.
2006-11-25 16:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Taina Devi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is already noticing you more ,by looking at you every minute he get's . go to him and talk to him since he already knows or just look back at him and wink....go from there
2006-11-25 15:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋